As per Kish, if Mandy & Rish didn't explain themselves for the dog and bone task, so why should she for the spitting scandal. Is she out of her mind? It's like trying to equate an assault and a robbery.. two different crimes that are not even at the same level. She can't hide behind what she went through in the dog and bone task & expect mercy from viewers.
I didn't see others saying, chalo chalo thukate hain. Kishwar spit in Rish's drinks but others watched it silently. Yes, they should have stopped her but, I think she's deluded if she feels that silence from others is taken as an approval for spitting.