Do we really have to blame Shilpa?

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Posted: 7 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: -LumosMaxima-
you can reply to me without using aley le le stuff. I am just stating my pov. no need to mock me or my comment for that. BB is no picnic spot similarly BB is no court where Shilpa is seeking 'justice'. Yes Vikas should be more mentally strong and Shilpa needs to sort out her outside issue outside only, if possible legally.

I didn't mock you. My reply was on Vikas's childish behaviour. He exaggerates things to gain sympathy! 👎🏼

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Zania

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Posted: 7 years ago

#62

Is this a bad joke or you r just being sarcastic? 😕

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MercurialMedusa

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Posted: 7 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: Shakaal

my point is wasting food is not allowed salman clearly said it last wkw. and yes i m blaming them both.

Wasting food is wrong but taunting a person till they throw it away isn't? She was doing it for long enough that he snapped back. If they hadn't aired her bothering him more than once while he wanted to eat I would've bashed him for being a jerk. But he's the same guy who prays and eats and a foodie (he literally was starving and sitting outside just because she hijacked the kitchen yesterday..it must've been hard for him to do so..he literally jumped onto the food when sabya called him in)

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Posted: 7 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: -Goldendew-

Wasting food is wrong but taunting a person till they throw it away isn't? She was doing it for long enough that he snapped back. If they hadn't aired her bothering him more than once while he wanted to eat I would've bashed him for being a jerk. But he's the same guy who prays and eats and a foodie (he literally was starving and sitting outside just because she hijacked the kitchen yesterday..it must've been hard for him to do so..he literally jumped onto the food when sabya called him in)

@ Bold : Vikas Gupta (creative head of Balaji Telefilms) kya ek chhota bachcha hai jise achche bure ki bilkul samaz nahi hai aur kisi ke taane maarne se khaana fenkega?🤢 Itna kamzor dil hai to aise show me aaya hi kyun? Kuch nahi ye sab drama hai sympathy ke liye.👎🏼

Edited by madalia - 7 years ago

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MsFoodyTwoShoes

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Posted: 7 years ago

#65

Strongly disagree.. Vikas might not be strong mentally but there is no way & i emphasize no way you can justify her behavior. Mental abuse is not just giving gaalis or using obscene language.. Poking someone 24/7 & taunting them that you sleep with people & use them ..thats character defamation.. That's abuse right there.

Vikas may have reacted differently.. What he is supposed to do ? Beat the shinde out of her? I know i would have done that ..but he can't, should he have abused & tortured her the same way? May be but everyone cant act like a psycho..he reacted in a way that suited him the best.

There are so many people who try to run away when things get hard..how much can you take before its enough & you cant take it anymore. Classic case of victim blaming going on this forum , calling him weak because he cried & tried to run ..so he should have slapped & abused shilpa then he would have been strong & manly? So people are sympathizing with him now ..well why wouldn't they ? Why we sympathized with gautam..? You can't keep targeting one person & attach yourself to them like a leech ..if you do that its you who will look wrong & the other party will look like a victim.

I will say it again there is no way you could ever justify her behavior this week.

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Ctrl Alt Del

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Posted: 7 years ago

#66

On one hand saying that he's doing drama/playing victim and on other hand saying that he's not behaving smartly seems like contradictory statements to me.. even if his reaction is genuine or playing a victim card, in both cases its his gain and Shilpa's loss.. his supporters and Shilpa's haters are increasing.. moreover even if his reaction is genuine or an exaggerated one, in both cases, Shilpa is still a bully as the reaction of the person whom you harass doesn't decide that if you're evil or not..

btw I do agree with you that Shilpa does have a talent of creating inventive swear words and apparently harmless double meaning taunts.. and then saying these swear words and taunts in the voice of a kindergarten teacher..

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Sabhayata

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Posted: 7 years ago

#67

What in your opinion should Vikas do?

He cant stoop to her level and start doing same things.He cant abuse. Can't say personal things. I agree wanting to leave the house is OTT. But what really can he do ?

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Tanika

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Posted: 7 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: Sabhayata
What in your opinion should Vikas do?
He cant stoop to her level and start doing same things.He cant abuse. Can't say personal things. I agree wanting to leave the house is OTT. But what really can he do ?

already stoop kiya huya hai 😛😆

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MercurialMedusa

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Posted: 7 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: madalia
@ Bold : Vikas Gupta (creative head of Balaji Telefilms) kya ek chhota bachcha hai jise achche bure ki bilkul samaz nahi hai aur kisi ke taane maarne se khaana fenkega?🤢 Itna kamzor dil hai to aise show me aaya hi kyun? Kuch nahi ye sab drama hai sympathy ke liye.👎🏼

Firstly he isn't creative head of Balaji telegrams. Secondly he's not a bot and a human. Anyone would've felt cornered after being targeted again and again for eating food (she chose to make it. He didn't ask her to make it.) His wish he came to the show. He signed up for a reality show not an asylum where a lunatic hovers around him for no reason. If I was in his place and some one taunted me about the food I am trying to eat I would have thrown it straight onto their face..he was still being respectful. But I have an advantage though I know how to cook and would've made scrumptious meal in front of the bully and ate it maze see but poor fella doesn't have such luxury.