Originally posted by: howzzat
My friend, any relationship even friendship needs compromise I agree.. once in a while one person listens its fine but not EVERY time. That is very bad for both people. Because the submissive one;s only aim in life will be please the dominant one and the dominant one will further tighten the reins on the former. This is not a stable relationship. At the end the person compromising the most has lost everything including their own self- respect.
And Kankar mein what Beenish is saying is that, Self-Respect is more important for a person than taking abusive treatment from someone else... once it starts there's no end to it.
@Beenish: Its time to send Tanisha a DVD of Kankar for the finale.😆
let us not jump to conclusions based on what we've seen during these 3 months. In front of camera, ppl are not generally themselves.
Let's see how their relationship works out in the world outside the BB house and then talk. Oh btw, who are we to even talk abt them?
On a personal note, I've been married to my husband now for 9 yrs. If and when my hubby and I have either a tiff or a misunderstanding in public, we let it be...I dont try to correct him in front of ppl and neither does he do it. We talk about it when we get home. That's how relationships work. You need to respect your partner...because true love is planted firmly on respect. U lose respect, there's no love anymore.
My friends in front of who we may have a tiff will not even know the complete background or the situation. And with such incomplete knowledge, giving them more reasons to talk about u...nah...not done!
Bhaashan complete! 😉