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Posted: 7 years ago
Old HM's played a part there,suja who asked about "Tamil ponnu" dint ask about remarks by Aish to Rithu(Hitler task) and Jan(Uttamavillain task).



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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: sribha

@Awesome_cool

First of all, it is not compulsory for a person to like everyone. We may feel a connect with a person in the first meeting and we may not like the person in the first meeting. To me, if I refrain moving along with people from who I get a negative vibe. As per me, you cant be friendly with everyone or rather say be inthe good books of everyone.

I am not here to give a lecture on why mumtaz did not feed sendrayan. I actually liked mumtaz for telling explicitly that she didnt get a connect with him. I was totally against that slave task or servant task and the reason I liked her in the beginning was because she had the courage to say no when others were doing odd jobs.

You had mentioned she moved along with Danny and Ramya. Their case is different. Danny's persona is he mingles with ease with everybody and he puts the effort to talk to everybody. Ramya comes from a known family in the industry and her hair style and dressing made her look sophisticated and she was again a person who talked to everybody and was friendly.

Racist feeling is discriminating a person by color, profession, language,race,etc.

Mumtaz was the one who said that she behaves the same to everybody no discrimination, I try to talk with evrybody understand everybody.. I give love blah blab... Aish, Janani, Rithvika, are of the same age group. Did she get along with all of them with the same motherly love that she claims to have??? Does motherly love only come to Yash and aish because they speak her language????

She created an atmosphere to portray that she is the only one who takes care of Yash and aish and everybody else were ignoring types. The flipside was yash, aish, mahat shariq were the ones who formed a group and seperated from the rest of the HMs. She supported the group formed by them and always played along.

Again the dress incident with sendrayan: If you remember her facial expressions and her yelling you could say that she got irritated by his behavior and him spoiling her dress. Even if somebody forces to be friendly with me I get irritated which is normal. It takes time for such anger to dissipate. But she immediately said.. oh I shouted let me say sorry.. and she went to apologize. Why? was it because of KH meeting that was scheduled that day? Or was it because of the cameras? That apology did not look genuine.

She had an aversion towards Janani, Vaishnavi Nitya and Rithvika. She gave BS reasons for nominating Janani. She influenced yash and aish to use their power to nominate janani and rithvika. She brainwashed danny to distance from yash and aish during mahat fiasco which portrayed him in poor light. For her advice part she got brownie points.She again cried and kept these ladies under her blanket of love to avoid nomination.

Lastly, Viji was a wildcard who is blunt in her way of expressing her thought. Did she take an effort to be friendly with her? What was the need for her to hate Viji? Is it because Viji distances from yash and aish? Well if you say Viji is rude and what is Aish then?

At the end of the day, it is a game and everybody has a strategy. Mumtaz's strategy is to fake her anger by pouring love. Rithvika's strategy is to be silent and kill when the time comes. Janani's strategy is to be in goodbooks of everybody. Tamil poonu english ponnu hindi ponnu all these are over stressed here to garner votes and she knew how to play the game because of her watching several seasons of BBH and because of BB1 advice.. she understood that there is a talk going on outside and she tried to nail it on rith and jan as a final blow before she leaves.

Mumtaz is no buddha! She faked her anger into love. She and PB were the reasons for the divide in the house. Period.

My 2 cents!!



You are confusing racism with partiality / favouritism / bais.. Racism means u dislike all people of the same colour, if you like two people of the same color & don't move well with other people of the same colour, then its not racism, its pure favouritsm or partially...! Regarding discrimination, Whoever went and sat near mumtaj,she hugged them & pampered them & made them lie on her lap.. She had few tiffs with janani in initial weeks but during the end I saw janani lying on her lap & momo pampering her... When sendarayan pointed out this during their bedrroom convo & even mocked janani that now you talk against mumtaj but when u see her, u jump & sit on her lap..after that janani started maintaing her distance.. Rithu openly said that she doesn't like hugging & expressing love...so mumtaj didn't hugged or pampered her but I hav seen many instances wen mumtaj was cleaning up rithus face or helping out rithu with her clothes ( even last week I saw mumu folding & givingrithus duppata)... So its not like mumtaj completely ignored rithu.. Mumtaj had a good relationship with all women contestants except nithya..! Whether mumtaj love was real or fake, only those individual who received it at dat time can comment about it..!
Coming to your comment on mumtaj escaping nomination.. I don't know whether to laugh or cry... Bcoz except for three or four weeks mumtaj was always in nomination list.. Except for Yash bathroom incident der was no mentioning of mumtaj discussing about nomination.. And do u think Yash or aish or Danny are so dumb to get influenced by mumtaj?? That they will easily nominate whoever mumtaj asks them to?? Aish, Danny , Yash all have phd in crookedness.. Mumtaj never poisoned Danny to go against Yash or aish during mahaths fight fiasco week... If I clearly remember momo, Balaji & Danny were discussing about mahaths behaviour at dinning table, at that time aish & Yash opened the entrance door so that mahath can hear dannys convo, dats when Danny said paaru paaaru rendum enna vela pakathu paru... Regarding viji, it was mumtaj who made her comfortable & was hanging along with her when she first entered.. Their tiff started when viji accused & passed some snide comment when momo didn't picked balls that fell from Yash bag...that tiff got escalated when during weekend episode momo said dat viji doesn't deserved to be in finale..this got over exploded & became full out war between viji & momo..! Sribha I have nothing against you..so please don't get offended for my comments.. Peace..!
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: sribha


I may sound judgemental. Danny got along with the Yash Aish gang and that made her speak to him.. may be! Ramya may be because of her family background! Again Ramya was quite friendly with Mamathi and that may be a reaaon too!!

Initially My perception about Ramya was different because of her way of dressing I thought she would be an arrogant hip hop type! . But I found her nice and gentle. I infact liked Ramya.

I dont remember seeing any episode of Mumtaz making an effort to talk to rithvika and rithvika ignoring her.

As the saying goes birds of a feather flock together. Rithvika moved along with the people who spoke her language. Mumtaz moved along with the ones who speak her language. It was mumtaz who claimed that she took efforts to get along with everyone and pour love which is her personality blah blah... If she was the same to everybody, then her motherly affection should have been the same to other HMs like jan rithu viji nitya or vaishnavi..

Rithu and Janani had a private talk and it was brought out by BB1 guys. She nailed it on Rithu and Jan to give advantage to yash and aish...There was no need of her to talk about Tamil ponnu english ponnu when she was leaving.


I still don't understand how the cases are different. To me, it looks the same in your context, Hindi vs. Tamil. I'm not convinced by your justification. If she was racist with Rithvika, why wasn't she with Ramya and Mamathi? If she was racist with Sendraayan, why wasn't she with Danny and Balaji? As opposed to calling her a racist, you could very well term her as having favoritism, which is not wrong at all. Even the great Oviya had a special affection towards Snehan despite the fact that he continuously talked bad behind her. You can control people, but you can't control their feelings. It's as simple and as complicated as it can get.

And also, NO ONE can be a mom to everyone. We all have different forms of affection for different people in our life, hence, it's not fair to expect someone to have "motherly" affection on everyone. Why should she in the first place?
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Awesome_cool

You are confusing racism with partiality / favouritism / bais.. Racism means u dislike all people of the same colour, if you like two people of the same color & don't move well with other people of the same colour, then its not racism, its pure favouritsm or partially...! Regarding discrimination, Whoever went and sat near mumtaj,she hugged them & pampered them & made them lie on her lap.. She had few tiffs with janani in initial weeks but during the end I saw janani lying on her lap & momo pampering her... When sendarayan pointed out this during their bedrroom convo & even mocked janani that now you talk against mumtaj but when u see her, u jump & sit on her lap..after that janani started maintaing her distance.. Rithu openly said that she doesn't like hugging & expressing love...so mumtaj didn't hugged or pampered her but I hav seen many instances wen mumtaj was cleaning up rithus face or helping out rithu with her clothes ( even last week I saw mumu folding & givingrithus duppata)... So its not like mumtaj completely ignored rithu.. Mumtaj had a good relationship with all women contestants except nithya..! Whether mumtaj love was real or fake, only those individual who received it at dat time can comment about it..!
Coming to your comment on mumtaj escaping nomination.. I don't know whether to laugh or cry... Bcoz except for three or four weeks mumtaj was always in nomination list.. Except for Yash bathroom incident der was no mentioning of mumtaj discussing about nomination.. And do u think Yash or aish or Danny are so dumb to get influenced by mumtaj?? That they will easily nominate whoever mumtaj asks them to?? Aish, Danny , Yash all have phd in crookedness.. Mumtaj never poisoned Danny to go against Yash or aish during mahaths fight fiasco week... If I clearly remember momo, Balaji & Danny were discussing about mahaths behaviour at dinning table, at that time aish & Yash opened the entrance door so that mahath can hear dannys convo, dats when Danny said paaru paaaru rendum enna vela pakathu paru... Regarding viji, it was mumtaj who made her comfortable & was hanging along with her when she first entered.. Their tiff started when viji accused & passed some snide comment when momo didn't picked balls that fell from Yash bag...that tiff got escalated when during weekend episode momo said dat viji doesn't deserved to be in finale..this got over exploded & became full out war between viji & momo..! Sribha I have nothing against you..so please don't get offended for my comments.. Peace..!


Thanks again dear. Also, I would like to add upon this regarding Nithya. After the onion incident, it was Mumtaz who sat down in the restroom and tried sooo hard to solve the problem with Nithya, but she didn't give two hoots. It's not like Momo didn't make an effort. She made an effort with everyone right from the beginning.
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Posted: 7 years ago

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Thanks again dear. Also, I would like to add upon this regarding Nithya. After the onion incident, it was Mumtaz who sat down in the restroom and tried sooo hard to solve the problem with Nithya, but she didn't give two hoots. It's not like Momo didn't make an effort. She made an effort with everyone right from the beginning.

Welcome dear..Exactly starry...Nithya is on some other level, she was more pissed that momo was supporting Balaji..!
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Posted: 7 years ago
To me the conversation with Rythwika looked like Mumtaj already had a word with her on this and on purposely again mentioned the same before leaving to rile her up. Rythwika looked annoyed by that comment at that moment as though she had explained things to her multiple times. Either way it was very unnecessary to create drama before leaving. Every other housemate who left the house packed their bags and left in peace. Whatever they had to say they came out and said it. This behaviour shows Mumtaj's chatacter more than anything else.

Mahath was the first other state contestant to be eliminated in the house. So I have no idea what she was blabbering about her being eliminated because she is not a tamil ponnu. And her behaviour to Janani after being eliminated was hostile too. Aishwarya has nominated Mumtaj multiple times too, so she could have asked her too "why are you saying I love you now after nominating me? Throughout her exit performance she kept highlighting Yash and Aish, but has the audacity to say groupism was happening. I think for Mumtaj the turning point was when BB1 contestants came in. Harathi and her have been friends a long time so she stuck to her and gave her outsider info. Meanwhile when the others came in they interacted more with the other contestants, but barely with Yash and Aish. It could be because of language issues (the others are comfortable with tamil so they could say witty dialogues), or some other reason (they could have disliked their behaviour in task). So Mumtaj decided to highlight the groupism factor before leaving.

Since the beginning it was YAMDS who formed and group, and Mumtaj desperately tried to get into that group. For her to say now that there was a split in the house is pretty rich. She never really was nice to Danny either in the beginning. She called him unhygienic and said she disliked his voice. But after a particular week she randomly started treating Sendrayan and Danny well. And while she was telling the others not to speak to Yash and Aish and to put them in nomination/make sure not to give them best performer, she goes behind and does her Maa/Beti performance.
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Posted: 7 years ago
@ all Mumtaz likers or supporters.
Mumtazis friendship towards HMs was as per her convenience. She was a racist no doubt about that. She kept aside her reservations about her racist feelings if the person had achieved something or if they came under her standards rather we can say class discrimination.

A dominant lady who expected others to dance to her tunes. If they dont then she speaks against them or she would give that mocking smile. She can never accept defeat. She was full of fakenesss. She overplayed her love card . The award for Ms.Contradictory goes to her for the season. Kallas!
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Posted: 7 years ago
Also her final comment to ladies that "No means No...a good message but wrong situation. Not doing tasks because she didnt feel up to it is not equal to saying no to sexual harassment. She purposely said that at the moment to say she was stubborn so she could stand up for herself. I'm just glad someone with so much negative energy is out of the screen now.

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