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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: poorvab


how has he been treated? i dont see him being treated badly at all. in fact he is the only one who has never been nominated till now. and nominations r done by housemates themselves so r they treating him badly? he had a fight yesterday and thats it. when has he been treated wrongly?

and well, thats ur opinion, i respect that.
as i said, my POV is that i would not like a friend like that. someone who doesnt speak their mind only to remain in good books of others and who lies to avoid confrontations. i call such people cowards IMO.



So according to you who is the brave person in the house?
If you call such a person coward then then the world is full of them, as we all lie once in a while. Just for curiosity, so you are telling me have you have never lied?


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: stotra

It was sad to see Sangram cry in todays episode. While watching it, I remembered a Jonny Depp movie called Edwards Scissorhands. Edward is a uncommon kind man in a cruel world, in which people take advantage of his innocence and in the end try to harm him after his accidental mistake and Sangram is similar to the uncommon kind guy amongst common cruel people in Bigg Boss.

Sangram is polite and innocent (and bcos he is innocent he can trust people easily and be easily influenced by them) and is not shrewd and cant come up with arguments which others can. Everyone has their own qualities, Sangram maybe more comfortable while using his skills with hands while wrestling and maybe weaker in communication skills, while with Andy it's the other way around. But unfortunately for him using his skills are against the law and laws are quite strict for that but usually verbal attacks are overlooked even though they can sometimes cause more harm than physical attacks and wounds caused from them can take longer time to heal. I do not think Sangram would have cried today if he was physically hurt.

Some people like Gauhar, Kamya and Pratusha think they are doing great by talking a stand in the Bigg Boss house and they act like their stand is as important as someone in Pakistan and taking a stand against Al qaeda. For these delusional people taking a stand is yelling at top of their voice , most of the time on baseless topics, knowing other person cannot touch them. Also, they think are better than sangram as he cannot argue as well as they can. According to men they are just manipulative and egoistic people and deserves no special recognition. After watching today's episode , I am sure Armaan is the weakest person in the house( as he has no self control over his actions and his reactions are just driven by other persons action) and Sangram is a better person than all of them put together ( maybe excluding Ellie).


I agree with every word you wrote.

These are the days good and being nice are considered as weaknesses not as virtues.
IF THEY SEE GANDHIJI TODAY, THESE PPL THINK HE IS USELESS AND WEAK.
sad but thats the bitter truth. There is no place for nice ppl in that BB house.

Its like how a thief view everyone else also a thief. He just cannot think other person can be better human being.
He sees his reflection in others.
That is what is happening.
I really wish Sangram gets saved from those brutal n cruel bullies.



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Posted: 11 years ago
#44
Going by tomorrow's precap, I think only Sangram will have to go through that " Such aur Jhoot " test and IMO it is extremely unfair if everyone is not subjected to that test. And even more unfair that all his answers are being judged by people in the house. Why is BB trying to tarnish Sangram's character??? Everyone has his own style of playing the game in BB and targeting one person and showing him/her in negative light is totally wrong.
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Sangram was making good relations with all the contestants in today's episode and was getting in good books of all once again and then BB sent him to this task. Shame on you BB.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: stotra



So according to you who is the brave person in the house?
If you call such a person coward then then the world is full of them, as we all lie once in a while. Just for curiosity, so you are telling me have you have never lied?



of course everyone lies.

i am saying - my POV is that i would not like a friend like that. someone who doesnt speak their mind only to remain in good books of others and who lies to avoid confrontations. i call such people cowards IMO.

im saying someone who keeps quite all the time to pretend to be in everyone's good books?? r u serious?? why cant you be who u really are. why cant u show ur true face n then let people like or dislike u acc to their own will. why do u have to pretend all the time to be goody goody with everyone?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: poorvab

of course everyone lies.

i am saying - my POV is that i would not like a friend like that. someone who doesnt speak their mind only to remain in good books of others and who lies to avoid confrontations. i call such people cowards IMO.

im saying someone who keeps quite all the time to pretend to be in everyone's good books?? r u serious?? why cant you be who u really are. why cant u show ur true face n then let people like or dislike u acc to their own will. why do u have to pretend all the time to be goody goody with everyone?

Not everyone is confrontational or on the face. That too with everyone and anyone. SOme people are that way, that does not mean that those people are bad or cowards. I am one who would try to be good with evryone even overlooking someone's bad quality not because I am coward but because I believe it is very easy to break a relationship but it is very tough to make and maintain one.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#47
After watching the precap i think,
they should have done it like last season , everyone gets a chance and judge is bb or w/e
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: bigthullu

After watching the precap i think,
they should have done it like last season , everyone gets a chance and judge is bb or w/e


Completely agreed. Just like last season everyone must take this test and not just one person and I think Sangram won't be told that his answers will be seen and judged by housemates.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: poorvab


of course everyone lies.

i am saying - my POV is that i would not like a friend like that. someone who doesnt speak their mind only to remain in good books of others and who lies to avoid confrontations. i call such people cowards IMO.

im saying someone who keeps quite all the time to pretend to be in everyone's good books?? r u serious?? why cant you be who u really are. why cant u show ur true face n then let people like or dislike u acc to their own will. why do u have to pretend all the time to be goody goody with everyone?

I think this has been very well answered by KaushikBasu and since you admit that everyone lies and their circumstances and reasons are different so I would like to remind you of your own quote
Learn the facts before assuming
Understand why before judging
Think before speaking
Feel Before hurting"


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: kaushikbasu

Not everyone is confrontational or on the face. That too with everyone and anyone. SOme people are that way, that does not mean that those people are bad or cowards. I am one who would try to be good with evryone even overlooking someone's bad quality not because I am coward but because I believe it is very easy to break a relationship but it is very tough to make and maintain one.

Perfect comment and to the point 👏

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