Originally posted by: Ronnie7
She was right in both places.
The gist of her discussion with Mandana and Rochelle in the washroom was that one has to be ready to take retaliations on the chin if instigating a fight. One cannot start a fight as an equal and then play the woman card as and when convenient. She used the word 'darpok' just to end the conversation and as if to mean that being perceived as a coward is at least better than being perceived to be a hypocrite.
Then in the living room, when she was in a discussion with Kishwar, Prince and Suyash, she was right in pointing out the different forms of aggression used by people. She said women are more likely to resort to emotional, verbal and a passive-aggressive form where their body language still remains quaint and calm whereas in the case of men, their verbal aggression might be less articulate, but their body language tends to become and look more threatening in such cases, especially in retaliation. This again is true more often than not and was true in the context of the Highway task and its aftermath.
Don't be squeamish about accepting the truth, even if it is uncomfortable. Don't let your perception and opinion be guided by some misguided need to find elements of misogyny in everything.
Don't be so blinded by your love for her tht you don't even comprehend a simple conversation .
Don't let your love completely take you over to find such a serious issue as nothing.
For a sec, what if it wasn't Rimi here in this place?
I know the reaction of y'all.and I have seen it😆
When Aman said tht Kish is the man of the house, I saw threads open calling him an MCP n all.
This,here, is the same case.
I stand by my opinion.
Edited by WreckLass - 9 years ago