He might be a great guy and all but its true that he does not stand with her or defends her when others speak ill about her. Chalo thats also okay, might be his nature that he does not like getting involved in conflicts, but then he knows that its not a relationship, he makes faces when people talk about love and all, which shows he does not want to commit, then why does he keep going to her and get so touchy and all. If both are clear that they are not meant to be together in the end, why ask for kisses and all on national TV like that when the girl clearly is asking that they should maintain distance as it is affecting her image. Give the girl space buddy, its clear both like eo a little bit but since they want very different things in life there is no future for their relationship. Asking for kisses and all, isn’t it going to affect her if she actually goes in a relationship in the future? Its clear she loves you bro, but knows you dont want to commit thats why she is not calling it a relationship. And if you dont want to commit, can you stop giving her false indications and just give some space.