shonali tried to copy mahek and failed! - Page 2

Originally posted by: ssshhh

Can't compare Sho nd Mahek. Many accuse Mahek of using d gender card, but den Sid can be accued of using d youth card, Sky d entertainment card etc. etc. Now in retrospection Mahek's actions seem right as she had been consistent in her stand. Wid Sho dat is not d case. Says something today, does d exact opposite tomorrow.

Dis is my take on d Sho-Amar incident. I think Sho may be right in feeling uncomfortable, but she should hv put a stop to it der nd den. As females, most of us must hv at some point in out life faced dis kind of situation. U don't even need 2 be verbal abt it. Just a disgusted or disapproving sharp look is enough 2 deter such advances as usually dis is a cowardly act nd d guy usually gets d message nd backs off. D problem arises whn u don't protest verbally or otherwise, giving mixed signals nd dis will lead 2 a guy getting bolder nd continue wid his inapproptiate actions.

thats how some ppl react to sexual harassment...they sweep it under the rug with a smile on their face...but inside they feel very uncomfortable...it has happened to me...when someone made an inappropiate remark, i just smiled...but was boiling about it later...i can imagine how shonali felt.

Originally posted by: wicked gal

she had told amar politely to back off when he called her naagrani and also when he taunted her about backbiting..so thats why i think she was trying to frame him up as she waited for opportune moment when she was the most vulnerable,it seemed like a last ditch attempt to gain sympathy.i would never laugh it off if i find something offensive,just staring back was enough or a polite plz don't repeat it should have sufficed.

and i honestly don't think amar did anything really offensive or cheap..i have heard worse jokes from my male friends and didn't think they were characterless,its just the kind of jokes men crack.Even in this forum people talk worse things,so its the case of pots calling kettle black.

and her lame excuse that there are only seven people to talk to, so she still sits with him again shows how baseless her accusation is,shraddha and mahek maintained a distance from sky after his tirade ,so it wasn't impossible for shonali to do the same if he offended her modesty.😡

Originally posted by: happyviewer

thats how some ppl react to sexual harassment...they sweep it under the rug with a smile on their face...but inside they feel very uncomfortable...it has happened to me...when someone made an inappropiate remark, i just smiled...but was boiling about it later...i can imagine how shonali felt.

Originally posted by: happyviewer

thats how some ppl react to sexual harassment...they sweep it under the rug with a smile on their face...but inside they feel very uncomfortable...it has happened to me...when someone made an inappropiate remark, i just smiled...but was boiling about it later...i can imagine how shonali felt.

Originally posted by: ssshhh

Dat's exactly wat I'm saying, dat most of us women must hv experienced it sometime or another as dis is such an MCP world. It is better 2 show ur disapproval , especially if d person is known nd u r bound 2 meet again.

Originally posted by: wicked gal

do you still socialise and are friends with the guy or you avoid him like a plague?

yeah, agree with you on this part😆...i used to change my direction and go the other way whenever i saw him coming.