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Posted: 7 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: SP2684


Yep - all it took was Shilpa saying that Vikas is the big bad villain who destroyed her career. All it took was her saying so without any credible facts, a consistent story, or indeed even coherently laying out what exactly he did to her.

It bothers me, that all it takes for someone to be deemed guilty is a 'likeable' person saying they are. And people do find him guilty. If one deems Shilpa's hate-fuelled agenda acceptable, then by default one believes it's deserved. Because if Vikas didn't deserve it, why are people accepting of it?

OT - You're a BB veteran OCK, and so you know, just as I do, that Shilpa went overboard on Thursday's episode, and that had it been any other season, she would've merited a tongue-lashing this weekend. Salman wasn't fair tonight, but I didn't expect to him to be. What I also didn't expect was that they'd outright praise Shilpa. But - TRP ke liye kuch bhi - I get that.

Bullying is deeply subjective - no two incidents of it are the same. I do think Shilpa bullied Vikas in the Thursday episode. She knew he was stuck in one place, she knew he was affected and she still didn't draw the line, and stop - that, for me, is bullying. She was a bully because she doesn't know when to stop.

Salman was unfair tonight because he validated Shilpa's grudges - he literally said that she's entitled to her 'kadwahat', while he, just like us, cannot say with even a semblance of certainty that Vikas deserves to be the target of said 'kadwahat'. And when Vikas tried to say that he does not deserve it - Salman cut him off. The guy was deemed guilty just to validate Shilpa's brand of 'entertainment'. That is what is unfair.

And what is absolute BS is Salman trying to pass it off as equal - this is no mutual dushmani - this is one person's hate-fuelled vendetta against another. There is no equality there.


Absolutely. I couldn't say it better. As someone who has had to handle several issues of workplace bullying early on in my career, the audience reception deeply worries me.

Salman is just obeying his paymaster to his complete moral disintegrity, but the audience has no acumen to understand that. If Om was entertainment last year and people enjoyed it, then, Shilpa's ugly hate mongering is what people want and that is what the enjoying sympathetic audience are within their polished surfaces I gather- filthy homophobic bullies themselves, since they can't even demarcate between basic good and bad.

If someone like Shilpa tried this at Salman even once, she'd land with a broken jaw. Anyway, Shilpa with this "performance" has assured herself of zero "good" work for the rest of her lifetime too. Vikas has been earning the sympathy of fellow people in the industry in the process. We'll see who turns bhikhari for real down the years.


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Posted: 7 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: Ctrl-Alt-Del

I've seen many house-mates saying that 'bohat zyada ho raha hai' and that 'agar aisa mere saath hota to ma pata nahi kya karti/karta'.. we don't know how much is edited but it is not edited for house-mates.. when they're saying that she's crossing limits and that they don't know how badly they'd react if it was happening to them that how can we say that it was not inhuman.. Bigg Boss ko TRP and Salman ko salary ki majboori hai, but ham ko to koi majboori nahi.. supporting Shilpa can be due to only two reasons for me.. either being a blind fanatic fan or believing that everything is funny as long as it is happening to someone else..


I am not denying that Shilpa is going way too OTT n as I had said in another thread, it may seem funny to us as audience watching this, but it sure isn't to the one who's at a receiving end.

Having said that, my main point is that y isn't Vikas taking a firmer stand and by that I don't mean crying in front of the cams, telling all and sundry how Shilpa is harassing him or trying to make unsuccessful attempts at running away. He's way too smart and would know ders a better way to go about it. And this makes me doubt vikas and makes me believe he's playing the victim.

Also just a few months back in BB Tamil I watched how what really was mental stress when one of the HMs suffered that. For one whole week,mshe was totally not herself n d last few days of her stay, she had totally stopped participating. She wanted BB to take a call and for that she refused to take part in tasks, stopped talking to HMs, refused to eat food, slept in garden area under the rains, in fact was awake whole nights for 3/4 nights continuously and when nothing worked she held her nostrils and jumped into the pool. By then, she wanted to leave saying her health was more important than the show. Finally after her jump in d pool, BB let her leave the house and she did.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: khamosshhh


I am not denying that Shilpa is going way too OTT n as I had said in another thread, it may seem funny to us as audience watching this, but it sure isn't to the one who's at a receiving end.

Having said that, my main point is that y isn't Vikas taking a firmer stand and by that I don't mean crying in front of the cams, telling all and sundry how Shilpa is harassing him or trying to make unsuccessful attempts at running away. He's way too smart and would know ders a better way to go about it. And this makes me doubt vikas and makes me believe he's playing the victim.

Also just a few months back in BB Tamil I watched how what really was mental stress when one of the HMs suffered that. For one whole week,mshe was totally not herself n d last few days of her stay, she had totally stopped participating. She wanted BB to take a call and for that she refused to take part in tasks, stopped talking to HMs, refused to eat food, slept in garden area under the rains, in fact was awake whole nights for 3/4 nights continuously and when nothing worked she held her nostrils and jumped into the pool. By then, she wanted to leave saying her health was more important than the show. Finally after her jump in d pool, BB let her leave the house and she did.


I actually feel uneasy just reading all that. Never knew Oviya went through that kind of a breakdown. Had only heard she wanted to quit the show.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: rakthpipasu


I actually feel uneasy just reading all that. Never knew Oviya went through that kind of a breakdown. Had only heard she wanted to quit the show.


Yeah she did and she herself said that she was shocked when she saw her last week and said that clearly she was unstable then.

Also she was cornered and bullied by almost all d HMs, or thoe who didnt, did not support her either, but she would give back to the bullies really well. Sadly she fell for this guy and she felt he felt the same, but in d last week he took a total u-turn and ignored her completely and dat really affected her.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: khamosshhh


Yeah she did and she herself said that she was shocked when she saw her last week and said that clearly she was unstable then.

Also she was cornered and bullied by almost all d HMs, or thoe who didnt, did not support her either, but she would give back to the bullies really well. Sadly she fell for this guy and she felt he felt the same, but in d last week he took a total u-turn and ignored her completely and dat really affected her.


That bullying part I knew. Namitha, Gayathri and Julie.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: khamosshhh


I am not denying that Shilpa is going way too OTT n as I had said in another thread, it may seem funny to us as audience watching this, but it sure isn't to the one who's at a receiving end.

Having said that, my main point is that y isn't Vikas taking a firmer stand and by that I don't mean crying in front of the cams, telling all and sundry how Shilpa is harassing him or trying to make unsuccessful attempts at running away. He's way too smart and would know ders a better way to go about it. And this makes me doubt vikas and makes me believe he's playing the victim.

Also just a few months back in BB Tamil I watched how what really was mental stress when one of the HMs suffered that. For one whole week,mshe was totally not herself n d last few days of her stay, she had totally stopped participating. She wanted BB to take a call and for that she refused to take part in tasks, stopped talking to HMs, refused to eat food, slept in garden area under the rains, in fact was awake whole nights for 3/4 nights continuously and when nothing worked she held her nostrils and jumped into the pool. By then, she wanted to leave saying her health was more important than the show. Finally after her jump in d pool, BB let her leave the house and she did.


Is there a standard breakdown methodology then? A best practice breakdown format? And that is the only kind the audience will accept? What if Vikas still has some 1% grit left in him, that survival instinct that pushes him to still try and communicate and keep himself safe? Are we waiting for the final meltdown to happen when he would go down the same route and then we'd be self assured that Vikas was indeed being victimized?
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Posted: 7 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: khamosshhh



I am not denying that Shilpa is going way too OTT n as I had said in another thread, it may seem funny to us as audience watching this, but it sure isn't to the one who's at a receiving end.

Having said that, my main point is that y isn't Vikas taking a firmer stand and by that I don't mean crying in front of the cams, telling all and sundry how Shilpa is harassing him or trying to make unsuccessful attempts at running away. He's way too smart and would know ders a better way to go about it. And this makes me doubt vikas and makes me believe he's playing the victim.

Also just a few months back in BB Tamil I watched how what really was mental stress when one of the HMs suffered that. For one whole week,mshe was totally not herself n d last few days of her stay, she had totally stopped participating. She wanted BB to take a call and for that she refused to take part in tasks, stopped talking to HMs, refused to eat food, slept in garden area under the rains, in fact was awake whole nights for 3/4 nights continuously and when nothing worked she held her nostrils and jumped into the pool. By then, she wanted to leave saying her health was more important than the show. Finally after her jump in d pool, BB let her leave the house and she did.


If Vikas does all of that, the first thing would be the allegations of Victim Play.
BTW IDK how much I can judge all this BB Kannada thing by just reading this but jumping in the pool was holding her nostrils is anything but giving it back. I can sympathise with the situation but the BB team sounds shitty AF. She should have paid the Penalty. Aur Fur!
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Posted: 7 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: Uma2010


Is there a standard breakdown methodology then? A best practice breakdown format? And that is the only kind the audience will accept? What if Vikas still has some 1% grit left in him, that survival instinct that pushes him to still try and communicate and keep himself safe? Are we waiting for the final meltdown to happen when he would go down the same route and then we'd be self assured that Vikas was indeed being victimized?


Ah no I dont think that. I keep reiterating that I am not denying that Vikas is affected, but that he is exaggerating and playing the victim.

Also obviously when I was watching BB Tamil at that point I didnt know what would happen, and I strongly felt that BB should have intervened and taken care of her mental stress. In Vikas case, his actions donot go with his words. Also quite a few things got cleared in WKW...he was hinted that he was playing the victim, that he pursued Shilpa too and provoked her and this toh he was seen telling inthe ED that he was providing content in d show and dat if shilpa wouldnt have been there, it wld have been him vs hina. Ab itni clarity hai and knows exactly what's happening, then y cry wolf?

Also abt different breakdown levels and format...again I agree, but the speed with which he breaks down and recovers is quite telling.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#49
Lol again Vikas should react this way and that way😆
No one is saying Shilpa should stop the harassment .She can continue but Vikas needs to find better ways to react😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sabhayata

Lol again Vikas should react this way and that way😆

No one is saying Shilpa should stop the harassment .She can continue but Vikas needs to find better ways to react😆

I was thinking same,and about to post . Then I thought, chalo jane do

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