This is India. We have a cultured society. Unlike uncouth westerners our society is well structured to maintain a social hierarchy and preserve decorum. Quit making a mountain of a molehill. You western minded feminist Nazis ruin everything with your holier than thou exaggerated expectations. Maybe in your country men get whipped into being soft spoken, polite, respectful, calm and all that effeminate nonsense. In our country men are still men and behave just how real men should. That does not mean that our men are violent or abusive or misogynist. Our men are heroes, how dare you stick these horrendous labels on them. Of course our men may be a bit aggressive and temperamental, but they have to be macho and strong to protect the weak women and children - a bit of aggression and hot headedness is understandable. They may yell and scream some choice abuses, but after the stress of being strong and masculine, they are allowed some release. They may push and shove once in a while, but it is not that hard to get out of the way. Sometimes they may hit, but they don't mean it. They just got angry. Our men are good people, with a good heart, you just have to take care not to provoke them into doing anything rash. A good woman should know her place. Sometimes you have to just bend and submit to expectations. Standing up will do you no good. It just escalates a bad situation and makes it worse. š”
Thanks to your uncultured, western, feminist Nazi ways - that is exactly what you did. You have done everything wrong and created such a mess. Armaan is just a bit hot headed and aggressive. But apart from his yelling, screaming and abusive behavior he is a gem of a guy. Ask Tanisha about it, despite his outer appearance of treating her like chattel - she will testify to his most utterly sweet nature and caring demeanor. You clearly did not understand him and provoked him every step of the way. You foolishly expected Salman and Bigg Boss to stand up for you and say something to Armaan. You fell prey to the schemes of Gauhar and Kushal, gave you the most foolish advice of standing up against behavior you find offensive. If you would have only ignored their instigations and just cordially submitted like Tanisha we would not be here today. Sometimes you just smile and ignore the abuses with happy thoughts. If you find someone offensive, see it from their perspective - there must be a good reason why they are saying all those nasty things. If only you were a better human being, you would have shut up, adjusted and not made Armaan into an abusive villain. š¤¢
After all this misbehavior from you, you have the audacity to go file a police complaint against Armaan. You are so fortunate that you actually had some video evidence to back your claim, otherwise our fine police force knows not to give into women making such outrageous accusations against men. You have no idea how lucky you are. Most ordinary women who get wild ideas thanks to westernism and crazy feminist ideas are righteously kicked out of police precincts and become a laughing stock. Police complaint over such piddly matters? What were you thinking? What next women objecting to being called names like s**ts when that's what they exactly are? Demanding that cat callers, and leery eyed boys be arrested - when all they did was do exactly what your short revealing clothes beg for - lecherous attention? Prohibit husbands from yelling at their wives for being incompetent and worthless - why doesn't she learn to make round rotis, season the dal better and be more compliant in bed instead? Look we are not barbarians. We respect women. We know that rape is wrong. We know that beating is wrong. But if a man is not raping or beating a woman - what is your problem? You and your western thoughts - give you an inch, you will take a yard. This country will not fall for your foolish demands. Our men and women are better than that.
You are lucky that the outrage against your actions has been minimal. People have only called you names and exposed your publicity stunt. Seriously, it shows your lack of intelligence. Who in their right mind would take on cronies of Salman and BB for publicity? Salman is such an esteemed and respected member of our film fraternity that disagreeing with his sound wisdom and judgment is like social and career suicide. Were you in such a hurry to end your half assed career that you did such a dumb thing to get attention? Hopefully, some PR guys will approach you, knock some sense into you and coerce an out of court settlement and save you your face. A real court date would be embarrassing. It wasn't rape. It wasn't violence. What the heck would you say in court. That he was loud, abusive, threatening, bullying, harassing and used intimidating and offensive language. Well that's just your perspective. It is all part of the game and a result of provocation.
Just remember, over here, a woman's prized possession is her reputation. Cross the line and we know exactly how to attack your integrity, twist your words and prove you to be a woman of questionable reputation. But we are good people and won't go there yet. š”
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