What is the big issue in: ' Aurat HO to Aurat Ki Tarah raho' - Page 2

Originally posted by: spkurmind

Have you heard of " Be a Man"? Its only matter of different language.

Does the use of Language sober up the statement?

Does women think their place is in dustbin? Or is an insult to be a women? They why bother if someone uses this statement?

Originally posted by: spkurmind

Have you heard of " Be a Man"? Its only matter of different language.

Does the use of Language sober up the statement?

Does women think their place is in dustbin? Or is an insult to be a women? They why bother if someone uses this statement?

Originally posted by: spkurmind

My point is we believe every individual is alike and they should not imitate others. Similarly Women should behave as Women and not try to imitate Men and it also goes with Men that they should behave like Men.

We MEN in India have been raised to behave like MEN and take up our responsibilities right from childhood, for education, career, marriage, children etc.

Why at the same time if we expect Women to behave like Women a big problem?

In earlier days way centuries back Women were much more independent and lived up in true sense being Women. But today the definition of independence and liberation has been so miserably changed that Women have lost there focus of existence. Hardly 5% of Women today are in true sense independent.

This are my views and people are free to give theirs. But don't dare try to change mine.

Originally posted by: akhl

By reading some of posts here, it seems the way in which Arman said "Aurat ho, aurat ki tarah raho" was really offensive - though I did not watch it myself. However, in BB, I have more often seen the same problem the other way round. Some women participants talk very rudely with others. They scream at, rebuke and make insulting comments. But if any man replies back in kind, their answer is "Learn to respect a woman."

No one is condoning that. I am not in favor of being given any special respect only on account of my gender. It needs to be earned. That is what irks me in the stereotypical gentlemanliness and old world chivalry. On romantic dates, men are expected to pay bills etc. Really unfair.

But in the context of Arman's statement, just because some women play gender card unfairly doesn't give him license to berate and talk loosely about all womankind.

Similarly "Be a man" is not always used in positive sense. Often this is used to mean that "Men should take up more of hard works. In any fight between a man and a woman, the man should apologize even if the woman is at greater fault." In BB, you will easily see that when a man and a woman contestants fight with each other and, even if both are at fault, people tell the man "Say sorry to her."

I haven't watched any such instance where someone who is at a greater fault has been said sorry to only on account of being a woman 😕 Are we watching the same show?

People usually ask that person to initiate truce who seems to be the more understanding and mature of the two sparring opponents, be it a man or a woman.