Vishal is sleazy - Page 7

Originally posted by: PranPriye

Telling Jay that have I spoken about anyone with you while speaking about Vishal. Teja was the one who had hugged Pratik in a weird manner before that Vidhi bathroom kand. I feel Teja has become aware of how poorly this is coming across on the screen & also seems miffed that Vishal commented something about her humour.

As for Vishal hugging her, I completely agree with her. She was so uncomfortable & kept pushing him away but he still continued. That was disgusting. He needs to respect consent & personal space.

In her conversation with Jay she was referring to back biting. Right now was the first time and she was pointing it out that it is not a habit of hers but genuine concern.

So Teja has suddenly become aware? how come? yes she might be miffed but she was also really uncomfortable when vishal was flirting with her. A lot of times women excuse such behaviour thinking it as a mistake or something one off. When it has happened repeatedly she is finally voicing her concern and now suddenly she is the bad guy? this is precisely the reason woman don't speak up. Before seeing the mans actions everyone will question the woman.

Bold: I am glad you recognise where the problem lies... but I genuinely request... beyond the show..beyond your feelings for Teja. This is not the time to bring up concerns like that. Regardless of what she is thinking or doing (though I don't agree with your analysis but that is a discussion for later) the bottom line is she is uncomfortable and Vishal needs to back off.

Let us not move the focus from the issue at hand. SHE IS UNCOMFORTABLE. HE NEEDS TO LEAVE HER ALONE.

Originally posted by: Shiner

I find this behaviour of fans extremely stupid.

Teja herself has indulged in dirty behaviour with vishal. Massage video is biggest proof. Kitchen video with pratik akasa is second proof. So when the man does or reciprocate then he becomes creepy ? Such double standards.

Reciprocate?? really!? the man has initiated everything. from day 1 people have noticed his behaviour... Vishal and Teja got close recently... and a lot of times women don;t flag this behaviour immediately in order to give the person some slack. But repeatedly even Teja is finally done with his nonesense. And when she finally speaks up for herslef - everyone ignores the issue at hand and questions her behaviour...victim blaming much?

she was leading him on! she was doing such dirty things with him... okay maybe she was...but when she pushed him from a hug not once not twice what did he do? still invade her personal space and hug her again. When she told him to stop flirting with her...what did he do? continue to the point she became extremely uncomfortable.

Maybe yesterday his antics were welcome by her but today they are not... so he need to back the hell off! No means No.

Originally posted by: 07RB

Exactly. Vishal is at fault but now she doesn’t become a victim after becoming a equal participant in the incident. First she did gave him the liberty and if she doesn’t liking it she just needs to clearly tell him

she told him.. not once but twice... if he doesn't understand she needs to resort to other means such as taking help from another man aka jay

Originally posted by: lovereading14

and here we go with the victim blaming. Why was she doing this? why was she doing that? why was she wearing such clothes? she must have tempted him! she must have encouraged him! she was entertaining him! she was leading him on! he is saint she is the witch!

Wow. Wearing short clothes is exactly the same as sitting cozily with a guy and pretending to have an orgasm. That too repeatedly. Yes, the two are exact same parallels. 🤪

Hats off!! 👏

Originally posted by: Mahisa_22

Wow. Wearing short clothes is exactly the same as sitting cozily with a guy and pretending to have an orgasm. That too repeatedly. Yes, the two are exact same parallels. 🤪

Hats off!! 👏

wow! taking my post out of context... that is what we resort to when being called out???

Let me make it simpler. Yes, maybe she was sitting "cozily" with Vishal. Whatever "cozily" means to you. That itself is a form of victim blaming. Just like pointing out someones choice of clothes when something happened to them. It is saying like she brought it on herself to be harassed.

Maybe she was comfortable with Vishal at first, but the line got blurred and she no longer feels comfortable. At any stage a no means no! Now that she has told Vishal to back off not once but twice why the hell isn't he leaving her alone???

I'm sorry to say Teja is wrong in this pehle khud dosti karo baad mein chugli karo ki you don't like Vishal usse mana karti par nahi sab ko bol rahi hai par usko nahi🙄

Originally posted by: lovereading14

wow! taking my post out of context... that is what we resort to when being called out???

Let me make it simpler. Yes, maybe she was sitting "cozily" with Vishal. Whatever "cozily" means to you. That itself is a form of victim blaming. Just like pointing out someones choice of clothes when something happened to them. It is saying like she brought it on herself to be harassed.

Maybe she was comfortable with Vishal at first, but the line got blurred and she no longer feels comfortable. At any stage a no means no! Now that she has told Vishal to back off not once but twice why the hell isn't he leaving her alone???

Yeah, let's pick out "cozily" and completely ignore the "making orgasmic sounds" part. I see where we're going with this. Nice.

No normal person sits and make exaggerated orgasmic noises with some person they barely know. That's not OK.

SHE is the one who INITIATED the sleazy stuff here. Vishal maybe a dumbass, but she was the one who started all this. I don't like Vishal and don't pay much attention to him. But I find this ridiculous.

Originally posted by: riddhan

I'm sorry to say Teja is wrong in this pehle khud dosti karo baad mein chugli karo ki you don't like Vishal usse mana karti par nahi sab ko bol rahi hai par usko nahi🙄

Vishal is just like another contestant to her.....why she cant be friends at start? She was uncomfortable with him and kept pushing multiple times in live feed.....if he dont understand what she can do? Sharing her pain became chugli...wow👏

She might tell it to Vishal also directly but then what is wrong in discussing with her friend?

Originally posted by: Mahisa_22

Yeah, let's pick out "cozily" and completely ignore the "making orgasmic sounds" part. I see where we're going with this. Nice.

No normal person sits and make exaggerated orgasmic noises with some person they barely know. That's not OK. SHE is the one who INITIATED the sleazy stuff here. Vishal maybe a dumbass, but she was the one who started all this.

Okay. Lets say she started it. Lets say she was the one who hugged him lets say she started the orgasmic sounds lets say it was her who initiated everything.

now that she initiated everything she no longer find comfortable carrying on. she has told vishal to not hug her again and again. she told him to no longer flirt with her. did he stop? No!

Look, I don't want this to be an internet fight just for the sake of it, that we forgot once we keep our phones away. I am genuinely trying to put a point across about consent and right and wrong. It really doesn't matter whether she initiated it or not. The point is she has tried to put a stop on it but Vishal is not respect her space or her decision.

No means No.

Originally posted by: Sushma_Reddy

Vishal is just like another contestant to her.....why she cant be friends at start? She was uncomfortable with him and kept pushing multiple times in live feed.....if he dont understand what she can do? Sharing her pain became chugli...wow👏

She might tell it to Vishal also directly but then what is wrong in discussing with her friend?