So called positive and balanced people - Page 3

Originally posted by: PigBenis

We don't know what Upen is going to do as a captain yet. You can't just throw out bullshit like he is going to be biased etc. And Upen has not done anything to make him isolated or done something wrong that will make him a sevak. He is not threatening therefore no one nominates him. But you cannot deny he is level headed and balanced.

He already talked to Diandra about him and Soni. He told her the exact same thing he told Gautam that if she has anything to say then she should say it to his face. She agreed to that so there is no reason to drag that issue whereas Gautam keeps denying that he did not taunt Upen that's why the issue goes on.

We do not know why Upen put Gautam in that cage. If he put Gautam in that cage without any reason then we will see it and people in the house will raise their voice against it.

I agree with everything else you posted except these parts. Upen is being targetted for no reason. You can call him useless, boring etc but he is one of the most balanced person in the house. He does his tasks, does all the work required by him, and tries to stay away from fights. Even during the fight with Gautam, it was ARYA who provoked him saying that Gautam targetted you. And regarding the Soni issue, Upen has not seen the video where P3G made the bhai-behen comment so he is just going off of what Soni said. That is not his fault either. Anyone in his place would have done the same.

Your post really made me laugh when you said 'upen is level headed and balanced' 😃

Actually we do know that he will be biased. He already said something to that effect to Ali and I'll apologize (by the end of his captaincy) if he isn't partial or biased towards his gang, he'll also nominate someone from P3G group, giving bullshit reasons, watch out 😉

Giving a gaali, isn't deserving of being isolated and cornered either. So you're saying Gautam deserved it? Really?

Its called a backbone and guts to stand alone and face these wolves. Its very easy to hide under a blanket with girl after girl and not voice out your opinion.

He is not threatening because he is playing too safe. Hiding behind those girls, taking a stand with karisma, siding with them. Making one his behen and doing chipka chipki with her and sushant and now with sonali.

he has been criticized every weekend for this and now finally he has started speaking 😆

In what way is he level headed and balanecd?

hahahaha, he didn't take panga with diandra at all, after she told him about behen bhai thing. Did he say anything when she told him its weird? huh

And didn't gautam say it on his face? Wasn't he standing rite beside him, when gautam said 'his friends should shave their head for him'

So what if gautam taunted him? It wasn't about that, upen thinks that gautam said something about his bhai bhen thing when he didn't but soni also mentioned puneet and criticized puneet more than gautam, so why is he not saying anything to him? huh

hahahah, you're too naive if you think upen put gautam in the cage without any bias or that housemates will raise their voices.

Bigboss will ask for one name and upen will say 'gautam' because he is too negative and that's about it

Originally posted by: PigBenis

We don't know what Upen is going to do as a captain yet. You can't just throw out bullshit like he is going to be biased etc. And Upen has not done anything to make him isolated or done something wrong that will make him a sevak. He is not threatening therefore no one nominates him. But you cannot deny he is level headed and balanced.

He already talked to Diandra about him and Soni. He told her the exact same thing he told Gautam that if she has anything to say then she should say it to his face. She agreed to that so there is no reason to drag that issue whereas Gautam keeps denying that he did not taunt Upen that's why the issue goes on.

We do not know why Upen put Gautam in that cage. If he put Gautam in that cage without any reason then we will see it and people in the house will raise their voice against it.

I agree with everything else you posted except these parts. Upen is being targetted for no reason. You can call him useless, boring etc but he is one of the most balanced person in the house. He does his tasks, does all the work required by him, and tries to stay away from fights. Even during the fight with Gautam, it was ARYA who provoked him saying that Gautam targetted you. And regarding the Soni issue, Upen has not seen the video where P3G made the bhai-behen comment so he is just going off of what Soni said. That is not his fault either. Anyone in his place would have done the same.

Gautam keeps denying that he did not taunt Upen about that bhai-behen thing, because Gautam did not taunt.
You should see Soni's exit interview. Soni agreed that Gautam did not taunt their relationship. She also said that Gautam is a Indian ladka and understands the sister relationship. She only has problem with Puneet.

Upen has to accept that Gautam did not do anything and move on or when Upen is out of the house, he will know the truth and maybe regret then.

@PigBenis- If you are saying that he had already settled matters with Diandra, then for that matter he had already fought with Gautam and hopefully ''settled'' matters with Gautam too about the Soni issue.. Remember the time he charged at Gautam, then shifted gears to Ali and then finally announced that if he loses it the whole house will come down..??!!!

Originally posted by: adventurousman

Your post really made me laugh when you said 'upen is level headed and balanced' 😃

Actually we do know that he will be biased. He already said something to that effect to Ali and I'll apologize (by the end of his captaincy) if he isn't partial or biased towards his gang, he'll also nominate someone from P3G group, giving bullshit reasons, watch out 😉

Giving a gaali, isn't deserving of being isolated and cornered either. So you're saying Gautam deserved it? Really?

Originally posted by: vaishali-AR

@PigBenis- If you are saying that he had already settled matters with Diandra, then for that matter he had already fought with Gautam and hopefully ''settled'' matters with Gautam too about the Soni issue.. Remember the time he charged at Gautam, then shifted gears to Ali and then finally announced that if he loses it the whole house will come down..??!!!

Then why did he have to bring it up again? Maybe because he had lost his ground in the original argument he was having with Gautam about the double meaning thing.. Now if Gautam feels that he wont shave his head off for Sushant who has been nominating him every week and he says that maybe his friends who hang out with him can do it, then where is the double meaning? I think it was very straight forward.. Upen started the fight and then couldn't hold his ground so he moved back to the Soni issue..

I am not against Upen..he is calm, decent and everything.. but captaincy needs one to be pro-active, decisive, independent thinker and someone who can take bold steps to discipline the housemates.. Upen doesn't fit that category.. Just like Sushant, Sonali, Minisha even Praneet are not fit for captaincy..

Originally posted by: bbsai

Gautam keeps denying that he did not taunt Upen about that bhai-behen thing, because Gautam did not taunt.
You should see Soni's exit interview. Soni agreed that Gautam did not taunt their relationship. She also said that Gautam is a Indian ladka and understands the sister relationship. She only has problem with Puneet.

Upen has to accept that Gautam did not do anything and move on or when Upen is out of the house, he will know the truth and maybe regret then.

I just want to add following things the following about Upen:


1) Upen was decent only till he kept his mouth shut. Now he is talking about Sonali's reputation and self respect or any damage caused due to Gautam using her for footage. Didn't Upen get cozy with Sonali? Did he think of her respect then?

2) How can Upen celebrate a stolen victory. What does it reflect about his character or others who helped him.

3) He is talking about showing love instead of nominating and then pretending that they feel bad (in day 39 precap). and he himself nominated sukirti, sonali, minisha when he keeps telling then that he cares about them.

This upen should have been voted out even before Natasha.

Originally posted by: PigBenis

See we as a viewer know that Gautam did not taunt. But Upen does not know that. He is just going by what Soni said to him and you cannot really blame him but blame Soni for misunderstanding. That is why the whole spat with Gautam happened in the first place.

The only way Upen will know is if he sees the video himself. Maybe then he will realize that he was wrong with Gautam about that issue.

I understand what you are saying.
So we as a viewer should not be asking Gautam to apologize also and should not bash him.
Your post said that Gautam did not accept his mistake where as Diandra said to face. I highlighted your quote in bold in previous posts.
we as audience should not bash Gautam for what he did not do and we should wait and watch what happens.
That is all I wanted to point out.

What I want to know is, why the hell was Diandra saying Upen should be captain? Wasn't she the one crying over how last week they nominated Sushant because they're "afraid of authority" and they'll "bully him?" So Upen is any better? They'll walk all over him, and he will listen to whatever his bedroom gang says to him. Upen won't be biased? Bullshit. Then why did he put Gautam in the cage?