Originally posted by: sidzafar31
Isn't it better to say something to someone upfront rather than bitching behind someone's back? You just brought up another drawback of her yourself. I did not, you did. :) you get it now. So many people cant be wrong about someone. This thread is about how she uses her words and makes cheap comments. Not about gg and who initiated what. Upen and tanna made Ali look like clown. They initiated too but would it be okay if Ali swore at them or made below the belt comments? No? Same thing applies here. Become neutral then you will see why she isn't coming first and not even second. If people stop defending so much and if she changes herself then maybe there will be some people who will appreciate that and support her instead of disliking her.
Well her popularity with masses is no pointer to the current issue. With that reasoning every popular actor should go scott free.
Also she does bitching. I accept it. Everyone does it. So this a drawback of everyone involved and we have accepted it so well that its a moot point now.
Not sure about the hypothetical case of Ali passing below the belt comment but in current situation events happened in following sequence.
Tanna and sana were bonding together and having girl talk.
Tanna was asking for outside feedback
Gg stalks them unnecesarily and taunts kari.
Kari does not like it and she stops him. He unnecessarily butting in. He keeps telling others not to butt in between convo. A serious lack of manners which he displays himself.
He still goes ahead and talks of cutting her dress from behind mockingly wielding knife. Another tactless remark.
Tanna calls him gawar. Meaning mannerless, guy lacking in tact and etiquettes due to his exasperating behaviour.
So who is the perpetrator here ? And he was mannerless twice, butting in between.
Now as far as topic is rlated to choice of words. But words should taken into into context. How she was wrong in THIS particular imstance ? She may be wrong several times but how is that related ?