I am just appalled by how controlling she is. She hasnt learnt to let go, and i am surprised looking at her behaviour at the age of 40. By this age, I believe you gain enough life experience to learn to let go of things and move on. And stop being overtly controlling and judgemental. When I see her interacting with poor chap Raqesh Bapat, I feel pity for him. Hope he gains some perspective and stay away from this kind of toxic relationship. So many times, I see her arguments with Raqesh , and I think to myself, ‘Learn to chill girl’. This attitude isnt going to make your life better. She is a crash course on red flag qualities in a partner. These kind of personalities can never be happy themselves, nor can let their partner be happy.