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I have been following this season of Bigg Boss as a neutral viewer. In the beginning of first few weeks I supported Gautam... For one single incidence, he was cornered badly... He cried like a kid and was very emotional. However, post that Puneet, Pritam and PRaneet supported him and thus P3G was created! For few weeks they kept supporting each other while bitching, planning and plotting at the same time! And no, Im not saying they were wrong or Bedroom Gang was any better... No.. but they were equally involved in bitching and plotting!
Then as season progressed Gautam was declared as a hero by all... In comparison with Karishma, he was considered as a better person...She was the evil villain while he was the national hero! However, there is a very weird thing that I have noticed about this guy!
His mental thinking is very different... He always tries to use the sympathy card and pretend to be the victim! Even in circumstances when he was not cornered or anything, he kept on saying to people that he knows what they have said about him but he still forgives them... However, he never forgave any of them...still carries the burden of 1st week in his heart! His point of view is such that everyone around him is bad and he is the only nice guy around.
Psychologically probably he thinks all the time that he is being victimized and people are doing wrong to him! It could be because of his past experiences or something related to family.. Maybe he faced something very painful in life which he gets reminded of in certain situations! But the fact is he takes things too seriously and lives in a world where everyone appears to be a villain to him!
For instance, today he started talking first about Ali's family and then when Ali said some stuff to him, he got upset... Agreed Ali was not right in saying those things... but why did Gulati make a big issue out of it? Why did he cry like a baby? The words of another insignificant person in his life shouldnt affect him so much... On top of that even though everybody supported him, he claimed that Tanna and Patel were making fun of him when clearly they both were supporting him... Tanna and Sambhavana both told Ali to not say such words... But in turn Gulati blamed UpMa and Sambhavana for not supporting him!
Why is it so? Why was he so upset? Why did he think he was being victimized when clearly everyone was supporting him and trying to calm him down? Is he really a victim? And that too this big? It just surprises me for the fact that this person always claims to be a victim, even when he is not...and Ironically never supports anyone else when they are being targetted! Is this because he views the world in black and white where others are black and he is white... and for him anyone being wronged is of no concern to him..bt when something happens to him, he shouts at his friends for not supporting and what not!
Just curiously trying to get into his brains... Please comment on what you thing about his mentality.
Ps. Im not a fan of anyoneđ
