Is Kalki Koechlin worse than Deepika for attention seeking? - Page 8

^You think I have selective opinion on culture. I don't. No one in the forum gives a general opinion of the whole population. It is impossible to do so. We say what we see around, and I see people around me and on social media getting excited for such stuff and people around me having discriminatory practices.And that's what I have written in the post because that's what I see happening around me. Even the census is not 100% accurate and you think we all here share our opinions based on the whole population of India?

Exactly. We have monuments built by different religious sections of India along with those built by the Mughals and the Brits.And I mentioned about the Brits monuments, nothing more than that. You don't have to pity me for your assumptions about me not knowing the history much or not being well read. You are generalizing there too.

Fiery just said whatever she wanted to. I said whatever I wanted to. I still don't get what hurt you so bad that you kept making multiple comments just making assumptions of me.😕 And I NEVER said we have to ape someone or some culture blindly. What you think is blindly aping might not be that for someone else. So while I stop generalizing, you stop assuming.

And if you think people are shoving their opinions down your throats, stop doing it yourself. And frankly speaking, I never thought I would have an argument with you of all people since I almost agree with every opinion you have in other topics😆.Just because our opinions don't match, don't get so crazy. Calm down.😕

End of story from my side.

Edit: And where the hell did I bash India? You yourself are generalizing now. 😆

You said why not copy them if they are progressive. You called entire Indian culture redundant. And said it has nothing unique. Now it is not extreme?

What you see around you or social media is not entire Indian culture.

Countries and cultures are too vast to be judged this way.

That's all. No one is shoving their opinion on you.

Originally posted by: hasini009

*pun intended* ki keemat tum kya jaano AbbaDabbaJabba😆

You Tube subscription toh banta hai boss😛

E-Karma I guess.😆 I had done something similar to Gubbara a while back.

Originally posted by: KochurShaakBata

What did just happen here?😕😆

I gave a random reply to an equally random comment made at my post and now people are scrutinizing that?😆

I didn't comment anything that's anti national.Neither did I verbally attack any member for their opinion or abuse. Without even giving me a chance to reply, I am labelled ignorant, prejudiced, assumed having less intellect and also having low self esteem and a personality disorder. And you guys don't even know me. Thanks for wasting your time on assumptions and essays for someone whom you haven't even interacted before. If my opinion doesn't match with yours, you can counter argument in a better manner I believe, or atleast give me time to reply to your posts before assuming. Saying something against India or it's culture which you don't agree to doesn't make me an anti-national or something living outside India. It's your problem that you can't deal with people having opposite opinions.

And it's all the more weird when members making a hue and cry over people judging them on the basis of their opinions/pushing down opinions through one's throat doing the EXACT SAME THING when tables turn.😆 Dear atominis and others, whatever I said about Indian culture is my personal opinion.Just like you have your choice and add hashtags like #Mychoice to your posts, this is my opinion as well. Your assumptions of me being misinformed or having limited reading because I say something else, will not change my opinion.

To dear cineraria, who spent so much time writing a long essay and then editing it out even before I read it, I am not on IF 24*7.Give me time to read what you wrote AND let me reply before making those brilliant assumptions about myself.

To the desh bhakts writing long essays, I have a scroll in my mouse.I choose what to read and what to not. So from the next time, please don't waste time writing patriotic essays if I say something against Indian culture.Your time is getting wasted,not mine.

And to everybody, who assumed I have anti national thoughts,calm down. I don't. I only gave my opinion on Fiery Phoenix's comment.What was so hurtful in what I wrote? If keeping quite about common things like sex, periods and restricting people to dress the way they want and live the way they want to,even freaking restricting people to eat whatever they want to are a part of the Indian culture and sanskar, then sorry, that for me is redundant. And if the culture of some other country is progressive in such things, I will follow that no matter if that makes me anti Indian or not.

And about my restricted knowledge in history, having several monuments being built by the Mughals,etc doesn't dilute the fact that even the British has built a lot of monuments in the country. Every 3 out of 5 monuments you come across in Calcutta are made by the British. But we still boast of how the biggest cantilever bridge in the world is in India (Howrah Bridge), etc. I spoke about what I see around me, I am not quoting facts or figures.

We for sure are super excited when foreigners mouth Indian dialogues and hindi, people in the west adopt Yoga, we boast how ayurveda,etc everything that's Indian is being used by the world- all these 'not adapting western culture', 'western culture is bad' comments and quotes conveniently disappear. So why should people be termed having personality disorders for aping the west? You are nobody to decide that people are 'blindly' copying western culture. It's the age of globalization people. Get to terms with reality!

Just like someone not highly thinking about sexual freedom doesn't become backward, the same way someone criticizing their own culture doesn't make him/her an anti national or a person who hates India.

From a fellow Indian, who very much resides in India, enjoys many things that the country has to offer,has his own opinions about his own culture and has the freedom and right to talk about it in a public forum.

P.S- Don't bother dragging this issue and arguing about this whole ignorant/misinformed shit any longer. If you have something else to say, I will be happy to respond. 😛

I love you, Kochu.

@ KochurShaakBata

Originally posted by: atominis

Do you even read whole posts or just pounce?

Grey area is that she did not tell if she had sex with an adult or a fellow minor.

She said she allowed someone to have sex with her. That someone could be anyone.

How do you know it was an adult only?

It might have been mistake of two minors also, who didn't think whether they were mature enough for consent to this activity or not.

Her interview is not making definite statement. That's what some members said.

9 year old is not capable of making sound decision. But is capable of being curious, confused or making a mistake, with another minor.

Originally posted by: Mighty-Zeus

@ KochurShaakBata

You post shit like this : " There's no unique touch in Indian culture. It's just redundancy." And then you wonder why people react to it... 😆... Dude , fine have your opinion , post it too , its a free forum , moreover , anti-Indian posts under the disguise of libertarian-whatever philosophy is a norm on this anti-India forum , so its really nothing out of the ordinary, so you certainly aren't an exception but expecting people not to point out your blatant ignorance as well as gross generalizations is taking it a bit too far , no ?.. 😆 ..

I have never said that I won't accept any criticism for what I wrote.But there's surely a way to criticize without making assumptions right? And you too are now making assumptions or generalizing that I am making anti India posts under disguise. So you are doing the same as what you think I am doing.

But thank you for atleast pointing out what part of my post offended some people here. I have been asking this but no one had answered that.

Anyhow I still stick to my opinion of what is seen as Indian culture is redundant. I really can't help if that offends someone.

@bold- If that's true then why are people getting offended or having arguments?

Originally posted by: Mighty-Zeus

Food For Thought : Kalki has clearly said that she is a victim of Child Sex Abuse ( CSA ) .. What does that tell you ? ..Are we still 'assuming' things becoz she used the word 'allowed' ? ..

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/entertainment/hindi/bollywood/news/I-was-sexually-abused-as-a-child-Kalki-Koechlin-Kalki-Koechlin-sexually-abused-as-a-child/articleshow/33436156.cms

I guess so.That's when all the arguments started.

Originally posted by: KochurShaakBata

I have never said that I won't accept any criticism for what I wrote.But there's surely a way to criticize without making assumptions right? And you too are now making assumptions or generalizing that I am making anti India posts under disguise. So you are doing the same as what you think I am doing.

But thank you for atleast pointing out what part of my post offended some people here. I have been asking this but no one had answered that.

Anyhow I still stick to my opinion of what is seen as Indian culture is redundant. I really can't help if that offends someone.

@bold- If that's true then why are people getting offended or having arguments?

Okay she was abused.

But her other interview was cheap. That nipples one. So she is an attention seeker for that.

And generalising is wrong. Culture is not just what you see around you. I did mention the sentences that fetched you such a reply Kochu.

One can criticise an aspect of culture. But not entire culture based on one aspect. Because honestly all Indians don't discriminate during periods or have restriction on eating certain stuff.