Why is Vivek sorry? - Page 2

Right - a woman got abused so she should go around apologizing to everyone - including her abuser and the one who stood up for her.
Is Vivek a 5 year old who cannot make decisions for himself ?
It was his and only his decision to support Aishwarya - can he not think for himself ? He did what HE wanted and now he is doing what he wants to again.
Its so unfair to keep blaming the woman for everything a man does.
Whatever action a person takes its their responsibility period.

Originally posted by: qwww

Right - a woman got abused so she should go around apologizing to everyone - including her abuser and the one who stood up for her.
Is Vivek a 5 year old who cannot make decisions for himself ?
It was his and only his decision to support Aishwarya - can he not think for himself ? He did what HE wanted and now he is doing what he wants to again.
Its so unfair to keep blaming the woman for everything a man does.

I feel sorry for vivek thats all i have to say hes been made a viilian for people who are not in his life even anymore. Whatever else happened guess they know better.

Originally posted by: brownbutt

First of all, I dont condone abuse so please watch what you say to me.

I'm not blaming her and I definitely dont think that she should apologize to Salman...to Vivek, yes I think she should apologize to him...he took on the wrath of Salman for her and she dumped him like yesterday's newspaper....Im saying that she should make amends w/ both of them. Because honestly, their issues are getting old. People are getting tired of their crap. If nothing else, it would be a nice gesture on Aishwarya's part.

even i feel bad for him.. i don't have much per say comments on Salman.. his life, he knows best.. but some of the things he did i do not like.. cases on those are still pending and i know he regrets it, but oh well..

Originally posted by: qwww

Right - a woman got abused so she should go around apologizing to everyone - including her abuser and the one who stood up for her.
Is Vivek a 5 year old who cannot make decisions for himself ?
It was his and only his decision to support Aishwarya - can he not think for himself ? He did what HE wanted and now he is doing what he wants to again.
Its so unfair to keep blaming the woman for everything a man does.
Whatever action a person takes its their responsibility period.

hmm did ash really dump him for no reason..perhaps there is more than meets the eye--why would anyone dump someone who risked everything for/in the person's love. All i m going to say is, old habits die hard and what goes around comes around--Viveik was apparently always a flirt and if he can leave his ex fiancee for ash sending the poor girl into depression then he can cheat on ash too--

^^ that is possible.. who knows what happened.. but if Salman doesn't want to forgive or make amends, it's best that Vivek moves on.. best to focus on his own career..

Originally posted by: brownbutt

First of all, I dont condone abuse so please watch what you say to me.

I'm not blaming her and I definitely dont think that she should apologize to Salman...to Vivek, yes I think she should apologize to him...he took on the wrath of Salman for her and she dumped him like yesterday's newspaper....Im saying that she should make amends w/ both of them. Because honestly, their issues are getting old. People are getting tired of their crap. If nothing else, it would be a nice gesture on Aishwarya's part.

This incident happened years ago and the woman in question has moved on and married a man she is love with. Why should she now come in a patch up things for 2 grown up men who want to behave like kids ?
If Vivek thought he was wrong in standing up for the girl he loved good for him. He apologized to Salman and the matter should have ended there right ? But if Salman thinks he cant forgive Vivek that is his problem not Aishwarya's. She has no role in this tamasha and is rightly staying out of all this.
As for her dumping him - would it have been nicer if she divorced him after a few years after she got married to him because she felt so indebted to him. It is obvious she didnt love him.
He stood up for her that is wonderful but if their love was not mutual should she have stuck on to him ?
This just my opinion.

Originally posted by: shopaholicNY

hmm did ash really dump him for no reason..perhaps there is more than meets the eye--why would anyone dump someone who risked everything for/in the person's love. All i m going to say is, old habits die hard and what goes around comes around--Viveik was apparently always a flirt and if he can leave his ex fiancee for ash sending the poor girl into depression then he can cheat on ash too--

Just because ash prefers to maintain a dignified silence doesnt mean everyone thinks of her as the monster who dumped VO...there are always 2 sides to a story and we shall never know ash's side..

And why should VO apologise for salman, was standing up against a guy who abused his love a bad thing; was asking him to back off a bad thing..salman isnt exactly an angel---and John got on salman's bad side for reasons known only to salman, and john has movies with KJO and YRF, so salman doesnt really run bollywood--esp after the debacle of 4 movies in a row