Upen touching belly button is fine, Ali touching knee is ganda? - Page 4

Originally posted by: americanexpress

Voice of reason... at last. Thank god there are people who understand that CONSENT is what matters.

Originally posted by: hippopotamus

In that house Sonali was telling Gautam not to touch her. He said I nevr touched you have I.

Then he squeezed her face, kissed her, hoild her hair. Where did Sonali's refusal go then? A minute earlier she said dont touch me.

If this is friendship then others might be trying to get friendly with you as well. Like we press shoulders, pat back etc.

Lets not blow things out of proportion for your own agendas.

Wait and see

so in short what the TM intends saying is that if a girl is friendly with one guy she is open to abuse.

after reading some other posts I can clearly see some similarities with what the politicians of our nation implied - that when a girl wears revealing clothing or is out on the streets till late, they are inviting trouble

good going.. what innovative thinking... women are women's own enemies.. well done

Originally posted by: hippopotamus

Mods make sure that people do not spin this into sexual assault, rape, harassment, abuse etc. Everyone is trying to use these terms to carry out their agendas. In the end it could just be one person trying to get friendly or thinking it is not big deal

Afterall unless and until you do something first time how are you going to know consent? Now if he does the same thing again then thats an issue.

One thing i don't understand ...thereis something called mutual ...sonali was happy upen touching her ...she does not want ali to touch her.. simple her body her wish ...

So if there is no crime in touching a girl why are these girls making a big deal when a guy brushes against them in a public transportation? Secondly any post or topic on this forum is no one person's property. If you post something you are inviting others to comment. The logic is simple.

Originally posted by: -MONA-

Don't dare to put such comments about the other members ... What Ali did was wrong...

Gautham did not do that under the blanket...he did that infornt of some house mates...he said I touched you now... Sonali responded not to touch her again she doesn't like it...

Which Ali did under the blanket is similar to sexual harassment... Got it ...

Yaa if you don't want to agree stay away... Ohhh you are male ...why do you agree

I don't think anyone is trying to say ALI raped her. It's just about acknowledging. The moment Sonali said "ayy don't do that". Ali should have just apologized and ACKNOWLEDGED that she felt uncomfortable. Trust me, if he did that, The matter wouldn't have gotten to where it is clearly going to go to tomorrow. Instead of acknowledging, he tried to make light of the situation and completely disregard her feelings and blunt discomfort.

Every issue is a context

Originally posted by: hippopotamus

Mods make sure that people do not spin this into sexual assault, rape, harassment, abuse etc. Everyone is trying to use these terms to carry out their agendas. In the end it could just be one person trying to get friendly or thinking it is not big deal

Afterall unless and until you do something first time how are you going to know consent? Now if he does the same thing again then thats an issue.

What next? "Oh I raped her coz first time I wanted to have sex with her and I thought she would enjoy it. Now I know he doesnot as she was crying and shouting, I won't rape her. My bad"


Google "consenting adults"