What is Khanzadi’s problem? - Page 2

I don’t think she is lying about her illness but I think she wants to use it to gain sympathy rather than inspire people. That is annoying.

Originally posted by: Picasso9

it is easy for the hosts to shut her up every time she attempts to explain because they are scared she will expose info they don’t want to reveal. The makers control the narrative regarding her illness and if they have been negligent in their due diligence regarding her screening why would they admit it.

The host literally asked her to explain her issues. Even asked for his consent wheather he can talk about her illness .

Then when he starts talking, "No sir" "Please Sir" "I don't want to talk about it" blah blah .

I agree with you completely. And I understand the struggles of such a physical illness but the point is if she is mentally and physically fit now? If she is then she needs to get on with the game and do household chores , tell people her story and inspire them. I don’t understand why use it as excuse to not play the game she is being paid to play and then cry. If she is not mentally and physically fit then she needs to discuss the same with BB and actually leave this house.

Everyone figured out that she was fit for the chores but stilll didn't want to do anything. So she thought playing the victim will help her but instead it went against her.

Originally posted by: Sabhayata

I agree with you completely. And I understand the struggles of such a physical illness but the point is if she is mentally and physically fit now? If she is then she needs to get on with the game and do household chores , tell people her story and inspire them. I don’t understand why use it as excuse to not play the game she is being paid to play and then cry. If she is not mentally and physically fit then she needs to discuss the same with BB and actually leave this house.

I am neither rooting for her nor voting for her (not doing for any of the contestants). So, I do not have an answer to why she is not playing the game or doing the household chores. Just posting here because of a personal experience. how many of us want to accept that we are not mentally or physically fit to do a few things. I believe a majority of us would not. I still have minor physical issues; now I see it as normal, but it was not so earlier. Anyone pointing that out to me would make me defensive or put me in a self-pity mode.

And not everyone wants to inspire others; plus, her breakdowns make me think, she is not yet in a mental state to inspire others. [Again, I think she should have not come to the show, especially a show like this, which is a game of survival and empathy is not expected from anyone in the house.]

Originally posted by: Picasso9

Exactly! And who are we to say 3 years is more than sufficient time for anyone to recover. Like grief, there is no limit to the timeline of recovery. Neel showed more compassion for Vicky ankita’s scalp issues than for this. Why because an artiste relies on heir look for success and he relates to it because lots of people in the industry suffer from hair loss. Will he and others onl be able to relate to paralysis if there are lots in the industry suffering like that. What hogwash. Where is their humanity. Isha is young and hasn’t experienced life yet. She needs a reality check for sure. Maybe a visit to a children’s hospital will jolt her. She goes on and on about medical reports like she is a secretary at Endemol.

People understand only what they've had got some experience with in the past. Why Neil supports Vicky's scalp thing!

It's kinda saddening though how they can't even sympathize with Khanzadi ( regardless of if they can understand her or not, regardless of if they can trust her or not, regardless of if she is being honest or not ) and refrain from touching the matter if the person has made it clear that it affects them in the worst way possible.

Nobody is asking them to pamper her/babysit her/heal her trauma. Nope, that's not what I expect either. She is not their responsibility so it's just fine if they don't want to entertain her issues whether they are mental/physical/emotional.

Scream as much as you want on - she doesn't work and every other issue. That can be done without dragging you were never ill/you are a liar.

The main issue that I can see here is people invalidating the biggest trauma that she has been through in her life, them mocking her for what almost killed her.

What's the big deal about not touching that ugly part of someone's life you know nothing about?

Thik hai, usne baat nikali tabhi sabhi ko pata chali and all of that but it's not as problematic as it is being made. People with chronic illness often seek support and talking about it can make the burden feel less heavy. That doesn't mean you've gotten the right to make fun of them.

This whole matter could have been sorted out just by telling everyone including Khanzadi to shut the topic and avoid it altogether but no, they want to make this ugly which is disheartening to watch.

LOL someone is using health condition not to do chores . Skips tasks . Whines all week. Plays victim but host shouldn't question her

Originally posted by: IAdoreYou

People understand only what they've had got some experience with in the past. Why Neil supports Vicky's scalp thing!

It's kinda saddening though how they can't even sympathize with Khanzadi ( regardless of if they can understand her or not, regardless of if they can trust her or not, regardless of if she is being honest or not ) and refrain from touching the matter if the person has made it clear that it affects them in the worst way possible.

Nobody is asking them to pamper her/babysit her/heal her trauma. Nope, that's not what I expect either. She is not their responsibility so it's just fine if they don't want to entertain her issues whether they are mental/physical/emotional.

Scream as much as you want on - she doesn't work and every other issue. That can be done without dragging you were never ill/you are a liar.

The main issue that I can see here is people invalidating the biggest trauma that she has been through in her life, them mocking her for what almost killed her.

What's the big deal about not touching that ugly part of someone's life you know nothing about?

Thik hai, usne baat nikali tabhi sabhi ko pata chali and all of that but it's not as problematic as it is being made. People with chronic illness often seek support and talking about it can make the burden feel less heavy. That doesn't mean you've gotten the right to make fun of them.

This whole matter could have been sorted out just by telling everyone including Khanzadi to shut the topic and avoid it altogether but no, they want to make this ugly which is disheartening to watch.

Sorry but I don’t agree. People often talk about how they fought life threatening diseases like cancer and they talk about good and bad both. How it affected them, their life their family etc. And these are good and real stories. It tells about human strength. But I do understand everybody is different but point is right now she is fine so why is she not playing the game? In this house there is no free lunch. You need to work. So why is Khanzadi not doing that. Doctors have prescribed medicines and exercises, I am sorry but there is no excuse not to take medicines when it’s for your own health. She won’t do household chores because of her health issue and won’t take the medicines prescribed to get better as well? Does this make any sense? I didn’t even understand the reason for not doing light exercises because of the cameras? How does this make sense? Whether BB was negligent during her screening or she didn’t tell about her health issue before we don’t know point is if she is fit now then she needs to get on with the game. That is why she is here.

Originally posted by: Picasso9

The thing is nobody who has survived a traumatic injury or illness will ever tell you the ugly truth of their experience because people don’t want the ugly truth. They just want to hear the fairytale, inspirational ending. No one talks about the chronic PTSD or the ongoing debilitating side effects after long standing treatment and current medication. How often do we hear about the constipation or diarrhea from meds, the dizziness, wearing a diaper, vomiting, eating via a feeding tube, life threatening sepsis, uti….. all the stuff that a fully functioning human being is now embarrassed about because of their dependency on strangers to help them with basic functioning. She’s on national television. Her ptsd was triggered via a fall she had. She didn’t complete her course of meds because it was causing dizziness. If the BB team insists she’s medically sound, then why prescribe meds, why prescribe light exercise. Wouldn’t it make sense for her to exercise under the guidance of an expert to avoid causing further damage.

it is easy for the hosts to shut her up every time she attempts to explain because they are scared she will expose info they don’t want to reveal. The makers control the narrative regarding her illness and if they have been negligent in their due diligence regarding her screening why would they admit it.