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He didn't name anyone therefore I don't understand how it becomes wrong. He just said I have sex. So did Arjun Kapoor in last season's KWK.
How is one supposed to see their partners during episodes of casual sex or one night stands - be it male or female? Are they supposed to think about what a good soul they have, or have a conversation on GST and demonetization and then get to the main part that is sex and pleasure for a night? Isn't the girl who is looking for casual sex also seeing the man she wants to have sex with just as someone with whom she just wants to have sex with? Isn't pleasure the main part of casual sex??? Now, why pull him up just because he said how things in his circle work??And what's with conquest? Was this word used in the conversation? I am not aware.
One must treat their sexual partner as a human being with feelings who deserves respect. It does not matter if it is a spouse or a casual encounter. If people cannot show human decency, then perhaps they should resort to self-pleasure and/or toys.
There is a big difference between admitting that you have had casual sex and being a misogynist who uses their celebrity status to use as many women as you can so as to appear cool, hip and stoke your masculinity. He may have not used the literal words, but he sees women as sex objects to be conquered.
And the African part - there we go with the liberal political correct bullshit. The man didnt demean the community. He didnt pass crude comments..he just said when he hangs out with his west Indian mates, he feels he can relate because it kind of goes with his personality which only shows he has no ill feeling towards them. But...but..but let's outrage because he said he is black and completely miss the context.
It is wrong to take someone else's culture and identity to make yourself appear cool. It is especially wrong when you take an oppressed identity and make it your own. It is racist to call yourself black simply because you emulate their culture and style to appear cool. It is racist to call yourself black when you have light skin privilege and will never experience oppression like they do. It is racist to enjoy black culture and mannerisms when black people will actually be looked down on or discriminated against for doing the same.
For me it's not about being liberal or politically correct. It is about respecting people and their identities.
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