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Posted: 15 years ago
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come on, plz dont do this.
If ppl keep leaving, ofcourse this forum will never be balanced.
I think Sanam is really busy with her work adn whatnot. Let the work load lessen...maybe during vacations?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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OMG I didn't know the situation had become this serious 😕 It's always a shame to lose members. You kinda form an attachment and get in the habit of reading their posts. I don't know adios too well but I was a huge Flaviya fan.
Having said that, I shouldn't be too surprised. I've noticed a huge change here at the forum. I never enter this forum without my bash proof gear 🤓
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Posted: 15 years ago
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oh no i missed this... flav got hr self banned, thats sad........... miss her😔
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: fizzles

OMG I didn't know the situation had become this serious 😕 It's always a shame to lose members. You kinda form an attachment and get in the habit of reading their posts. I don't know adios too well but I was a huge Flaviya fan.

Having said that, I shouldn't be too surprised. I've noticed a huge change here at the forum. I never enter this forum without my bash proof gear 🤓

Funny thign is, its become a norm to be attacked on this forum. I mean just hte other day, I was getting attacked coz I was positive positive reviews of Kurbaan. Why? Because some member wanted ot tear down my attempts at making it seem like Kurbaan's a good movie.
For god' sakes, i'm ONE member. How much can I do? Funny thing is, abpit two weeks ago, I had stopped posting for about a day or so coz even I was just so sick and tired of the way things ran on this forum. That's when I had that talk with Flav. And she sorta convinced me to keep posting and keep staying here, and htat she'd be back after a break. I'm hoping this ban is just a temporary break, that's all.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Okay what I don't understand is just one thing: Sure Shahid has a lot of fans, and yes I am one of them, but how does that affect anyone?! A forum can't always be balanced and it is not as if we are PMing people telling them to be a fan of Shahid but rather just using IF as a platform to talk to other people who like Shahid as much as we do. Yes, there had been a lot of topics on Shahid and yes it was because of the large number of fans he has, but I don't get why the fans are being seen in a bad light....

I don't even know why I am posting here because this same discussion has been going on for a long time and I don't see anything changing because I am not going to stop being a Shahid fan because other people do not agree with me... if you don't want to read about Shahid, don't open the post. There are plenty others... and if there aren't then do something about it and post about other actors/actresses you may or may not like, I am open to discussing about Uday Chopra's love life if we have to... As long as you are a fan of him, I can't say anything more than I don't think he is all that... Just stating my opinion...


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Posted: 15 years ago
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I was also thinking about this. I've know now that Flav got herself banned but why did adios go? She was posting normally but then disappeared.

I agree with Fizzles that this forum has changed a lot. If I ever post here (which is rarely), then I have to prepare myself to be attacked. Just a few weeks ago, I got attacked for saying a very simple thing and now I am being attacked for criticizing my favourite. I am being warned that I should love every film, my favourite does.
Anyways, members like Flav and Adios shouldn't have left. But it is their choice after all. With the absence of just a few members, it's made such a big difference here. It's sad to see them go. I hope it's just a temporary ban and I hope they come back.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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bollywood section was the best part of this forum now it seems more of a fanclub. Mods should defn do something about that. I used to be an active member as well now I don't even care.


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Deepika's fans are the reason????🤣 it was fun while she was being bashed but its not fun when she's liked, eh..ohkkiee dokkkieee I see 😎

if u want to strike a balance then be ready for the fangirls to squeeee each time u booo back with ur criticism, too. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction 😊

Plus, there are other celeb's fans here too. Right now, I see De dana dan topics where Akki-Kat's fans reside, Paa topic where Bachchan family fans reside, Rhea_6 an ardent salman fan who labourously posts any Salman news, Zareena with SRK/Anushka/Asin news and our very own desi_gal with her Saifeena topics. We are also irked by some of these above mentioned celebs, but most of us choose not to enter and attack their fans just cuz we can't stand em...why would u do that?? beats me!

And for those who were asking about Sanam..she's away on vacation. Plz dont blame our activities for her absence, now.

Another thing, when all the non-fans play the "like" game with all the posts that are against the celeb, its sanity. But when we play the "like" game with something that's for our celebs, its insanity. And you call youselves "unbiased". Genius!!


Oh us evil girls😆C'mon now roll ur eyes at me
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I want to add that I will miss the members that left because they brought variety into the group and I really enjoyed their sarcastically comical comments and their criticism was not always based on a certain star... they were unbiased... hope they join again!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Apparently it does Pari.

I think it started hwen we woudl have a topic for hte simplest things liek "OMG so and so tweeted this about Shahid"

There was once a time when there were like 4 differnet topics opened up on teh shahid pairings. Then lets not evne get into the Shahika, Shanks phase. That was another story altogether.

We're all allowed to be excited for our favorites, but lets keep the numbers in mind. I'm just ONE saif and Kareena fan, so I if I open like two topics on them in one day, I know the balance in still there, because there wont be others opening the same. I'm teh ONLY source of saif and kareena.

But in the case fo Shahid, my level of enthusiasm cant work when all his fans are opening up the topics, and opening up so many, that the other fans start to feel liek, ok this is too much. Flav being one of em, Adios being another. Now what I've started seeing are Shahid fans, and the minority. And for some reason, its JUST on india forums. Other bolly forums are still a bit more balanced. LIke Filmifanatics and bollspice. I opened up TWO topics on Kurbaan and go shot down. I was just htinking, wow, compare that to the number of repetetive topics I've read on certain other fans, and this is nothing. I'm just ONE member.

But I've heard form SO MANY MEMBERS now ( I wont name any of em), but there's been a number of them, that this has become a shahid forum. And when thsi is the case, it becomes so SILLY to open up a topic like, "which actor deserves to win". The whole concept is silly because as i said earlier, its liek oging on a kareena forum adn opening a poll saying, "which actress deserves to win".

There' sa balance needed for a bolly forum which has been lost on this one. And it wasnt like this when I joined around 2 years ago. This place used to be really diverse. Either all those members have left, or they've completley stopped posting.
Now its a place where if you have an opinion against Deepika or Shahid, god help you if you voice it.
I mean I remembered the insanity during Love Aaj Kal's promotions. Whenever a promo woudl get posted, first of all, I'd see like 12 pgs. Then as I went through them, ALL 12 PGS woudl be miniscule little details about deepu deepu deepu. And its liek one or two ppl woudl mention saif in between and it woudl go ignored. Which was kinda amusing since he was the producer as well as lead actor in a DOUBLE role int aht movie. But coudl I have said that? No, not really. And it was frustrating for a fan of Saif like me to even talk to someoen about hey, I thought saif in that part looked great, because guess what, there werent any others or the comment woudl just go ignored. After a while, I stopped to even bother to post LAK stuff. IT was useless. I mean I even appreciated CRITICISM towards Saif at that time with relief, like if Enycedoll woud say he looked a certain way in the promos, i'd be like, oh thank god, SOMEONE NOTICED HIM 😆
Also, there's this phenomena of a group of fan girls,supporting the SAME stars. And having the EXACT same views. Once again, the example that comes to mind is if ONE member of ht egroup is against saif, everyone suddnetly turns against em. And I saw this personally with Mannu and Hiru, who used to like saif at one point, then all of a sudden, the ENTIRE group took such a dislike to him, that it reflected in every single member. There are exceptions ofcourse, but very few.
Another example that comes to mind are the shahid and deepika fans. I dont know when tehy merged and became one entity. Now every deepika fan is a shahid fan, and every shahid fan (with the exception of a few) are deepika fans.
I'm just tryign to explain what could be turning members off here Pari. These are just my views.
Edited by desigal90 - 15 years ago

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