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Hello BB7ians!
I have so many things to vent to you guys about! 😆
I think it's safe to say there is quite a lot of hypocrisies going on not only in the show but in this forum as well. I think we should all be consistent with our opinions, right? I mean if we find someone's actions to be offensive, we shouldn't turn a blind eye towards one person and not another. Also, it has come to my attention, the definition of the word "cheap" varies a lot in this forum.
IN MY OPINION, labeling a person as "cheap" is similar to putting a "Red tag" on someone... as if to say, "BEWARE; SOMETHING IS OFF about this person". So, IMO a person's action is considered "cheap" if they purposely hurt another person. I also put that same "red tag" on a person if their actions are not consistent--- if they put a facade or act like a hypocrite: they claim to be a person that their actions do not portray.
So many cast member label themselves off as a "blunt" person. They speak their mind. They usually claim to fair in their judgment. If something bothers them, they will say it -- right there, right then --- no grudge attached. But that's not the case here. That's a big lie (and we all know how much liars piss me off).
So many people are misconstruing the word "blunt" as "rude, inconsiderate, idiotic" behavior. You CAN be blunt and voice your opinions WITHOUT being hurtful and rude... and this is coming from a person who ALSO CLAIMS TO BE BLUNT. I will always voice my opinion, if I deem it to be necessary. BUT, I will not do it in a fashion where I hurt or insult the people around me. I'm sure most of you might have guessed what incident I am about to talk about... BUT before I get to that, I also want to say that in order to be fair, we need to be consistent. We have to step back and analyze EVERYONE'S actions before labeling certain people as cheap. Don't be so judgmental. Call it like you see it, but only if you TRULY see it.
We don't live in the house, so we don't know what any of the cast members are TRULY like; but thankfully to their actions caught on camera, we can form some sort of opinions (A BROAD OPINION).
When I came to this forum today, I saw so many people bashing certain cast members that it provoked me to question, if their actions are considered "Cheap" why aren't those same BB7ians calling out other cast members as being "Cheap".
Before I start "cast"-name calling, let me just inform you that I am a neutral-viewer. I am not a big fan/supporter of ANY OF THE CAST MEMBERS.
Okay, so many considered the hug between Gauhar and Kushal to be considered cheap. Some just singled out Gauhar and claimed SHE is cheap ... (I believe KHUSHAL also hugged, why only single one person out?). Okay, I respect that you might be a "conservative", and you might find such actions to be "degrading". I respect that. But can we just STEP BACK for a moment and see the bigger picture? We have all been through bad times, and whenever we're upset, we need people that we consider to be "CLOSE to us" to comfort us. We want to lean on the shoulders of our friends and family. I am not going to comment on K-G's relationship (you can form your own opinions BASED on what you SEE and not hear from other cast members on the show). Having said that, do you still now think that K-G hugging should be considered cheap? K-G were upset and said sorry to each other, and kind of closed that topic with a hug... BIG DEAL! Also, EVERYONE in the house hugged (especially when they won a task or something "Great" happened... everyone hugged each other. K-G ARE NOT the only ones hugging). Despite my "reasoning", if you still find the hug to be cheap... then why are you guys NOT calling out Tanisha and Armaan's actions. What do you call Armaan kissing Tanisha's hand when he was in the cage (Tanisha put her hand on his shoulder, and he kissed it)? Not cheap? Cheap?
... Do you get what i'm trying to refer to. PERSONALLY, I don't find the hug NOR the kiss in the hand to be cheap... because of the scenario that these four people were in when such "degrading" actions took place -_-. *please note sarcasm*
And its not even just the forum... its the show. Whenever G-K have any scenes, Salman teases them (jokingly, for the argument's sake). BUT when T-A scenes are shown, Salman is shown watching it while humming/singing one of his romantic songs in the background (like a baddmash 😆). To top it off, he ends their scenes by saying "How Sweet"😕. If your gonna "tease" someones relationship (whether it be G-K or Andy-S), please tease ALL related relationship (aka that of A-T).
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I don't consider Tanisha, Armaan, Kushal, and Gauhar's "intimiate" (if we can even call it that 🤓) scenes to be cheap, WHAT i DO consider cheap is the way Tanisha, Kamya, and Pratyusha acted towards Ellie. And Tanisha/Armaan's "outing" Asif (I'll explain).
These three "gentle women" claims to be fair, non judgmental, and blunt. ALL LIES. If your telling me your not afraid of anyone and that you speak your mind, then please f**ken practice it. Thanks. Their actions towards Ellie is so "high school". Tanisha laughing and then stopping when she realized Ellie was still behind proves SO MANY THINGS, like the fact that she puts up a front of being the "nice" one. Pratyusha laughing just shows that she is a follower/loser. Kamya CONTINUING to talk to Tanisha about Ellie, despite Ellie saying, just talk to me about it, just goes to show how immature these girls/ "women" are. Get real. Grow a pair of lady balls and be the person your parents *hopefully* TAUGHT you to be. Be f**ken considerate. Mocking Ellie in front of her face regarding her lack of hindi-knowledge is just uncalled for. Salman does not even speak proper Hindi to her. He always speak some gibberish-hindi in front of Ellie. FORGET ELLIE, some of the cast memebers dont even understand Salman. Forget CAST MEMBERS, Some of US dont even understand Salman's way of talking. 😕
Another "cheap" action was Armaan and Tanisha's "outting" Asif. Theres a video called "Is Asif Gay". There, Tanisha and Arman are seen talking about Asif's sexuality. Whatever the case, whether he is Gay, Bisexual, Straight, who the f**k gives a shit. That's his personal choice. Leave it to him. Do not discuss it... they know cameras are around them... then why speak about it? When Andy joking said "Oh so Arman's keys are with TANIISHHAA", Tanisha shh-ed him saying she will slap him... because there were cameras and she did not want to "publicize their relationship (*MAJOR EYE ROLL*). I'll respect her for showing off to the camera that she wants to keep her relationship private (cough cough)... but then WHO THE HELL IS SHE to talk about Asif's past relationships with Armaan, in front of the SAME CAMERA!?
Asif, I was also very disappointed with. He is experiencing some language barriers HIMSELF, why he felt the need to comment when Ellie left and went inside, goes beyond my understanding. Asif needs to grow HIS man balls, and be real and honest like we all claim he is. He needs to stop trying to fit into a group that is up to no good.
Also, I don't even know if I should bother talking about Apurva and Shilpa . I always knew they were playing the game "Safe" by being "friendly" to everyone and by being "silent". ALL OF A SUDDEN, Apurva decides to show of his manly balls by giving threats...? Seriously? Get real. Just because your in Jannat this week does not mean you will not return to "Jahanum" next week. This sudden abrupt behavior was so delayed, but Im glad we all saw it sooner than later on in the show. Also, did anyone else feel the need to barf when Shilpa started her "Shit. Shit. *major Niagara falls crying* show. Really? 🤔 It HURTS you THAT much to just say two names? Okay, sensitive-shilpa. Point noted.
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Hope you enjoyed my POV. Whether you agree or not, I would love to read your replies. 😊
- Maddi
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