I would like to ask Tanisha - all the ladies who are victim on domestic violence always say that we understand our husband - it was our fault - he had a bad day or he did not get the promotion or whatever.
Abuser always make sure that victim feels it victim's fault.
Tanisha - you saying I understand him and that's why I do not say anything at that time. Let's take your relationship few years down the road - what happens if you have had a bad day and can not take it calmly - you reply back and you get hit by him. Are you going to justify that it was your fault?
Bottom line is - Tanisha ji - you are a doormat. And I dare to compare you to other victims of domestic violence.