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If someone calls me an idiot, a selfish person, a liar, cheat or whatever choice words that person uses to give gaali, I would be very pissed off.
But if someone starts getting personal and makes comments such as
What a loser u r, no wonder ur boyfriend left u or no wonder u didnt get that job or no wonder u didnt get that promotion, u dont deserve xyz , u r ugly that's why no one looks at u etc,
I think I would find it really hard to control myself in the second instance.
Both are gaalis, but the second one is way more hurtful and damaging than the first.
Now, relating this to BB, my take is:
Armaan saying "tumhari aukaat kya hai", using the word "divorcee" for Kamya is worse than his "kutte ke bacche" (dont remember his other dialogues)
Kushal saying whatever he did to Tanisha "u r a loser, u r fatso, look at where ur sister is and where u r" was hurtful
Gauhar telling Elli, "She is just a pretty face..that's all" is hurtful
Andy displaying Gauhar's lingerie and discussing her vitals reflects more on Andy as a person than Gauhar.
Tanisha saying "unki class kya hai aur hamari class kya hai" and "kaise kaise calibre ke logon ko le aaye ho BB" is more hurtful than if she wud have used swear words.
Ajaz calling Armaan "flop actor" and whatever else he said today is hurtful.
When one gets personal and starts taunting you, it is more difficult to handle than if they were to use swear words.
What do you people think?
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