Different ways to deal with harassment?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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As we all know salman refused to acknowledge it as harassment. So they r not going to stop shilpa not matter what she does. Stopping shilpa is going against trps. Vikas is smart. I think he got it.
So how is vikas suppose to deal with it?

How can victim stop being victim?

1.Stop giving the charge of ur emotions to other person. To not discuss like that person isn't letting me do this that troubling me . Though it's the truth. By saying this u r actually giving more power to torturer. Just don't acknowledge it. React it or leave it. Do not discuss. When one discusses still nobody supports. U get more frustrated because of that.

2.Focus on self reactions. Not the instigator s words. Ur reaction should be based the way u want to react not the way the instigator wants.


3.Watch ur enemies. Every person has weak point which make them explode.

I think vikas should use his brain to tackle shilpa. He should understand that things r appearing cute because they bring trps. So nobody is going stop her for her antics. Stop expecting explaining defending. Stop it. His entire energy goes in all this. Vikas has no way right now. He has to follow this way. This will benefit him as a human and for his game too.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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salman refused to acknowledge it because it was NOT HARASSMENT 😆
Harassment is abusing , torturing someone physically and mentally...

there is a BIG LINE between POKING and HARASSING ...

calling gupta ji gupta ji
raat kaisi kati
kaise ho
dancing
tusi na jao
singing songss
agar harassment hai to JAI HO 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Harrasment? We r still on that?🤪
Anyways for starters as salman said he should stop going where she is. Not give her reactions esp the way he screams n cries 🤪stop making a grp and bitching about her bcoz everyone in the house is good friends with her so no use (like he did yest sauteli maa n all). Stpp calling her psycho n mad for no reason. And this doesnt mean he will AGAIN start hugging n kissing her 🤪
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Cool-KeshuVS-

salman refused to acknowledge it because it was NOT HARASSMENT 😆

Harassment is abusing , torturing someone physically and mentally...

there is a BIG LINE between POKING and HARASSING ...

calling gupta ji gupta ji
raat kaisi kati
kaise ho
dancing
tusi na jao
singing songss
agar harassment hai to JAI HO 😆

+1 👍🏼
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Or slap ur harasser and get eliminated
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Posted: 7 years ago
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HARASSMENT IS WHAT GUPTA JI Done to Aakash in the first week...
ganging up against him in the night with the support of full chamchas ... (jo ab palat gaye hai ) and saying - tum bahar jaoge na tab tumhe dikhauga ...

ab baat ye hai ki first week me bhi shilpa aise hi poke kar rahi thi tab vo bade aram se jawab de rahe hai ...

but chunki sare chamche ab inhe chod chuke to he is like - mujhe nahi rehna uhuhuhuhu😭😆


ab aaya UNT PAHAD KE NICHE
Edited by -Cool-KeshuVS- - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: DoremonLove

Harrasment? We r still on that?🤪

Anyways for starters as salman said he should stop going where she is. Not give her reactions esp the way he screams n cries 🤪stop making a grp and bitching about her bcoz everyone in the house is good friends with her so no use (like he did yest sauteli maa n all). Stpp calling her psycho n mad for no reason. And this doesnt mean he will AGAIN start hugging n kissing her 🤪

Ganging up with other housemates and banging utensils near her head thru the night, while she was crying, threatening & bullying her and calling her "Budhiya, itni zayda umar ki ab iski shaddi bhi nahin ho sakti, kahin jaa ke ye mar jaaye, itne kaand karne ke baad ise koi milega bhi nahin, iske kaand se iski shaadi toot gayi"..
*This is Harassment.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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after salman said if they fall in love i clearly noticed shilpa's disgusted expressions so the only one suggestion i can give him is that he should start flirting with her no matter how much she pokes him . nafrat ka vaar, pyaar se doo atleast he can try this but as we all no he has zero patience.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: subhs

Or slap ur harasser and get eliminated

No that would be foolish .Vikas will really have to brainstorm now.As to how to deal with it.He isn't going to get any support from BB or HM's.So he is on his own.

Personally i would say completely ignore.Act as if that person doesn't exist. Vikas is her only way of footage so don't give her that
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Posted: 7 years ago
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There's are two ways to do this imo..

Method # 1: Silent Treatment

Make your mind to don't think about or even listen to what other person is saying until words become just noise for you.. you can hum a song in your mind to do this.. just think that dogs are barking as that's what they do..

Method # 2: Retaliate

Use the other person's strategy i.e no personal attack and verbal diarrhea within rules.. speak more and louder than other person and don't stop until she stops..

p.s. First method is better imo as in this you won't be physically exhausted.. all what you need is concentration of mind..

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