Originally posted by: uscgirl
He never said "will be difficult to get rid of her", he said "it would be difficult for him to get out of the situation", which is perfectly fine. See normally what happens first you see a person... you get attracted based on looks.. then you understand that person.. sometimes you like the person more and sometimes you get turned off based on the behaviour. But to get to that understanding anybody has to spend time with each other WITHOUT others involvement. As when 3rd person gets involved it becomes difficult. In this case only you can make a judgement. No force from outside, no friends opinion can make that decision for you. It has to come from heart.
I believe this is what Gautam is doing, I have seen him say this logic many times on livefeed that "it has to be from heart. Here mind cant work". Also, even in marriage you meet many prospective people that doesnt mean you have to marry the first one you trying to know. I think this is what Pritam was trying to explain Gautam that give it a try. If it happens it happens... but if you dont even try to know the person how will you conclude whether you like the person or not.
I appreciate that your comment is a discussion and not a bashing statement.
I get what you're saying. But, don't you think, that if GG were to go about this the right way, he would be sharing his feelings directly with Sonali, and doubts with her as well. Knowing fully well, that what he is saying about her, and the jokes him and Pritam are making about her, are being recorded by 85 cameras, he should be careful. It is easy to see that friends are talking, guy talk, but in this guy talk, it gets disrespectful for the girl, who unknowingly, is ready to take it to the next level with the guy, in front of 85 cameras, is sharing a bed with same guy, despite there being 2 empty beds, and is opening declaring her interest to him, in many different situations, ie, sofa scene, ice cream/mirchi, etc. And the same guy, has doubts of whether he likes her or not in the first place.
Hahn, and his statement was yeh to bahaut bahri padegi, which I'm not sure how others interpret, but to me, means, she'll be a heavy load to handle if things happen. And then he also said, she will start having feelings/attachment towards me, unnecessarily. This shows he doesn't want it to happen, right?
Edited by avidwatcher1 - 10 years ago