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Posted: 17 years ago
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one thing i liked about payal she stands on her view. she hasn't refused to accept her statements n opinon on show. and keeping herself quite in front of sambhavana bitch she did right. it was looking like pooja had decided to insult her with sambhavana. pooja bedi tried all her effort to make fight between them. just like news journalist do in shows.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Payel handled the questions better. But I don't understand why everyone is against Pooja. Pooja asked the similar questions to Pa and Sam - she grilled Sam about her abusive behavour and what kind of image she would have among the public.

Though Sam accepted that she should not have been so abusive, Pa justified her actions saying "I am like that". Now personally, I feel, that both Pa and Sam handled the questions properly. I liked Payel's confidence.

I feel bad for Payel for the first time. She might have a give and take relationship with Rahul Mahajan, but she always stood by him before the world. Rahul, on the other hand, just threw her like dirt after Monica's comeback.

I would have some respect for Rahul if he admitted that he is a flirt. But NO! He is giving the excuse that all he had done for the TRPs. Hello? Who told you that the audience would be happy to watch your repeated antics (please note i said repeated) with Pa.
Rahul seems to be more concerned about the TRPs than the producers themselves? šŸ˜• Moreover, none can give the excuse that Rahul Mahajan did for money because he himself has declared that he would donate the prize money to charity.

Payel's exit has been good for her and Rahul. She did not have to watch Rahul and Monica's flirting before her eyes. Also, it would have been difficult situation for Rahul to handle both Pa and Monica.

Public memory is short. Now when Pa has gone out, people will forget everything b/w Rahul and Payel and will ga-ga over Rahul's "true love" for Monica, forgetting that it was Rahul who said that they would nominate Raja immediately and Monica after few weeks if they ever come back.


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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: shellily

Just copied this from the Daily Episode posting I did yesterday since this topic is being discussed here:

Come on felt bad for Payal... I think she handled it well... a decent person would... I hope people here also dont end up making the rude and crude people like Sam and Raja heros... I think now after she is out I actually like Payal...and Sam just becasue she is a better talker gets out of anything.... dont think Pooja was able to screw her too much --- maybe it would have happened if it was a lone Sam akhri sallam show...but here Sam just had more fun being her sarcastic aggresive self and all her bad behaviour just went seemingly unnoticed.... poor Payal was targetted by both as she is basically a quiet person and could not/would not retort. I think it was very unfair to pair both together --- but TRP ke liye of course they would. Still I feel sam did not get any put down for her actual crass behaviour. you cannot go on saying arey "her heart it good" so its ok to behave badly with others...thats really not an excuse - which may forum memebers seem to be making. Same thing for Raja... all bad behaviour is allowed becasue "his heart is good"
šŸ‘ Well said and I agree too. Sambh came across as revengeful and aggressive. She had no answers to the abuses and obscene gestures which bolster what Payal called her. Pooja had actually grilled Sambh more and even pointed to her that media had taken her issue of abuses and gestures very badly. Sambh was flummoxed and later started her tirade against Payal by listing her movies repeatedly and calling her Pa. It was simply a puerile act. On the other hand Payal took it in her stride and said the show is over and she is done with giving no room for controversy or arguements. Any interested producer/director wld want to work with a pleasant well behaved actor and not an agressive person.
Felt really bad for Payal today -- she was given no value by Rahul in the house during her end days as Monica came in and here Pooja took her case becasue the poor girl was not able to respond. And if you noticed in the house as well what Payal said to Sam was said on her face....Sam would always just be bitching behind her back...so is that a better person????
It seems that Rah and Pay have a reln based on their mutual needs and they are both happy with it. So as viewers we shdnt care. Yes'day when Diana pointed this to Ashutosh abt Rah-Pay and Monica, he too ans the same that they are happy with the arrangement and they are all know what they are getting into, everything is clear and open. Payal said the same thing yesterday that they are close friends who wish well for each other.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: cashmoney

i dun think poojas was biased... Payal was fake in tht hpuse even afta she came out she was still fake.. Sam is nasty but she is wht she is..

Pooja should have asked more questions to Sambhavna and should also have shown snippets of Sambhavna's contradictory behaviour as was shown during Alina's Aakhari Salam.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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First of all pooja grilled only payal as for sambha she was not grilled. IF people feel both were grilled equally then i would not agree with that. if pooja had grilled sambha she should have asked her about the close dance with raja after all the tamasha she did and the fight with raja. if alina sisters comment about payal was shown then her comment about sambha should have also been shown where alinas sister called sambha dirty and cheap. well it was no way fair the way pooja did she seemed to settle some personal score with payal but still payal emerged a winner all the way as she was cool and firm with her stand. i would only payal won in this and best of luck for her.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I usually do not comment about Bigg Boss or any other shows, but today I really feel compelled to comment as I have to say this episode is a shame to our television industry and was hosted by an extremely immature and partial host who showed no respect to the contestant whatsoever and targeted her character on a "VERY PERSONAL LEVEL".
Firstly, Pooja Bedi was extremely partial and targeted Payal for something that was much less cheap than the acts of Sambhavna.
Secondly, despite the public outrage against Sambhavana's behaviour she was treated with far more respect then Payal. Payal managed to survive an eviction, whereas Sambhavna did not even survive one eviction, this is a clear indication who public liked more but Pooja Bedi made Payal look like a very selfish and self-centred person and may have severely damaged her career as a professional.
In regard to the allegations made against Payal, lets take them one by one
1. She is Image Conscious: I do not understand why this is a crime? Most TV actors and stars are image conscious, most companies are image conscious and so are most successful people like politicians and actors. This is the reason why there is a massive industry called "Public Relations". It is fair for them to be image conscious because the media/paparazzi is always scrutinizing them and is always looking for the slightest of mistakes they make, hence they have the right to defend their image.
2. I think Payal has been victimised because of her poor communication skills. She could not handle the allegations made by Pooja (which were very aggressive and directly challenged her character rather than her performance on the show) and got a bit defensive and may have lost it a bit for a second. Pooja Bedi took this personally and made it a point to attack Payal throughout the show.
3. Sambhavana's behaviour was extremely aggressive and insulting against Payal in front of 100's of audience and Pooja instead of butting in and calming things down (which she should have done as a host) took sides with Sam in order to continuously target Payal (she should have been neutral as a host). Pooja Bedi repeated the point about footage and TRP's at least a million times, which showed lack of class and was clearly a personal attack and undermines her professionalism.
4. I have read a lot of comments about Payal being cheap because of her movies. I think before making these allegations people should realise and accept that every person has their own value system and we should respect an individual's choice of career. No individual has the right to force their beliefs/values/culture and measure another person against it. If someone doesn't like her movies, they have the right to not watch them but in a democratic country no one should tell another person about how they make their living.
5. The reason why Sam is a much bigger loser than Payal is because Payal is being accused of being image conscious and looking for TRP's. This is not a crime, humans beings are designed to be selfish and she has the right to think about success in her career like everyone else has. Psychology has proved even people who do charity are selfish, they are looking for feelings of "Happiness, self gratification" etc. and that is their motive for charity - The desire to experience certain positive emotions. So I do not see why Payal's behaviour is being considered wrong. Payal did not directly hurt anyone and did not do things to others against their will– Now compare this to Sam's behaviour. Whatever she did was against someone else's will. For e.g. being aggressive, fighting , arguing and making others feel bad and yet Pooja Bedi made Payal Rohatgi look mean and selfish.
6. It can be said that Sam was equally looking for TRP's by being loud and arguing with everyone. That was her style of looking for TRP but instead of quizzing her on that Pooja told her that she was being herself. I think sometimes in India, we have this misconception that people who are Loud and Shout are honest by heart. This is a wrong misconception, just because someone shouts does not make them honest and clear by heart. Conversely, there is also a misconception "politically correct" people are "politicians" (Read: cunning). Without political correctness we would pretty much be fighting with someone every day. The difference is some people gain a high level of communication and skills and others do not catch up and these people who do not manage to catch up, justify their lack of communication skills by saying that they are being "Themselves" and hence are "Honest". In reality, these are people who are Insecure about their lack of communication skills or other things and vent out their frustration by being loud and aggressive.
7. Everyone saw that during the first few weeks Sam was involved in more groupism that everyone else, even then Payal was being blamed for groupism and sam was not blamed for it.
8. Payal was being blamed for not telling Monica Bedi that she nominated her even when she was in the room. Pooja Bedi should have known better, this was against the rules and hence Payal did not do anything wrong. If Bigg Boss thinks that this is unethical behaviour then it it caused by the rules and not Payal's behaviour.
Sorry for the long post, but I felt the need to make this post because I was amazed by the Bullying that was shown on Indian television today. I do not see, how this bullying is any different from Jade Goody's bullying of Shilpa Shetty. I felt sad because Pooja Bedi has potentially finished someone's career and insulted someone publicly based on bias and an unfair stock of the situation. I am sure some people would not agree with me but I hope you will consider some of my ideas.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Am currently watching it, will read this thread after im done.
So far one annoying this is Payal: She is always like' Yaaah that was me. Yeah that was me too and this is me Payal' etc etc mannn....humko malum hai that was , hum undey (blind) nahi hai 😳
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You guys have picked up on this point, but mannn Pooja bedi, was really attacking Pooja.
Pooja answered well i must say but Pooja omg, am shoced also. She seriously behvaed badly with Payal.
It was like someone said, as if she was settling scores on Personal Level.
Yeah Payal was all up herself before sam came in and after that uska bolti bund hogaya tha but still Pooja as a host should have not been making so much fun out of Payal.
On every moment she gave some kind of dig...Pooja is not a good host, i really miss Arshad😭
Another Point- Yeah Payal gave PC answers...šŸ‘good on her.
@ consultant, very nice post šŸ‘ i do agree on point especially on Eight, yes Payal isnt allowed to talk about no,minations so why wuld she to monica.
Edited by anon - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: consultant_2_b

Sorry for the long post, but I felt the need to make this post because I was amazed by the Bullying that was shown on Indian television today. I do not see, how this bullying is any different from Jade Goody's bullying of Shilpa Shetty. I felt sad because Pooja Bedi has potentially finished someone's career and insulted someone publicly based on bias and an unfair stock of the situation. I am sure some people would not agree with me but I hope you will consider some of my ideas.



Very well said! I completely agree on all accounts. To add, all other contestants had someone from their family interviewed on stage, only Payal had to deal with Sam instead of a family member. Payal made mistakes in the past with bad movies, and is now trying to change her image with getting better roles. So it was unfair to tear her down so badly. Pooja was pathetic as usual, and a complete bitch to Payal. Also, Sam got it easy because of the strike when she was out. Not fair. There should be an Akhri Salam for Sam as well. Both bithces were just too much, and were bullying Payal to the core. I felt so bad for Payal, and I do hope that she gets something good out of this crap.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Ok i don't agree with consultant_2_b at all. Even i have not posted on this forum, ever, but after reading your comment I could not control myself. First of all, I don't agree with you or others saying that Pooja was mean or bitch or being biased. Pooja Bedi is muhfat and does not think twice before speaking her heart out. She was also involved in a fight with Big B where she had asked Big B, why are your hair black and beard white and Big B had walked out of the interview. After that she went on calling Big B as Big Baby in interviews. Well, this is not relevant to the topic but this is the way she is. And please everyone gotta agree that Payal was behaving toooooooooo fake. You know dikh raha tha that she is behaving fake and avoiding all the question by saying this is me..this is me as if she is seeing herself on the television for the first time . Coming to your points.

1. You said that image consciousness is not a bad thing and that even big companies keep PR people to maintain an image. Agreed. But they dont change their slogans all the time. Initially Payal was acting Miss Holier than thou and Miss goody two shoes and touch me not and the day she got nominated she came in hot pants and massages. Well even these things wont matter that much had she done it with little sense. If she wanted a massage she could have got them in the bedroom, why in the hall with full view. She herself told ki bas ho gaya footage. And after getting nominated she told "Big Boss mujhe swimming karna hai sarong ke bina and what not". So remain constant on one thing. When she was in the house she said she had come for visibility and now bahar aane ke baad, I read an interview that she went inside for promoting a movie. Gimme a break. There are bigger stars than her to promote movies. So according to me if she would have remained constant, to ye naubat na aati.

2. You rightly said that she lacks communication skills. Everytime she opens her big duck mouth and goes "a.a.a.". Anyone would get annoyed with her fake behaviour.. Pooja Bedi was just doing her job. Extracting juiciest details and grilling her. But Payal was going round and round with idiotic answers. Bird Brain. I think Pooja was quite composed. If I was there I would ve lost it.

3. If Sambhavna insulted Payal in front of 100's of ppl.. Payal did that too in front of 1000's of ppl and more so among the ppl u r living with. No one talked to Sam bcos Payal had all the guys on her side with her Miss Goody two shoes image. Pooja wa doing her job. She gave enough opportunity to Payal to clarify the allegations put by Sam...but she didnt have an answer...So..

4. You mentioned that every1 has their own value system and should not force anything on anyone. Agreed. But there is something known as tit for tat. Payal had spoken non sense about everyone. She had told ki Ehsaan ki aukat kya hai..some comedian hai na..I bet ppl know ehsaan more than her...She called Sam all kind of names and called Ehsaan gadha. That shows her values. Ya movies, everyone has the right to choose. But picturing urself as a saint and calling other ppl what not is double standard. You portray urself as some1's keep and say it was for TRP..thts downright cheap. Rahul had told her to come inside chadar and no1 will see. And the day she was gonna be evicted, she had told Rahul..aapne mujhe na yahan ka rakha na wahan ka... So if you can stoop so low for TRP's, in real life for some 2 bit roles aap kitna neeche jaa sakte ho..

5. Image conscious and all, I discussed that in the first point.

6,7 . I find that comment very bad that in India we have a misconception who can scream says the truth because its not the truth and I think all will agree on this. Sambhavna has agreed on cam ki chalo main buri hoon but main tumhare mooh pe hoon. And whatever she was from day one she remained the same throughout. She was constant.

8. Payal didnt discuss Monica's nomination on her face because she is a coward. If she was following the so called rules, then why the hell did she discuss nominations with everyone before nominating someone. This clearly shows that she is a double standard bitch.

She commented that I cant be friends with girls because may be I am too pretty..That showed her true class.. She lacks humility.. She was joking about everything because she knew that is she will be serious, Pooja will grill her. She said that "mere kapde khatam ho gaye. Main sirf ek mahine ke kapde leke aayi thi" Then why did all hell break loose for her after getting nomination in fourth week..Why did she get "open" massages. If she was fed up she should have behaved normally. End main she said I am ok with my eviction. She was crying the day b4 nominations ki mera naam aa gaya to. She says I don't want money..Bloody hell.. The corporate buisness is cut throat. Even big stars dont think twice b4 snatching roles..Money is sweet to every1..In short she is a fake eprson..upar se neeche tak. Being image conscious is one thing. Being fake is another buisness altogeher...

Sorry guys for the long post.

Edited by seesaw128 - 17 years ago
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Posted: 17 years ago
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You can't compare an apple with an orange......and wt's the use if both are rotten šŸ˜†

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