Having said that, if Upen has abused in the manner described here - very wrong. You can voice your displeasure without stooping to a low level. He should've had a serious talk with Sonali rather than turning into the hulk.
And Karishma? lol no wonder I can't stand the woman. Double standards and hypocrite to the max! If someone abuses you, hell breaks loose. If someone cracks a joke on you, you don't like it. But when it's happening to someone else, you clap. Kamaal!