Dear khamoshh. I agree she shud not be grilled for such petty things. But as I said the problem with Gauhar is she talks non-stop and is too eager to present her points that in her attempt she stops everyone from interveining. I can connect to this thing as I hav the same philosophy. Even I hate it when some one intervenes when I'm talking, but being said and done, you shud give the same fair chance to others who are talking. After you finish talking without interruptions, you interrupt others while talking and not letting them talk and complete their point is ill-manners. B'cos of this Gauhar comes across as bigger culprit even when she is right. For a change when she learns to talk softly and holds herself when the opposite person has completed their conversation and then she points out that she has problem with this, this and this things then may be she would gain more supporters. By cutting across others convo. she comes across as rude, loud and ill-mannered.