Advice

I have a crush on a gay man!!! What do I do?!
Please help!

I'm not sure if he's gay or bisexual, but he certainly has a thing for men..
I tried to forget him but in vain, I'm in the midst of exams and I can't even concentrate on my studies cause all I do is think of him!
He is 23 and sorta my boss at my part time job.


Please help me forget him! This is driving me insane!

Ronaldinha -- your a girl? 😲 ..I always had a feeling you were a guy 😆

yeah I'm a girl 😆

It's so hard to focus on the studies tho... ugh

if you want to forget him, think as much as you can about him...think of him 24/7... think of him whenever you want to think of him...

Originally posted by: nicko787

Go get him girl.

Is he straight acting or feminine?

A year ago, a fem guy was totally hitting on me. He was stalking me for whole night. I don't get into fight or else, he would've got it from me. Worse thing was I was with my date.

But yes, try them. Start with friendship and win their sensitive side.

but I'm not even sure if he's into girls or not? I just ''suspect'' him to be bisexual, but I know for sure that he likes men, whether he likes girls to is a big ? so far.
But see the thing is, even if he's bisexual and not gay, I wouldn't want to have a bisexual guy as a bf. 😕

I just don't know, even the friendship thing is hard, cause I'm really shy, it's hard to start a conversation with him, because I get nervous whenever I'm around him

Originally posted by: nicko787

It really depends how addicted you are.

I only get the addiction feeling after my heart-breaks. Which is rarely.

How old are you? Do you think he would hang out with you besides work?

I think I'm really into him right now.. I even googled him and stuff, and got to know where he went to school, etc (I'm such a stalker I know), he's on facebook but I'm too shy to send him a friendship request.. , I even lost 14lbs b/c of him.

I'm 16 turning 17 in a few months tho
I don't know if he'd hang out with me outside work.

no man is worth failing in ur exams. 😆

Originally posted by: nicko787

Look girls like confident guys and so do guys. Just ease up and think of being casual. It's either yes or a no. Got get your answer than rather not trying. Hey why do you think he is bi/gay? If he is fem than that explains but if he isn't than why? Few gays thought I was bi because I was quite friendly in a case. Infact 1 asked me out to the Ball(Formal), ahh it went down bad. My date (my GF then) slapped him. But yes. Have you seen him with a man?

well there's a bunch of girls my age who started working there, and sometimes while taking the subway home, we gossip and all of them said he was gay, he even dropped hints when ''cute'' boys/men came to the store. And once some folks were talking about sex, and he was like having no sex is impossible for him, and I believe he was refering to gay sex? IDK
And at another time he said something about his ex boyfriend, but then he mentioned an ex girlfriend as well, so it's kinda confusing 😕
It's easier said than done tho, If I were prettier I wouldn't have a problem talking to him, but the way I look, I mean I'm no Aishwarya Rai facewise, in fact all I am is below average.
A gay dude asked u out once? That's funny 😆

Love is a waste! It ruins your life and makes you miserable! Don't fall in love, turn your heart into a stone, that's the secret to happiness!