BAH Gives A Good Message To Youngsters

there were many good and bad reviews about the film and deepika had a very short role.....and also as we all predicted even before the release of the film that ranbir will end up with deepika.....i am still going to watch this film just for ranbir-minisha-bipasha and deepika and of course kunal.....they have did a very good job in the film....though i wish he would have ended up with minisha since both of them look so cute with each other amazing chemistry and also a change because have seen ranbir-deepika off-screen so much but then happy that he ends up with deepika because i just love their couple off-screen and even more happy that minisha ends up with kunal since he is another cutie and mahi finds again true love in her husband after suffering a broken heart given by her first love....sad for bips because they should have introduced a lead for bips one great example is john so radhika too would have found love and this time not attraction but true soulmate and love that supports her throughout life and never ever leave her

i feel this movie gives a good message to us youngsters....you see ranbir character in the movie his age gap between 18-30 and at that period of life he met 3 girls in different stages of his life....teenage....adult...matured adult.....and every love story gives a message

in 18 years old in his teen years he wanted to have fun and so he falls in love with mahi(minisha)and breaks her heart...thats what happened in our teenage years we fall in love but end up this teen love into breakup when we get to know either the girl or boy just wanted to have fun at this age...in that period of time that is what known as first love and crush which can't be forgotten...man this mahi-raj love story is what happening now in my college most of my friends ends up like mahi when they got to know that their boyfriends were just having fun with them but not love them thats when my college toilets were flooded with tears and when ask them why they hugs me and tells me that their boyfriends broke their heart telling that their relationship was just timepass when i read and heard about raj-mahi love story all my friends whom have gone through same situation arise on my mind...we think that this age we are bound to find true love and we did find because we are girls and mostly we girls are more romantic at hearts and doesn't believe in flirting and when these guys tries to be sweet to us we assume that this person is our soulmate thats where all goes wrong and we fall prey to their trap and ends up like mahi in the film...whereas the guys at this age are very naughty and the influence of some friends they play around with a girls feelings and then breaks it up not even thinking twice what effect they have cause in that girls hearts....Raj-Mahi love story is like what happening in our teenage years going into a dreamland of searching true love in the end we all get to know that its first crush/love that happens in that point of age for some who are lucky we will say first love gets married to each other and others who have destined with someone else this love become as a sweet memories that we all have gone through at our young stages of life .....

In 20s Raj-Radhika love story....this also gives a message....guys hormones changes at that point of age and with hot lady like radhika sure their mind change into sexual attraction....like we say that they loved the hotness of the bodies rather than a girls' heart they had some fun from the girl and thats it break the heart again....thats what this love story about....sexual attraction.....and maybe its minimum in real life but it does happen in real life too

In 25s-30s Raj-Gayatri love story.....this is matured love at this point of time a guy is very serious about life and wants to have a family of himself...he wants to be a husband...father....so he meets this girl who have equally has his mindset and makes a conclusion that this girl will be his lifepartner and wants to spend the rest of the life with her and having kids with her....but just in the movie its abit different because poor guy got dump first and he felt the pain and got flashes of his past how he betrayed 2 girls whom loved him so much but he ends up breaking their hearts because he was just want to have some fun with girls

see guys its a journey of a guys life...and i must say that indeed 95% of the guys are like that in the world now....teenage love(first love)...attraction...matured love....

it also tell us girls to becareful with flirtious guys because anytime they can break your hearts because they just want to have fun and doesn't know the meaning of true love....

its gives us some message though the 2nd half i heard is a predictable and boring....minisha-ranbir love story ending was good but bips-ranbir and deeps-ranbir got worst thats what i heard from my friends too.....and kunal was cute and the best in the movie after ranbir....

some effect of the betrayal ends up bips as radhika being bitter and mini as mahi could not love her hubby because she have lost faith in love because of one man betrayal(ranbir as raj) whom she loved immensely.....thats when ranbir sets all right for them by asking one to change her attitute towards life and the other to forget him as he is her past and accept her present and future....its only deeps as gayatri is lucky but that because she has a strong attitute towards life and marriage and unlike the other 2 girls who are so romantic at hearts that they can leave their career and homes for ranbir thats what made ranbir play with their feelings and take their love for granted although at that period of age he did fall for them but could not with deeps because she is not romantic at heart but a strong attitute girl with no-nonsense attitute.....

though might be boring or not well scripted but the whole concept does teach us youngsters some lesson....like

if i was raj i would never in first place breaks mahi's heart if destiny seperates us and i meet radhika i would never have break her heart too in fact married her if i was not destined to mahi but her memories spended with her will always cherish in my heart as first love...if i was mahi and radhika i would have understand raj's philandering ways and play his own game on him rather than fall into his love game prey and ends up with a broken heart since the jerk doesn't know what is love and true love make love as a joke.....

bachna ae haseeno somehow teaches us girls to be caution with flirtious guys and also the growth of age how a man changes his mending ways and his journey of different stages of life and his love at his certain point of life and the effects of broken hearts when one is so broken you could not love another person it would be diffcult especially when you experience first love(mahi) and also have hatred towards life and guys(radhika).....

this story tells us about first love...attraction and matured love....

and whatever it is whether its first love...attraction or matured love this moments are can't be forgotten in life and as we are aging these moments will come into our minds as memories and we cherish them that what this whole film all about even though its deals with broken hearts more than love....its mostly about raj's biography and his ladyloves which he met in different stages of life

well that was mine point of view after reading the reviews....deepika should also should be given equal role of minisha and bipasha so that she could prove her talent once again in what she have shown in Om Shanti Om.....such a short role my friend told me its ok i am waiting to see her chandni chowk to china with akshay kumar.....other than that this whole essay my point of view....i felt that its meaningful to us youngsters....