Bigg Boss 16: 25th Oct, 2022- Daily Discussion Thread - Page 96

Maine bola tha Misty ko aur dekho Shivanka does have vibes

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Short summary of episode plz

Saundry stupid to nominate shiv. Sumbul ko nomination mein aana chahiye tha.

Abdu’s reaction on nomination while human is categorically unfair because his anger is directed to the wrong person.

Priyanka has to defend herself as she is competing with him to not be nominated and she didn’t even say anything wrong. For him to be more angry at her than say Gautam who agreed to nominate him is beyond bizarre to me 🤔.

I like this new angle or emotion to Abdu but he’s angry at the wrong person here IMO.

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

Before Priyanka told him, Tina and Nimrit already told him during room nomination task. I guess Abdu has found his comfort zone and to be fair in the first week everyone was there for him, coddled him and looked after him.

Now as the game (whatever that might be) is advancing, not only is his footage reduced but people also have this in built thought process ki Chalo cute hai lekin aagey kitna jayega, you know what I mean? Like they don’t consider him a serious threat , toh you’ll see that they also don’t seek out his time like they used to as they’re caught up in their own rivalries/issues.

It’s been clear for weeks he’s being pressured. In the start he wasn’t when he chose Gautam despite the latter never supporting him really (and to be fair I have never seen gautam use him for exposure).

But since that MV ka task, where Stan basically coerced him to choose Priyanka over Nimmo, it’s clear influence toh hai. Being in a group dynamic is a different kind of comfort esp when you aren’t entirely used to reality shows.

yeah, several people have already mentioned that the group influences him and makes the decisions for him. even when he voices out an opinion, they do what they want to do. it doesn't take much to convince him and he just goes along with whatever they are saying.

you're absolutely right that people don't see him as a competition. they know isne to winner nahi banna. we had discussed in the beginning that after a certain point, they will start nominating him by saying he's too cute to be here, he's missing his home, he's taoo pure-hearted ye wo to isko ghar jana chahiye 😆

i obvs want him to take his own stand and express his opinions and stick by them buuuut i also get why he doesn't. he ended up in that group and that's where he is stuck now and i feel that wo uski zarurat bhi hain. he needs someone. he probably feels like that if he doesn't listen to them, he'll be alone.ac ye game us k liye new hai, language barrier hai, new country hai, or bhi issues hain to usko unki help chahiye hoti hai like for translation and stuff. ab wo un k group ka hissa ban gaya hai to he can't just break that link and go elsewhere. uper se bb ne uska permanent link bana dia hai sajju k sath and with sajju comes the rest of the group. i think people are being too harsh on him after today's episode. yes, he's a contestant and people can like and dislike him but the game isn't as straightforward for him as it is for others. yes, he needs to start putting his opinions forward and taking stands if he wants to be taken seriously. was his reaction to the nominations today an overreaction? sure. but who in the bb house doesn't overreact to nominations? they get upset, they fight, they create drama. just because he's cute and sweet doesn't mean he doesn't have any other emotions. it probably came as a shock to him because people have been nice to him so far and now he finds himself nominated to karne do react - kya hogaya? if he wants to buckle up and seriously play the game, good for him. that's the whole point of the show. but the thing is that we don't know if he will. he expressed anger and said sumbul and pri are his dushmans and all but it's not like he has acted on that. we'll see what he does, if anything. idk why people are reacting so strongly to his reaction and saying they dislike and/or hate him now 😆

Originally posted by: vibecheck

yeah, several people have already mentioned that the group influences him and makes the decisions for him. even when he voices out an opinion, they do what they want to do. it doesn't take much to convince him and he just goes along with whatever they are saying.

you're absolutely right that people don't see him as a competition. they know isne to winner nahi banna. we had discussed in the beginning that after a certain point, they will start nominating him by saying he's too cute to be here, he's missing his home, he's taoo pure-hearted ye wo to isko ghar jana chahiye 😆

i obvs want him to take his own stand and express his opinions and stick by them buuuut i also get why he doesn't. he ended up in that group and that's where he is stuck now and i feel that wo uski zarurat bhi hain. he needs someone. he probably feels like that if he doesn't listen to them, he'll be alone.ac ye game us k liye new hai, language barrier hai, new country hai, or bhi issues hain to usko unki help chahiye hoti hai like for translation and stuff. ab wo un k group ka hissa ban gaya hai to he can't just break that link and go elsewhere. uper se bb ne uska permanent link bana dia hai sajju k sath and with sajju comes the rest of the group. i think people are being too harsh on him after today's episode. yes, he's a contestant and people can like and dislike him but the game isn't as straightforward for him as it is for others. yes, he needs to start putting his opinions forward and taking stands if he wants to be taken seriously. was his reaction to the nominations today an overreaction? sure. but who in the bb house doesn't overreact to nominations? they get upset, they fight, they create drama. just because he's cute and sweet doesn't mean he doesn't have any other emotions. it probably came as a shock to him because people have been nice to him so far and now he finds himself nominated to karne do react - kya hogaya? if he wants to buckle up and seriously play the game, good for him. that's the whole point of the show. but the thing is that we don't know if he will. he expressed anger and said sumbul and pri are his dushmans and all but it's not like he has acted on that. we'll see what he does, if anything. idk why people are reacting so strongly to his reaction and saying they dislike and/or hate him now 😆

I definitely don’t hate or dislike him, I still find him cute, it’s hard not to tbh. I might go out on a limb and say if it wasn’t Abdu, I would have probably bashed him for being a spoilt sport but he’s adorable kya karun.

You’re absolutely right. In the first week he got attention and affection from all HMs, then in second week somewhat more. However soon HMs started having their own issues and fights so their focus wasn’t on Abdu. It’s so easy to feel left out because you don’t know the language. You have to make extra effort to interact and people have to take that effort to explain things to you.

My only hope is after he calms down, he realizes what he needs to channel his focus on. But I’ll tell you this, BB has brought him to be cute, not to think. They say treat him like an adult but really we all know what they want.

I hope he voices disagreement more now when he feels it, if it takes Priyanka/Sumbul then so be it, eventually I hope he talks it out with them and mainly realizes Sajid is playing him.

Liar sumbul. Dar rahi hai abdu ki popularity se and same with priyanka.you never know audiece so don't ever say that log bacha lenge.

Aaj pehli bar tina abdu se bat karte hue cringe nahin lagi.

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

I definitely don’t hate or dislike him, I still find him cute, it’s hard not to tbh. I might go out on a limb and say if it wasn’t Abdu, I would have probably bashed him for being a spoilt sport but he’s adorable kya karun.

You’re absolutely right. In the first week he got attention and affection from all HMs, then in second week somewhat more. However soon HMs started having their own issues and fights so their focus wasn’t on Abdu. It’s so easy to feel left out because you don’t know the language. You have to make extra effort to interact and people have to take that effort to explain things to you.

My only hope is after he calms down, he realizes what he needs to channel his focus on. But I’ll tell you this, BB has brought him to be cute, not to think. They say treat him like an adult but really we all know what they want.

I hope he voices disagreement more now when he feels it, if it takes Priyanka/Sumbul then so be it, eventually I hope he talks it out with them and mainly realizes Sajid is playing him.

yaar kafi log aise react karte hain and they are all wrong, including abdu. you got nominated chalo ab agey barho. gautam ko dekho kaise sulk karta phir raha hai 😆

yeah, now the hms don't pay as much attention to him. he has to go to everyone and talk to them and include himself in whatever is happening. idk about the LF, but episode mein to we rarely see people taking the initiative to include him in discussions and things. & they don't always explain or translate stuff for him. kabhi karte hain, kabhi thora bohat karte hain, kabhi bilkul nai karte, or kabhi to ghalat bhi karte hain. like sometimes sajju playfully just says anything to him and moves on, even though what he says in english isn't what was said in hindi.

if he does want to play and wants to be project more than that cute image of his, then he does need to channel his energy and anger towards the right people. bold - reaaaally want this to happen. he should have told sajju today that he is upset with him. he discussed this with shiv and stan but told sajju that they are all good. i wonder if deep down he does know that sajju is playing him because he does seem smart that way. he is decent at reading people and their intentions when he's not mad at them lol

I love Shiv Abdu bond. It is so pure and it's visible.