OMG..... I didn't know this about Sophiya... - Page 4

Originally posted by: Heyybabyydolll

no i dont think she is supporting what her family did. She is saying that you can't really believe the whole hiring of a hitman to kill her part of the story when there are so many things that do not add up. If a lot of the things in her story are outright lies, how can you believe that any of it is even true? Her parents may have been abusive, which is obviously unjustifiable, but she definitely exaggerated everything to the point it seems like lies.

Originally posted by: Rani48

I dont believe this women at all. No way her parents did anything of that to her. If it was true dont you think that maybe her sister would also come and back her up. its funny her mother was so tough on her and hired a Hit man to kill her but all of the sudden since she divorced her husband Sofias father she is a changed women. .. please if a women who was that mindset that her daughter working, or wearing those types of clothes, or dancing and singing is bad will never divorce her husband because that too is against her believe.

She is trying to get people to notice her and to become famous by making up this type of stories about her parents. Why are her parents not trying to kill her now. She is still using her fathers last name and if he was bad then he would be bad now also so what happen?

Originally posted by: King-Anu

@ Muskaan: Of course such incidents happens in real life. Girls are subjected to violence in name of honor. it happens among desi families in west and even rural areas back home. There is absolutely no doubt there. I can't even think of supporting family members in such situations. No excuse justifies any type of abuse.

However this issue to me seems a bit different. This is not about freedom but shamelessness. I would like to see a desi family here who would be okay with their girls doing such things. If there is anyone then please come forward.

Even forget all that. I say lets assume all this is true. She stll doesnt have the right to behave she is behaving in this show. She should not be accusing Ajaz of anything. She should not use this to gain sympathy. If anything her antics are going against her story as one does not find her geniuine.

Originally posted by: batuklaal

I saw her first in Welcome Mehman Nawazi.

She insulted and started a fight with Shilpa because she touched her expansive shoes. She is a carbon copy of Suhas(3idiots). Who instantly told what is the price of her shoe and how dare Shilpa touched those. I never thought a way how a guest can save herself when host behaves that way. But amazingly Shilpa controlled the situation and cool her down saying , "Let's eat."

She poured water on another contestant. Insulted India and Indians. She had a fight with Rahul Mahajan and others when they protested her ill words against India.

She invited the guest and played as "Queen Elizabeth" at her home. Her home is another "Chidia Ghar". It is decorated by flag of England and other objects. She doesn't believe she's Indian but thinks herself as western. She is actually a psychological patient like Suhas.

As far as I have ideas about fanatic muslim families, they don't allow their girls to study . This family send her to University to study good subject such as "Biology." Biology is another subject, usually communal families think their kids should not study that. If her family was that backward how did they allowed that? It's so opposite of average communal Muslims.

She said she worked in night clubs as dancer. Forget about Muslims, no open minded cultured family will ever allow that. To Indians it is close to prostitution. If any member of the family do that they will try their best to stop. Send her to school, motivate her by education, religion etc. Over protective Muslim/Hindu or Indian families will find a man( old, widow, cripple or chaar bache ke baap) and get the girl married . If it is a son, they'll do the same or throw him out of the family. At least her parents didn't do any of such. They took care of her. Tried to protect.

That day I was watching DID. Where Mudasser ( judge and choreographer) shared his experience. How his parents were against dancing, how he used to escape from home. His mother never allowed him to house if he was late for dancing. But whenever he owned a prize and showed that to his mother, she used to say , "That's good. But from next don't go for dancing." Because dancing is completely against Islam. It took time for him, but now you know he has proved himself. This is the common story of every successful man and woman in India. Parents never agree, still we do. We prove ourselves and prove our parents wrong. One day they bless us and say , "We were wrong and you are right." But we don't accuse our parents that they tried to kidnap.

She couldn't proof that her mother hired a hitman.I'm sure yeh uski self created story. Although it happens all the time in India. But a family who allows such a spoiled girl( club dancer) to study in University can't be that bad. If you guys know or have idea of a real communal Muslim family, you'll know study for woman and going out at night is like insulting Quran. They seemed modern to me.

But I'm sympathized for her for what happened in her childhood with the relative. Her family should stand up with her. In this case her family is guilty. Most probably this was the reason of her later life's abnormal behavior. She shared this in WMN too and everyone felt sorry for her. Then her "Why did you touch my shoe" and "I'm not Indian" came in the picture. Like other contestants I've also forgot what she suffered in life. Still struggling to believe her. She is a plastic and phony. Girls like her do anything to prove they are right. Even make a story as "My mother wanted to kidnap me."

I disagree with that as in our culture family is a unit not individual. One just needs to accept that. Still I will give you this point as its my personal take.

Me personally? I do not agree with her lifestyle as such at all, but i dont judge her either and i find it quite sad that a lot of ppl do, maybe once ppl stop passing judgements we will get rid of all the "honor"-killing/abusing cases. To be honest I sometimes think that it might be that parents in such cases (Sophia's) have failed in their upbringing. I dont mean this in any offense to anyone, but i belief u shouldnt put too many restrictions on ur kids that they feel the need to rebel against everything. I for example would never feel comfortable doing such things, but also do my parents know that if i wanted they could never stop me and i believe thats the way it should b.

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Heyybabyydolll

muskaan23

I disagree with that as in our culture family is a unit not individual. One just needs to accept that. Still I will give you this point as its my personal take.

For a start she needs to stop judging as well. Calling someone a namard and keep repeating it on basis of not standing in water when one is injured is not a proper judgement.

Well it was not like she was fighting for her freedom there. lol. Even in west parents would object to her behavior. However as I said abuse etc is not answer either.

I meant behavior of accusing some and ignoring others.

Even Ajaz can say I meant I will slap you and not anything sexual. I seem to have missed Ajaz as chauvinistic man. Armaan is the same or worst. I think she called him gentleman.

point is that she should keep out of it. thanks

edit: i am having issues with quote.