Why People Are Attacking Fans Here - Page 2

Originally posted by: BigBoss_No.1

yeah but what about Rakhi lovers and Rakhi fans in topic ? Why just
dont give your opinion without writing about her fans or her lovers ?Is
it crime here to like Rakhi or to be fan of her and even if its crime
who got right to ask for explaination ..

Definitely not a crime. But if we don't try to even understand the other person's point of view, what IS the whole point of a discussion forum?

Like anyone you want. When someone questions you regarding that, answer it if you want. Maybe they are just looking for a justification. If you think that they don't have a right to question you, then fine, ignore it. The topic will go unnoticed. What IS the big deal? No one attacked anyone personally there.

Originally posted by: aasky

And as far as asking questions itself is concerned, IF is a discussion forum. As long as we are having healthy debates, it is all cool. And questions are a part of debate. Right?

What is the fun if all of us just write our opinions and no one questions it? Why are we even joining a forum then? We can just sit at home and keep saying whatever we want.

Well who is saying dont write anything ?Write your opinion the way you want and people will give their views but why to criticise /ask questions to group of people here ? I find it personal when someone calls it Rakhi fans or Carol fans or Rupali fans ..I know what happened to Sumesh in last thread ....believe me it becomes personal slowly slowy so I guess its better if we can stop writing about any particular group

Originally posted by: purva

Exactly BB... and it is a sort of passive personal attack... how can we just ignore that??

Cool. You don't need to ignore it then. Report the thread to the moderators. If they feel that I said something offensive, they will take the necessary action.

there's attacking someone and then there's telling someone that they've stepped over the line. at the end of the day these people are strangers to us, i may hate kash and ravi but i don't write vile things about them and their anatomy. i don't even like rakhi but i defended her on the thread about her being a call girl because some people were taking it too far. It's called character, some people have it, some dont i guess.

Originally posted by: aasky

Definitely not a crime. But if we don't try to even understand the other person's point of view, what IS the whole point of a discussion forum?

Like anyone you want. When someone questions you regarding that, answer it if you want. Maybe they are just looking for a justification. If you think that they don't have a right to question you, then fine, ignore it. The topic will go unnoticed. What IS the big deal? No one attacked anyone personally there.

aasky people will give their view buddy but why to force them ...like sometimes I am not in mood to debate or explain stuff but when I see Rakhi fan or Rakhi lovers in topic I feel its directed to me .My request is write whatever you want but dont become personal by writing someone's fans in topic ...Well if you still can't get what I am trying to say here then I would also wanna say ignore it and its not Big Deal either

Originally posted by: BigBoss_No.1

Well who is saying dont write anything ?Write your opinion the way you
want and people will give their views but why to criticise /ask
questions to group of people here ? I find it personal when someone
calls it Rakhi fans or Carol fans or Rupali fans ..I know what happened
to Sumesh in last thread ....believe me it becomes personal slowly
slowy so I guess its better if we can stop writing about any particular
group

See, the Sumesh issue, I cannot comment on. Because I have no idea what it was. But then things do get a little personal in any topic whatsoever. There are people who stoop down to personally attacking someone, which you can't help. But don't worry, I did not start the thread with those intentions.

Originally posted by: BigBoss_No.1

aasky people will give their view buddy but why to force them ...like sometimes I am not in mood to debate or explain stuff but when I see Rakhi fan or Rakhi lovers in topic I feel its directed to me .My request is write whatever you want but dont become personal by writing
someone's fans in topic ...Well if you still can't get what I am trying to say here then I would also wanna say ignore it and its not Big Deal either

I would definitely ignore it if I wanted to. The thing is that I am trying to reason with you.

Do you realise that while the topic that I opened was a general one, I mean there are 100s of Rakhi fans on this forum, this topic that you opened is more like a personal attack? Just asking.

Yo.. I like Rakhi and Ravi and Rahul and to a certain extent Kash too since they are all equally entertaining to me as a viewer so whose fan am I considered?
Do I automatically become a target for any of the threads addressed to either of these celebrities? In that case who should I favor and who should I be against.

The best is to just ignore such posts. If no one replies then the topic automatically dies down. IMO the very grounds for addressing such topics is because the topic starter wants exactly that.. the fury of the fans for whoever the topic is NOT in favor of.

Originally posted by: aasky

See, the Sumesh issue, I cannot comment on. Because I have no idea what it was. But then things do get a little personal in any topic whatsoever. There are people who stoop down to personally attacking someone, which you can't help. But don't worry, I did not start the thread with those intentions.

well I am not saying you started with those intentions and belive me fight is the last thing I wanna do on IF ...I come here bcoz I enjoy here and I know I can't get along with each and everyone and my views wont match with each and everyone .Ehere are people who enjoy someone's view and some dont like those view too.I guess people can express their views without asking questions or attacking some specific group ..I mean really even if someone talks all the bad words about Rakhi or anyone I wont care , its mods job but if its indirectly towards me then I guess I do care about it

Originally posted by: aasky

I would definitely ignore it if I wanted to. The thing is that I am trying to reason with you.

Do you realise that while the topic that I opened was a general one, I mean there are 100s of Rakhi fans on this forum, this topic that you opened is more like a personal attack? Just asking.

Nope its not personal attack one you , you can say its a request .Its not about you or anyone , I will say same thing if someone creates thread with Carol fans in subject or Rupali fans in subject .