I'm sure she was annoyed by Madhur's drama queen behaviour; writing a blog about it and making a whole saga out of it. After all this, she wouldn't even like to talk to someone like Madhur. Why would she want to work with him again? So if it's Kareena or Priyanka replacing her, why the heck would she care when she doesn't even want to do the movie anymore? I'm sure she is over it and is looking forward to the best phase of her life - motherhood.
As far as Kareena is concerned, she understood the importance of the project only after Aishwarya accepted it. Before Ash, Madhur had to run behind Kareena for a whole year and she kept turning him down. But she agreed to doing Heroine within a month after Aishwarya's pregnancy announcement! It's soo obvious.
Heroine team/Madhur continue to use Aishwarya's name to keep their film in the news. So annoying man.
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