Originally posted by: sweta01
I cannot comment on other moderators whether they have checked their pms or not can I? How will I know whether they have read the pm or not. 😕
About the like button yes I did that but after posting my post here. I went to check the reported posts as you had mentioned about someone calling Veena that p word and when I saw that Sarah had already quoted that post and given a note to that post. So I just liked that post of Sarah note. I had not known before I read your post or before my previous reply here.
Notes will be notes and certainly not friendly when the certain reported post is calling someone some crap things and not only about one contestant. You have your opinion about us being bias and we know we are not. On a forum everyone is entitled to their opinion. About what you have wrote is actually bashing me but I am letting it go cos really you saying that I don't have manners etc does not mean I don't. To each to his own.
thank you for your response by PM and also post here. I dont expect your notes to be friendly, but courtesy and a little bit of humility goes a long way to smooth over a dispute. I had made my peace with you last night on PM and had told Sarah as much. Your tone in your response above again is lacking manners, unduely defensive. which let me tell you young lady........is not a statement used to "bash" as you put it........its a fact.......thats why i said earlier, read your notes and post........no need to be friendly but please deploy courtesy. I am not bashing you, in fact its not a slang term i like use or give very much credence to, as its a term used frequently by kids........if you feel that me saying you lack manners is a slight on you as a person, then please be assured i dont pass personal comments on people i dont know and have not met and are not in the public eye. You will have to accept it as my perception, because thats how you come across in your posts in your role as moderator. No doubt you are a very sweet young girl, who has alot on and can do without this sort of rubbish, however as a mod you probably did understand that your role on the forum is to diffuse conflict.......
Today is the first time you mentioned that my post was reported (because someone was offended), I therefore apologise to that someone.
I am hoping for the second time to draw a line under this and let it go......as you said!!!, however if you continue to come out with long drawn out defensive posts, despite having had two apologies then you really do need to take a long hard look at your role as mod........again i hope your personal issues are sorted out although why that has to be repeated in a public forum is beyond me........and should not be used as an excuse to not act on reported threads.
I am not the only one who has an issue with your moderating, so let that be indication enough of how noticeable it is, I'm just one of the ones who will challenge bad behaviour, but at the same time apologise for my own comments that hurt members of fans on this forum.
No doubt you will take my response very personally and take it upon yourself to up my wl, but i can assure you, I am not a shrinking violet and do not allow people with a little bit of power misuse it.
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