Gautam handled it like a Gentleman!! - Page 10

Originally posted by: CaptainCharisma

People were dissing Gautam for being assertive and putting the entire blame on Diandra but wait,they need to watch the sneak peek!

Gautam handled it pretty well.He had a normal conversation with Diandra and told her how they should stop being flirty with each other as it is portrayed differently outside.Even she concurs to the fact that they are not a couple but just friends.Diandra then goes on to say that I can't control what others say.Gautam again talks sensibly and says 'Han we cannot control others,but we can control ourselves'!!👏 He says let's stop hugging and kissing and just be friends as we have been.Diandra says I'm not flippant.Gautam says I've to think about other things so let just stop it.Diandra says 'magr taali ek hath se nahi bajti'...GAUTAM replies by saying 'when did I say taali ek hath se baji hay?'

He did not shift the blame on Diandra...

I know Gautam will still be bashed but guys please find some other reason to bash him because in all this he came out as stronger and more sensible

Gautam FTW 🥳

On a side note:Gaumpy are so darn cute 😳

lol a gentlemen and gautam LMFAOOO

Originally posted by: girlie_giggles

He said it so coldly and curtly with no emotions that I almost felt he is well experienced in dumping girls after using them for lust...

If mature is the word you chose to use, I would choose the words perverted or twisted..

He was all over her just the previous evening and suddenly he remembered his family, friends, image, reputation etc...Why couldn't he control his physical urges especially when he knew he is on National TV and his family and friends are watching...

I liked it when Diandra told him - Thali donon haath se bajjthe hain. Though she was trying to put up a brave front, she clearly looked upset..

Oh toh kua he shld h fallen in her feet...
N yes it ws he na..u ckdnt control his physical urges...
Biased comment...

Originally posted by: MadOwhat

Gentlemen in Gauti city dictionary = Do everything ...as long as it is discreet...but stop everything once known to everyone...👍🏼...jahan se bhi dictionary kharidi hai ...acchi hai😛

Wow what a gentlemen...He does everything...till he think it is not aired...and stops it when he is told by visitors from outside that its affecting his game and image.😉...if Bade bhaiyya aka Bigg Boss party nahi karte ...to humhe shayad aur leelayein dikhti.

So it is not stopped because it was morally wrong ...it was stopped because the wrong was projected and seen ...kya ucch vichar hai bacche ke😃

Great sense of belief and values ...now I have no reason to call him Fake & Psuedo Hero ...he is has proved he is Genuine.👏

Chaude mein se Daude mein U turn kaise ho gaya.

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Morally wrong ? Why is it morally wrong ? Thats wat everyone does na. Both are single. They can do anything. They shuld not do something on Tv. And since itwas aired , mind you bb had a choice not to air it, he decides to stop. Isme values kahan se aayi ???

so what is the final verdict then? is gautam a gentleman or not?

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The fact is that Diandra took Gautam into the bathroom. Lets just reverse the roles for a min. Assuming it was the guy who dragged the girl into the bathroom, all he anger would be towards the guy not the girl. Not saying that Gautam is some abla naari. But in that situation if people bring the gender into picture the same should hold true for what actually happened. Diandra took Gautam by surprise when she dragged him into the bathroom. If a girl hits on a guy and if the guy has more than friends feeling for her, he is not going to refuse it and piss her off. Agar Gautam manaa karta he would have still been called a jerk for not reciprocating the advances of a woman who likes him.

As far as Gautam saying she took me to the bathroom, how does that equate to shifting the blame on her. Its all about perception I guess. The way I took it was - everyone was blaming Gautam for the bathroom incidents and he was trying to clarify that I didnt initiate it or push her towards it but she is the one who took me.Again, how is that blaming her?

Gautam diandra did bathroom leela (both r blamed)
Got feedback everything is shown and ppl r talking shit about them
Any sensible person will stop doing it after getting feedback
He cleared everything with her no more hugs kiss & bathroom
Why ppl r blaming him ? he did right thing
Gautam didnt blame diandra he accepted thali dono hato se bajti h
Thats enough
They r still talking in LF
Even diandra have no issues wit gautam
Its upto them if they want to continue their 'friendship' or not

Originally posted by: melodrama

Gautam diandra did bathroom leela (both r blamed)
Got feedback everything is shown and ppl r talking shit about them
Any sensible person will stop doing it after getting feedback
He cleared everything with her no more hugs kiss & bathroom
Why ppl r blaming him ? he did right thing
Gautam didnt blame diandra he accepted thali dono hato se bajti h
Thats enough
They r still talking in LF
Even diandra have no issues wit gautam
Its upto them if they want to continue their 'friendship' or not

Well said! They both handled it well! Diandra accepted that it was always clear that there is no relationship and gautam accepted taali ek haath se nahi bajti! 👏

They made a decision together and are fine with each other - dusro ko mirchi kyun lag rahi hai!

Originally posted by: edifiz100

The fact is that Diandra took Gautam into the bathroom. Lets just reverse the roles for a min. Assuming it was the guy who dragged the girl into the bathroom, all he anger would be towards the guy not the girl. Not saying that Gautam is some abla naari. But in that situation if people bring the gender into picture the same should hold true for what actually happened. Diandra took Gautam by surprise when she dragged him into the bathroom. If a girl hits on a guy and if the guy has more than friends feeling for her, he is not going to refuse it and piss her off. Agar Gautam manaa karta he would have still been called a jerk for not reciprocating the advances of a woman who likes him.

As far as Gautam saying she took me to the bathroom, how does that equate to shifting the blame on her. Its all about perception I guess. The way I took it was - everyone was blaming Gautam for the bathroom incidents and he was trying to clarify that I didnt initiate it or push her towards it but she is the one who took me.Again, how is that blaming her?