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Posted: 8 years ago
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This is an odd story that can be found in bollywood movies... or movies in general. It is the story of a boy and a girl. It is the story of this intense physical attraction that can't be expressed in words.

It is Friday evening. Everyone is out having fun. But for him, she is the only one he can think of. The boy Lets call him AK..is at home thinking about her. Trying to come up with scenarios and ways to maybe tell her how he feels. Maybe tonight is the night that he will make that big move of finally talking to her.. After putting 10 to 12 hours of work during the day, seeing her is the highlight of the day for him. He is desperately waiting for that time.. at 10:30, he leaves his house and head out to the gym where she works out. It all begins.


She is generally there with her friend working out... She seem to be looking around the gym... looking for him... Trying to find him... without him, she can't workout. and the minute she sees him, her expression changes. She smiles and gets excited...The next 2 hours at the gym is full of intense moments where he tries to go talk to her.. she tries to come close to him.. They try to avoid each other.. They try to play the game of who should approach who. It is one frustrating game full of intense moments of happiness, frustration and anxiety. Then it is the end of the night. She says good bye to her friend.. she comes back to the gym... does her cardio.. hoping and waiting to see if he approaches her... he can't... then she walks off and before she leaves.. she turns around look at him who is already looking at her hopelessly. Walks away to her car..The night ends!!!!!!!! Frustrated, mad, upset and down on himself, AK... walks back to his car.. vowing that he will talk to her tomorrow.

It is finally tomorrow.. the next day.. It all begins again.. unfortunately it is same story but Different day.. Back at it..

There is a twist in the story just like the movies.. and it is that this is a true story and it is my story. I am the guy and I am just frustrated and irritated with myself.

I am an introvert, shy and I still don't feel comfortable around women. I am the definition of ODD AND WEIRD... and I always felt like an Alien since I couldn't fit in anywhere.

Now I am thinking that I should change my gym.. so I don't see her... I don't want to be this creepy guy looking at her yet can't even make a move... She is probably already frustrated.. whatever she felt, she probably doesn't feel anymore... I am lost!!!!!!!!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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The wise Hippo suggests that it is important for you, your personality, your future that you muster all your strength and let it out one time to that girl. Sometimes we are very afraid, we see blocks, we think it is impossible and we do not have the courage to take action but once we somehow see take that action then things often turn out in a manner that we think okay it was no big deal to begin with.

So for your mindset this is a must. You have to utter something regardless of the results. It is not about the outcome now...just think that if I fail at least I tried and the bigger gain will be the ability to go over things.

Good luck and keep us posted. In terms of movie story this will be a box office disaster lol..unless another hero comes in and charms her..then i see a love triangle.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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awww

^couldn't resist posting the gif :p

I would say... going out of your comfort zone always has it's own benefits. :) (as in talking to her)

See, there's nothing that could go wrong with a simple hi or something, take your own time though.. plus, you have nothing to lose!! Will be an experience for you, think of it as an attempt at getting out of your comfort zone... it'll widen your horizon..

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Posted: 8 years ago
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best wishes...😃 remember, nothing to lose! ..and, if anything, will only add to your experience and personality!
Don't worry okay, make yourself comfortable before anything btw :)


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Posted: 8 years ago
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How you know girl is interested in you ?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I completely understand your difficulty. But tell her. Don't loose her. For all you know, she may be the one. You don't want to look back & regret. You have one life. Muster the courage & let her know. If she accepts, good for you. If she rejects you, even better because you will be able to move on.

If you don't wanna confess immediately, become friends first & then take it slow.. either way, don't just do nothing. Opportunities don't come, they have to be created.It won't do any good for you. Changing your gym won't make it any easier any for you.
Edited by AyeChavanni - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I think even before letting her know that you like her...you need to strike a conversation first and feel comfortabke talking to her. Then you can make a move of making her know your feelings about her.

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