Originally posted by: fruitshake
I am always anxious if I unknowingly did something that could upset my colleagues or other persons. It has been a problem for me from the school days as I always had the habit of double-checking if my classmates understood what I meant to say and reassuring them that I meant good. I overthink if my actions were taken in bad light by people in my workplace; earlier it used to be people in my college, university etc. Many times, I don't confront individuals who are dismissive or rude towards me. I feel rage within me and want to confront them so badly and oppose their opinions but I just cannot do that in real life. It's something that I desperately want to change but I have no luck changing that as I rather have that rage within and curse them internally but cannot take it out on them. I go back to overthinking if i was perceived badly by the individuals.
It will get better as you grow up. I was like that till my i reached 29..i am much better from tge past couple of years.. I can rant and be rude via text to my tormentors but never on phone or to their face. I am slightly better at it now but I still can't be very assertive..
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