Hypothetical question: Can you really snap out of it just like that?

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TheBoss

@TheBoss

Stunner

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hypothetical question to you all -- can you really change your equations and behavior in a jiffy like the way the house mates do? Was I the only one who thought it was a bit hypocritical as how everybody suddenly became all warm and cordial with Kushal in a snap as if they entirely forgot who, what, when and how, why of the entire physical violence incident.

Right or wrong if I have an issue with somebody in my real life, it would take me a very long time to convince myself to change my behavior because the previous incidents would always be in the back of my mind so I would be a bit wary to suddenly change just like that.

How is it possible for a human being to suddenly have a change of heart and display such a complete and random mood swing unless all of the house mates suffer from bipolar disorder?

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TheBoss

@TheBoss

Stunner

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Posted: 11 years ago

I don't need likes people -- uska achaar daalna nahi hai -- I need answers, real answers. 😆

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vish11111

@vish11111

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Posted: 11 years ago

Definitely. They are not enemies. They have had a few disagreements but they are all there to play a game. Armaan and Kushal were friends before or at least they knew each other. But still they fought when they felt it was needed.

Tanisha and Andy are the only ones who really had a problem with Kushal and they are just giving him a second chance.

Its up to the person...I am sure you won't see Andy and Tanisha ever arguing for Kushal or saving him from nominations...but they can still maintain a cordial relationship.

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Kiran

@kiran307

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

Plzz unlike pple.. He doesn't need Em. . In limited space under confines there are only so many people u can talk to.. So either forever b a snob n b lonely or warm up to every1 once in a while.. Coz whn there r only lik 9 pple, every1 will hv opinions about every1 n u might also b offended by every1 at some point.. But given the situation u got to play the game or else in the next nominations ull b nominated n coz of ur boring snobbish unfriendly behavior ull b shown the door..

brains..!!

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Tashu

@Millie.

Dazzler

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Posted: 11 years ago

I have arguments or fights with people at work almost everyday... but when the day has passed, you cant hold onto your ghosts for so long... a new day, a new beginning... it isnt that they are sworn enemies...
dont you ever fight with your siblings or friends

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-Pj-

@-Pj-

Rocker

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Posted: 11 years ago

I think warm and cordial are to different things. How some one the hms reacted I felt was a bit off. Well mainly Armaan's very warm welcome to Kushal.
To be warm IMO was showing off affection to another and if that is done with pretense then it simply showing your true colours. You're feelings do not change that quickly and it is for your own reasons you are doing so.

Yet to be cordial is simply to me being poilte to someone you may not agree with it even like. Just because you dislike then, doesn't mean you ignore them. You simply welcome them and move on, without dragging anything up.

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Fatima

@Rhimjhimsawan

Sparkler

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Posted: 11 years ago

I think in order to survive in that house you would have to be cordial and move on from past conflicts. Not survive as in survive in the show, but for your own mental stability.

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BLR_babe

@BLR_babe

Rocker

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Posted: 11 years ago

in real world maybe not .. u have an option of avoiding the person ...

but in BB its all abt image .. and it is confined space where they have to cordial to each other ..

and they were doing tht .. it wd have hypocritical if they ran and hugged .. only some of them had a smile on their faces others looked like wind had been blown out of them ..

on personal level it has happened a lot in my family a huge fight after cooling down cordial with each other .. yeah it is never like b4 but still relations were maintained .. when one person has extended hand if u reject it it wd be ur fault of continuing bad blood

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Misfit

@Misfit

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

If they were outside, I don't think they would have bothered to even wish each other with a hello after such fights. I think they all want to wear a mask of niceness to save their image in public. I don't think anyone is 100% real there.

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695779

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Survival.

Fake it till you make it.

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Hypothetical question: Can you really snap out of it just like that?

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