Bebo couldn't get maternity insurance for VDW

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Now i remember, Bebo was supposed to shoot this film while she was pregnant. They had changed the script to accommodate that even

I was six-and-a-half months pregnant, had spoken to the doctors and everything was good to go, but we didn't get the maternity insurance. Rhea called me and said that's fallen through, and that she can't make the film because she can't take me on the floors to shoot without insurance - Kareena Kapoor Khan

Long time no see, Kareena Kapoor Khan says in lieu of a greeting last Saturday when t2 met her at the Sun 'n' Sand Hotel in Juhu, Mumbai. It's been a while since Kareena was last seen on the big screen. Two years to be exact. "I missed this... all the excitement as the release comes closer, she says. Kareena's first movie outing since giving birth to son Taimur is Veere Di Wedding, releasing on June 1.

In a freewheeling chat, Kareena talks about her Veere co-stars Sonam Kapoor, Swara Bhasker and Shikha Talsania, her post-baby body and Taimur.

What kind of a relationship do you share with your Veere Di Wedding co-actresses?

I think that the four of us were perfect choices for the movie, because we respected each other as professionals and at the same time, it was a super fun group of women. I've known Sonam forever... she's a darling and a super girl, and Swara and Shikha are outstanding. I jokingly keep asking Swara why she has to intellectualise everything, just because she's an intellectual actor and I'm a commercial one. We keep having fun like that. Shikha, I think, is supremely talented.

I heard that Rhea Kapoor, who's co-produced this film, thought you wouldn't be interested...

(Laughs) Yeah... People were used to seeing me in typical Bollywood films, either with a Salman or a Shah Rukh or an Aamir, so everyone thought I only did those kind of films. I've always wanted to do different things. So, it was a conscious decision to do Ki & Ka with Arjun (Kapoor), who's younger than me, or Udta Punjab. Rhea thought I wouldn't be interested. We met somewhere and I asked her to give me the script. A typical mainstream actor would think, It's great that there are four girls, but am I the central part?' When I read the script, though, I loved it I loved the language and the world. It was so different for me to be a part of this world. I immediately told her that I wanted to do the film.

And then you got pregnant?

I said yes' to the film, and exactly two-and-a-half to three months after that, I got pregnant. I was in Rome for a holiday and I told Saif (Ali Khan, husband) that I didn't want to lie to Rhea and make her wait. So I called her up and told her I'm on my way back and that I'd like to meet. I think by then she was already sensing something. When she walked into the room, even before I could say anything, she said, You're pregnant'. Apparently she felt' it.

I told her to approach someone else to do the role, but she stood her ground and said that she wouldn't make this film without me. She said she'd go back to the writers and call me back in a month. So, then the script was changed and they made my character pregnant. I spoke to Saif about it and he said that as long as the timings were fine and I was comfortable doing it, I should go ahead.

I was six-and-a-half months pregnant, had spoken to the doctors and everything was good to go, but we didn't get the maternity insurance. Rhea called me and said that's fallen through, and that she can't make the film because she can't take me on the floors to shoot without insurance. I told her it's a sign and that she should just go ahead and make the film with someone else. This couldn't be our only opportunity to work together!

Once again, Rhea refused to listen. She said, I have already waited six months and I am fine with waiting for another six months'. I told her that I'd need more than six months to get back on set but she was adamant. And it all worked out I delivered Taimur, and six-and-a-half months later, I was on the sets ready to shoot.

Did it put extra pressure knowing that you had to look camera-ready within a certain time frame after you delivered?
There was never any pressure from Rhea. She told me that we'd shoot regardless of the shape I'm in, and that I should do it however I want without stressing about it. But I've always been a very fit person, always eating right. My mom (Babita) just asked me today what she should make for Sunday lunch and I told her I want karela and sai bhaji. I have always been a healthy eater. Being that way just helped me to get back in shape faster.


Did it feel different to go back on set? Did you take Taimur with you on set?

I took him with me to Delhi, but I didn't take him to the shoot because he was just six-seven months old at the time. I had to adjust my timings to ensure I got a certain amount of time with him through the day. It was a lot of fun to get back on set... it was as if I was never away. Actually, I wasn't really away. I was shooting for ads until I was nine months pregnant. I liked it because it kept me active and the doctors encouraged it.

Are you enjoying motherhood?

I love it and I think it's the best part of my life. I just don't want to leave Taimur for a second. Even if I'm not there playing with him all the time, I need him to be around me. I feel like if he is around me, I can protect him.

Motherhood is said to be a transformative period. Does life feel different?

The only thing different is that I am constantly worried! (Laughs) And I am told this is going to be there for the rest of my life, whether he's six months old or 16 or 26. I'm 37, but my mother still calls me or sends messages to ask whether I've packed up and eaten. She's told me that this is a lifelong responsibility and that I need to learn to live with this worry.

Do you have a new appreciation for mothers who work?

Of course! Women are just so much better at multitasking. I'm lucky to have Saif who's quite supportive but he does get irritated if I'm not home by 6 or 6.30. He says that I should make it a point that my son sees me before he goes to bed, and I always try and do that, especially now that he's getting older.

Taimur is probably the most famous baby in the country. Did Saif and you talk about how visible you'd want him to be?
We did. Saif's so against Taimur being photographed so much... he doesn't like it at all. At the same time, we know that there's nothing we can do about it. I want to tell people that he's just 17 months old, just leave him alone. But nobody takes us seriously. In Hollywood, publications don't print pictures of kids anymore, they blur the face out and I think that they should here as well. As parents, it's our responsibility to give Taimur as normal a life as possible I can't keep him behind closed doors and within four walls all the time. I want him to have the most normal life, meet family and friends. Photographers are trailing Taimur constantly... it's unbelievable.

There's no announcement about what you're doing next, is there?

They'll announce it when they have to, but I am going to do only one film at a time. I've just finished Veere Di Wedding and Saif's just finished his Netflix show (Sacred Games), and he's now shooting for Navdeep's (Singh) film. Obviously, we have to balance it out. So, once he gets done in November is when I'll start shooting another film.

Talking about Saif, he's been going through a rough patch in his career...

I think it's his choices. He won't do a commercial movie just because it'll work at the box office. He'd rather do a Kaalakaandi, which is slightly different. I don't know how people look at it, but his choices are slightly different and some will work and some won't.

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Kareena Kapoor Khan: Your life can't be about a social media post. I think it has become a sham


She has always lived her life with confidence, spunk and style. She's not the kind to harp about feminism and gender debates, but her actions speak volumes. The actress tied the knot when her career was smooth sailing and eyes rolled and heads turned disdainfully. But firebrand Kareena Kapoor Khan proved the cynics wrong. Years later, she unabashedly posed for the paps with a baby bump, glowing with pride. And now, while 17-month-old Taimur is wowing everyone with his boundless cuteness quotient, mommy is slaying it in the upcoming buddy film, 'Veere Di Wedding', which is about four babes and their life, love and friendship. At this point, Kareena seems to be like an unstoppable force of talent. In a chat with BT, she talks about her various roles in life as a super actress, proud wife and doting mom. Read on...
'Veere Di Wedding' took off and you got pregnant. The makers didn't budge and waited for you to resume work. That must be quite flattering for an actress...
When I shared the news of my pregnancy with Rhea (Kapoor, co-producer), I told her that they should go ahead and cast someone else to play my part. I explained to her that I am in a different phase of my life, and that they should just make the movie with another actress. But Rhea was adamant and she told me that she would wait for me. I think that was very brave on her part. At first, when I heard the story, Rhea was apprehensive if I would be interested in doing a film about four friends. I said, Let me just read it' and when I did that, I totally loved it.

You have not done as many multi-starrers, and reportedly, you had turned down a huge star cast movie like 'Dil Dhadakne Do' (2015), too. And here you are today, doing a film with four ladies. Has there been a change in your thought process when it comes to choosing a film?
Well, 'Veere...' is different as the focus is on four women. It's something that I have not attempted before. When I read the script, I realised that I wanted to be a part of this world and this style of storytelling. The thing is that you have always seen me in big commercial movies with big heroes, and this is nothing like that. And that is what makes it look so fresh. Today, the audience is ready for a fun and entertaining film; it doesn't have to be rocket science. Four of us are dramatically different actors and we are also very different people. I've known Sonam (Kapoor Ahuja) for really long. I keep teasing Swara (Bhasker) and I tell her that she's intellectualising a commercial movie. I tell her, You are such an intellectual' and she turns around and tells me, Kareenaji, kahan aap aise bol rahey ho.' Working with all these girls has been so much of fun. Swara's character in the movie is lovely and she's a fantastic actress. Shikha (Talsania) is from theatre, she's also an incredible actor.

In 'Veere...' you girls are swearing, talking about sex, men, et al. Probably, a few years ago, you wouldn't have done a film like this. Now, with the changing audience, is it easier to take these chances, without fearing scrutiny or being put on a morality meter?
Yes, but this is the kind of audience that we are catering to. Isn't this how real people and women talk to their friends? When my friend Amu (Amrita Arora Ladak) and I sit down to chat, we casually swear about things, this is just how we converse. I have been in the industry for 18 years, if I have done a film like 'Bajrangi Bhaijaan' (2015), I have also done a film like 'Udta Punjab' (2016). As an actor, I have always tried to dabble in different kinds of films. A mainstream commercial actress will always think twice before being a part of a film with four girls. She will think... do I have three songs and couple of action scenes? I never thought like that when I read this script. I said I want to do it.

After your pregnancy, you got back into shape and how! Were you ever worried that you would slip into a comfort zone after the baby, hence, you pushed yourself quickly to shed the weight?
I got back into shape, but that has nothing to do with having a baby. That is my nature, I have always been into yoga and fitness, and it's not new to my life. If you place a plate of pizza and a plate of karele ki sabzi, I will most likely pick the latter. Also, I don't think I got back into action so fast; my son is 17 months now. I wanted to live my life and I did it. About people talking and criticising... today, people have an opinion about everything. It really doesn't matter. I don't live my life for people; I live my life for myself. I don't care about what they say, so it doesn't affect my life.

The film subtly focuses on various subjects; one of them is body shaming. Do you think that way too much time is spent discussing and judging women on grounds of physicality? A woman has to look a certain type before marriage, after marriage, while she is pregnant or after she has delivered. It is a constant pressure...
I think women should embrace themselves however they are, whatever size that they are and do what their heart desires. I don't bother about these trolls and social media. Logon ka dimaag kharab ho gaya hai...with this social media madness. There is this urgency to post this and post that, and then there's also this need to use beauty apps to look prettier in posts. I think it has all become a big mess and it is a sham. You can't live your life like that. Your life can't be about a social media post. It has to be something deeper than that. You need to connect with people and have conversations with them. I am probably more traditional in this respect, but I can't understand this craze. Even for movie promotions, I am told to wear this and that and click pictures for media promotions. I have to look fabulous for my screen character, right? I ask them why they can't click a picture of me in my jeans and a tee. How does it matter? I guess that is the way it is now. When you and I are sitting and talking, this is a real chat. Otherwise, how will you even get to know and understand an actor, if we are constantly sitting with our make-up and great clothes, like our on-screen avatars?

In this film, your character Kalindi appears to be commitment-phobic. Usually, men are depicted to be in that situation, and it's a general belief that men get more anxious about commitment than women. In real life, have you ever been commitment-phobic?
Of course, even women feel the pressure of marriage. Even they have doubts on how it will work out and if they need to follow family rules and things like that. I have never been commitment-phobic in my life; I am quite a sucker for love. In that sense, I am very traditional and different from my character in the film. We have some common traits, too, like she is outspoken, speaks her mind and makes her choices, like I do. But I have never had commitment issues.
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For quite some time now, a lot has been spoken about feminism. Everyone seems to have their own version of what feminism means. What's your take?
I think it's about believing in equality. Women don't need to prove that we are superior; of course, we are superior in many ways to men. But that's not the point here. The whole idea is to talk about equality. I don't have to scream out loud for women's rights to prove that I am feminist.

True. The fact that you went back to work after having a baby, or the fact that you are a working mom makes you as much a feminist, as a woman who chooses to be a homemaker, right?
I love being at home and being a homemaker, and I love being on the set as well. When I am at home, it is my time and my space. I don't want to meet anyone, as its precious time with my family. I love entertaining friends at home and being a wife to Saif, I think that is an amazing feeling. I like travelling the world with him and meeting all his friends. I am proud to be his wife and I'm also proud to be a successful actor. These are two different sides to my life. When I am entertaining friends at home, I am not a star and I don't always have people from Bollywood over. When I am at home, I'm not an actor, and I am very happy to be known as Mrs. Saif Ali Khan. I will be proud to be that all my life. At the same time, when I walk out of this door where there are photographers waiting for me, I am also Kareena Kapoor Khan. So it's lovely. This is the way I am and this is the way I am always going to live my life.

Do you find that new-age fathers are more involved with their children and share the responsibility in raising the child, beyond just providing for the family? Saif also seems very involved as a dad...
I think today it is all about supporting each other. Saif and I are both working actors and at times, it gets tough. When I was doing 'Veere...' he was also shooting, but he would try to get back home to be with Taimur. Now, he's busy shooting for Navdeep Singh's film, so I know that I can't shoot a film until he wraps up his in October-November. We have to balance it out and I think it is a great way to do it. Of course, he does get irritated sometimes when I am not home by 6.30 in the evening because he believes this is family time. It is something that we're both particular about. Sometimes, even he's shooting till late and I understand, because that is how our profession is. But as long as we can support each other, we know that it will work out fine.

Taimur is a superstar on the internet, there is so much of focus on him now. We guess he will draw more attention as he grows up. Does that perturb you?
We want him to have as normal a life as possible; we can't take that away from him. It's his right to have a normal life. We feel awful about the fact that he gets clicked everywhere he goes, but we can't keep him confined to our house, right? He's just 17 months old; he shouldn't be given that kind of focus and attention all the time. Now he reacts to the paparazzi when they call out his name. I know this is reality and I can't run away from it. In time, he will understand what this is all about, and hopefully, Saif and I will be able to keep it as normal and balanced as possible.
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