Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel
I don’t have a problem with that, but conversely she was overly defensive the next morning itself when they did not want her to take part in the torture task. It is human nature no doubt but if I fk up personally I would feel bad but I would focus more on reassuring the people who were affected and apologising.
Her dealing with it was fine, but I think if you messed up and caused two other people to be nominated, it shouldn’t be on them to make it up to her. I think Nimrit was trying to make her feel better and keep them unified. Like here Stan and Shiv actually performed well, Sumbul has been saved every week due to her fans so more than her I would get Shiv being really mad as he would be at most risk. He put it aside to cheer her up, and she was sulking the next day too.
i was talking more about the whole fiasco that followed right after bb's announcement that sumbul had caused them to be nominated. nimmo tab se hi us k peechay parh gai thi. it's a big deal to be blamed by bb for nominating your friends, so i'm sure she felt embarrassed and guilty, not just because she messed up, but bb announced it in a way where he clearly wanted her to be blamed - most of us figured that it's probably time for her to leave this weekend kyun k us k baad bb ne shiu and mc ko CR mein bula k aag bhi lagane ki koshish ki sumbul k khilaaf 😆 she wanted to be alone and the mandli should have left her at that for a bit. nimmo was being too pushy - demanding and expecting that she go back to normal instantly, when she herself has asked shiuu and other people for time to handle her emotions previously - then give other people the same time and space that you require.
but i do agree that overall, sumbul could have been more mature about it. she hasn't really been too mature in this whole game, and she's especially infantilized in the mandli to wahan to wo waise bhi apna dimag use nahi karti to mature kahan se bane gi. she messed up and she should have owned up to it and apologized to her friends, instead of only sulking and getting defensive, esp when it was hours later. you had your time so now be there for your friends and apologize for your goof up.