Gautam the fool - it's not what you say, it's how you say it

It's not what you say, it's how you say it and the way you say it. Upto 80% of communication is non-verbal, your body language, tone & intonation are the most significant factors in how your message gets interpreted, the actual words play a very small part in communication, and Gautam's body language and expressions clearly showed he was taunting Upen there, so Upen is not wrong to take exception to that.

Upen may not have articulated himself clearly by saying "double meaning", but that does not change the fact that Gautam took an indirect potshot at him, and if Gautam didn't "intend" to do that, then he needs to sit down and do some serious self-reflection, especially in how he communicates to people.

totally agree ... actually he does need to think why everybody all of sudden is saying they get negative vibes from him, other hms I wouldn't count in thus, but its the ppl he hangs out with that say this the most!

yes he was indirectly taunting upen .. hardly 1st time .. gautam has tendency to do that

Even if Gautam was wrong in taunting Upen..Upen a self proclaimed straight forward person should have corrected him immediately.. Aarya instigated Upen and then later He went to fight..i honestly had no opinion about Upen but his sudden jaago act is making him look like a bimbo..

Originally posted by: bezella

Even if Gautam was wrong in taunting Upen..Upen a self proclaimed straight forward person should have corrected him immediately.. Aarya instigated Upen and then later He went to fight..i honestly had no opinion about Upen but his sudden jaago act is making him look like a bimbo..

Just judging from how stupidly and for stupid reasons mahila mandal fight, anybody would be abrupt with them. Who in their right minds can suffer fools lightly, phirbhi Gautam is jheloying them day in and day out. Watch live feed and see how bitchy they are. Arya and Youpen love to lay in bed and gossip like mean girls. Diandra, Karishma and. Minnisha bitch in the room and kitchen and give the sevaks a hard time for food. Gautam was even cooking breakfast on his own one time. Any sane person would have lost it by now.

Originally posted by: Heisenberg.

It's not what you say, it's how you say it and the way you say it. Upto 80% of communication is non-verbal, your body language, tone & intonation are the most significant factors in how your message gets interpreted, the actual words play a very small part in communication, and Gautam's body language and expressions clearly showed he was taunting Upen there, so Upen is not wrong to take exception to that.

Upen may not have articulated himself clearly by saying "double meaning", but that does not change the fact that Gautam took an indirect potshot at him, and if Gautam didn't "intend" to do that, then he needs to sit down and do some serious self-reflection, especially in how he communicates to people.

Originally posted by: Heisenberg.

It's not what you say, it's how you say it and the way you say it. Upto 80% of communication is non-verbal, your body language, tone & intonation are the most significant factors in how your message gets interpreted, the actual words play a very small part in communication, and Gautam's body language and expressions clearly showed he was taunting Upen there, so Upen is not wrong to take exception to that.

Upen may not have articulated himself clearly by saying "double meaning", but that does not change the fact that Gautam took an indirect potshot at him, and if Gautam didn't "intend" to do that, then he needs to sit down and do some serious self-reflection, especially in how he communicates to people.

Originally posted by: Picasso9

Just judging from how stupidly and for stupid reasons mahila mandal fight, anybody would be abrupt with them. Who in their right minds can suffer fools lightly, phirbhi Gautam is jheloying them day in and day out. Watch live feed and see how bitchy they are. Arya and Youpen love to lay in bed and gossip like mean girls. Diandra, Karishma and. Minnisha bitch in the room and kitchen and give the sevaks a hard time for food. Gautam was even cooking breakfast on his own one time. Any sane person would have lost it by now.

I don't blame Gautam for mocking when they say stupid things. He even said directly and straight up, why would I shave my head for someone who nominates me every week. Obviously his friends should support Sush. But dumb Youpen and Arya have a chor in their minds for not volunteering so they were looking for a scapegoat to blame. Why didn't anyone ask them to shave their heads for Sush, after all they are bosom bedroom buddies. All three (Youpen, Arya and Sush) are sisters in the sisterhood.