Comparison between standing for oneself and standing for others

Originally posted by: akhl

I have not been watching BB but have fair idea of what is going on by reading some of the posts here.

Sangram is being bashed that he did not take a stand when Andy behaved in such a disgusting manner with Gauhar.

Gauhar is being praised because she took a stand for herself.

I agree that Sangram should learn to take stand instead of playing so safe.

I also agree that it is good to take a stand for oneself.

However, one person took stand for herself and from another person we expect that he should take stand for somebody else. Is this really a fair comparison?

In BB, so many fights happen because somebody feels that he/she has been treated unfairly. So taking a stand for oneself, although good, is quite normal.

A proper comparison will be when Gauhar took stand for somebody else irrespective of her person relationship with the people involved in the fight. In other words, if two people A and B fought and she defended the victim irrespective of which of A and B was her friend or with whom she was on bad terms. Has it happened?

Originally posted by: akhl

Similarly Kushal. It is good to take a stand to defend a woman's honour. But I know that he had very close relationship with Gauhar even before that incident. If Andy had disrespected any other woman, then also would Kushal have taken the same stand? Are there any actual facts based on which we can answer this question?