Accepting Mistake verses Doing Argument

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Dazzler

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Posted: 9 years ago

Two people commit a mistake.

One person accepted that what he/she did was wrong, feels sorry for it and is ready to take punishment for it happily.

Other person does not accept that what he/she did was wrong, argue and try to put the blame completely or partially on one or more persons.

Now its simple that your conversation with the first person will end within couple of minutes but you have to argue long with the second person to prove your point.

That's what always happen in BB. Contestants like Gautam and Mandana did mistakes too but they always accept their mistake without any excuse or argument but Contestants like Tanna and Kishwer/Prince are in habit of giving excuses, putting blame on someone else, saying that others did that too and argue endlessly so the host has to argue back with them to tell them where they were wrong and it seems to some viewers that first person got no scolding for their mistake whereas second person is grilled for hours.

Edited by KarmaKing - 9 years ago

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Ratiholic

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Posted: 9 years ago

Completely agree with what you Said TM... Mandana Accepted Her Mistake Infact She happily accepted The Punishment Given to Her... But Kishwer Just want to Drag the Incident to A Big extent... She just want Mandana to get evicted becoz She knws it and we all knw It Mandana is Strong and Audience Favourite... A Few People Especially In IF cant understand that There Is a big World Outside INDIA FORUMS watching BB...Go and See on Social networking Sites Who Is being bashed everyday Kishwer or Mandana ? whether people Like mandana or not.. You'll get ur Answer... People definitely like her may be Her style of Saying is a little Annoying but Her Activities are far better than Kishwer and people Dnt Hate Her as they do Kishwer ...

Edited by saswatkumar - 9 years ago

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Manisha

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Posted: 9 years ago

Kish never feels sorry for any of her behavior.

She never showed any remorse for spitting, but kept complaining about the dog task and rishabh apologized. But again knish never did.

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Moon-Sparkle

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Dazzler

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Posted: 9 years ago

Btw just a reminder mandira never said sorry for kicking even if it was a slight kick as it was still a physical move there

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ArhiMaria

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Posted: 9 years ago

Well said TM! This seems to be the pattern, the more you come up with lame justifications the more you dig your own grave. Kishwar has blatantly lied on many occasions instead of simply accepting her mistakes. The same can be said about Prince too!

If Mandana said yes the kicking was wrong and she accepted her punishment from BB, you can't tell her no you have to repeat yourself 100 times that you were wrong. Whereas Prince showed no remorse until the end of the show when he felt the pressure.

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Posted: 9 years ago

Lmao dude, Mandana DID NOT accept her mistake in kicking Kishwar. She tried to justify it so hard by saying Kishwar strangled her (and that excuse too was formulated much later -- 10 minutes after the whole kicking incident that took place). Mandana thinks she's right no matter what she does. And regarding her accepting her punishment, let's get real, getting nominated IS NOT a punishment for something as severe as violence. Violence = getting kicked out of BB house. That's what happened in previous seasons. And even last year, Puneet put Arya into a martial arts hold and had to live outside in a freaking prison with no amenities available to him. He had to depend on P2G to help him out. THAT'S what a punishment is. Mandana physically hurt Kishwar with intention (you can see the scene, she could've used her hands but she purposefully used feet). Mandana needed to be EVICTED. Even then, she needed to be given a real punishment which she was not because BB is an unfair asshole. You can tell Mandana expected to be kicked out, because she was so damn relieved when her "punishment" was being nominated. Eff that shit.

You can hate Kishwar all you want, but Kishwar was NOT wrong there, Mandana is being treated better than the rest of them.

Regarding accepting mistakes, I'd agree that Prince has huge problems with that. He doesn't see his behaviour as wrong. And Kishwar does try to pass on the buck, that's for sure.

But you're completely wrong on Mandana.

Edited by lovely_lady - 9 years ago

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tvbuf

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: lovely_lady
Lmao dude, Mandana DID NOT accept her mistake in kicking Kishwar. She tried to justify it so hard by saying Kishwar strangled her (and that excuse too was formulated much later -- 10 minutes after the whole kicking incident that took place). Mandana thinks she's right no matter what she does. And regarding her accepting her punishment, let's get real, getting nominated IS NOT a punishment for something as severe as violence. Violence = getting kicked out of BB house. That's what happened in previous seasons. And even last year, Puneet put Arya into a martial arts hold and had to live outside in a freaking prison with no amenities available to him. He had to depend on P2G to help him out. THAT'S what a punishment is. Mandana physically hurt Kishwar with intention (you can see the scene, she could've used her hands but she purposefully used feet). Mandana needed to be EVICTED. Even then, she needed to be given a real punishment which she was not because BB is an unfair asshole. You can tell Mandana expected to be kicked out, because she was so damn relieved when her "punishment" was being nominated. Eff that shit.

You can hate Kishwar all you want, but Kishwar was NOT wrong there, Mandana is being treated better than the rest of them.

Regarding accepting mistakes, I'd agree that Prince has huge problems with that. He doesn't see his behaviour as wrong. And Kishwar does try to pass on the buck, that's for sure.

But you're completely wrong on Mandana.

Mandana is Salman's favorite firangi girl right now - in his eyes she can do no wrong

Mandana never accepted that she was wrong, and she happily accepted her punishment because it was so minor - basically it means nothing