Love and hate for contestants

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I'm a psychology student, currently in my last year of uni. Ive been thinking over the past couple of days, why do we (especially us people on the forum) get so attached to the contestants even though we know we are never gonna meet them. I mean there are so many people attached to praising a contestant and so many that scrutinise a persons every move just so that they can find a fault to bash the contestants with (this applies to all contestants). I mean we waste so much time on this that we even forget that we have our own lives.We are here fighting amongst ourselves whilst they are over there getting money and probably gonna forget each other and reaping in the benefits of our bickering and fight to vote for the best, whilst we get babaji ka thullu at the end of it. They won't even know us or appreciate us for it or meet us in person.
Ive actually noticed this about myself and Im wondering, from a psychological point of view, why this is the way it is?


This post is for you general views not for bashing or praising fan groups and contestants, so please lets make this a clean discussion.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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its human nature i guess.. We get feeling for that specific one person or one team, same like in football f.ex.. People from Asia, America are supporting European teams, even tho they get nothing from supporting them.. like they earn millions each week, we get nothing right, but there is a joy when your teams win, or a anger when they lose, no? thats the reason, afterward you get emotional attached to it, and can do anything to support it.. :) same goes here..

I, myself wouldn't care if i have exam tomorrow, would still watch my fav team playing day before :)
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Originally posted by: IF-Reader

its human nature i guess.. We get feeling for that specific one person or one team, same like in football f.ex.. People from Asia, America are supporting European teams, even tho they get nothing from supporting them.. but there is a joy when your teams win, no? thats the reason :)


Yeh, but why do we get joy from it? Its so confusing
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: 07sid01


Yeh, but why do we get joy from it? Its so confusing


lol i am not psychology student dear :P i am engineering student.

but as i said we get emotional attached to it afterwards..in start its like ok, its just a sport, but when you have supported them a while, they become a part of you.. and ofc you get joy/hurt if you win or lose something.. its confusing true, thats how human get attached to different things.. someone might like one actor other might like other.. like when you make friends, you get joy being with them, just in that way these actors, teams become part of your life, part of you, like your friends, even tho you get nothing from supporting them.. but joy/hurt will be same like you get from being friend with someone
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Timepass aur kuch nahi 😆

I used to like Anti gg & pro gg group fights in forum 😉 but then it was getting boring
then upen started his psycho behavior and forum was flooded with upen praising bashing posts
Bahut maza aaya but this week again back to GG 🤢



I am not emotionally attached to any contestant
I like gg and i dislike others
Love & hate jaisa kuch nahi h 😆
Edited by melodrama - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: 07sid01

I'm a psychology student, currently in my last year of uni. Ive been thinking over the past couple of days, why do we (especially us people on the forum) get so attached to the contestants even though we know we are never gonna meet them. I mean there are so many people attached to praising a contestant and so many that scrutinise a persons every move just so that they can find a fault to bash the contestants with (this applies to all contestants). I mean we waste so much time on this that we even forget that we have our own lives.We are here fighting amongst ourselves whilst they are over there getting money and probably gonna forget each other and reaping in the benefits of our bickering and fight to vote for the best, whilst we get babaji ka thullu at the end of it. They won't even know us or appreciate us for it or meet us in person.

Ive actually noticed this about myself and Im wondering, from a psychological point of view, why this is the way it is?


This post is for you general views not for bashing or praising fan groups and contestants, so please lets make this a clean discussion.


I agree, supporting someone, pointing out other's faults, trying to understand a contestant's view point, questioning someone's decisions, morals,...etc is fine---Part of entertainment and can help in personal growth if channelized properly( as we learn by observing and questioning). But attacking random strangers for other strangers, getting personal for stupid reasons is just idiotic in every sense.
Even while watching a movie or a scripted TV show, we subconsciously pick our favorite characters and root for them till the end. This show follows the same pattern, the whole"supporting/rooting" thing becomes a little hostile as this show is a "Reality show" and people involved are not characters/actors and unlike the other options this support, to some extent has the potential to change the path of the "Character/person" we are rooting for, hence the increased intensity and aggression.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Seedhi baat no Bokwaas
Its called timepass which ppl do. They come here to enjoy and read ppl views abt contestants that's it. 😆

I am myself not emotionally attached to any contestant bas I only like GG thats alll nothing personal I have with them. Its just like ppl here come and give their thoughts and views abt what they like and what they doesn't.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: barlin


I agree, supporting someone, pointing out other's faults, trying to understand a contestant's view point, questioning someone's decisions, morals,...etc is fine---Part of entertainment and can help in personal growth if channelized properly( as we learn by observing and questioning). But attacking random strangers for other strangers, getting personal for stupid reasons is just idiotic in every sense.
Even while watching a movie or a scripted TV show, we subconsciously pick our favorite characters and root for them till the end. This show follows the same pattern, the whole"supporting/rooting" thing becomes a little hostile as this show is a "Reality show" and people involved are not characters/actors and unlike the other options this support, to some extent has the potential to change the path of the "Character/person" we are rooting for, hence the increased intensity and aggression.


You're probably right
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: --SH7_Sunny--

Seedhi baat no Bokwaas

Its called timepass which ppl do. They come here to enjoy and read ppl views abt contestants that's it. 😆

I am myself not emotionally attached to any contestant bas I only like GG thats alll nothing personal I have with them. Its just like ppl here come and give their thoughts and views abt what they like and what they doesn't.


Ekdum Zhakkass!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think when we chose a favourite, we think of him as us winning or losing...because that person is in competition, us viewers get into a competition too; trying to prove our point of views, changing our own point of view only cuzzz we want to prove that person is right and we are the only one supporting the right person...hence he/she should win.

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