One question ..

People are accusing Shamita that she actually dominates Raqesh n treats him like a door mat ... But why nobody questions moose n NISHANT ... Nishant also tries n controls moose .. why is tht acceptable ? Is this the Patriarchal dominance which is rather somehow accepted in India .. where man leads n women follows .. but somehow ... Whn a guy follows a women .. then he is Joru ka ghulam n wht not .. n bb house also this is the reality .. Raqesh accepted 2day he was a slow learner or spl child( no offense) it takes a lot of courage n obviously nothing to b ashamed of ... He accepted it .. then Shamita being his partner can help or not .. whether he wants to listen or not his business ... Then when we say Shamita is dominating controlling .. we also need an introspection ...

Good point, ive been saying same Nishant is very sly and manipulates with Moose’s mind. Whenever she expresses her opinion which he differs with he plays emotional games with her. Im pretty sure if given the option to him he will take Moose in BB 15 house because shes a plus one for him who will just follow him blindly.

Outsiders hain , bechare Bata hain ….. unko sab maaf hai

bashing is reserved only for Celebes who has worked in BW ( flop hit doesn’t matter ) . They are elite .

Yup I’ve also noticed that if moose follows Nishant’s orders he is fine but slightest deviation and he gets mad. Yesterday when Moose questioned why he is angry he got irritated but reality is what Pratik implied - once he made the sacrifice he was scared he might leave.

Yes thing to think about which I never did. I am thinking that Shamita is so much more rude and direct and she orders Raq around, that is why it looks so bad. Nish is very manipulative accepted, but he does it much more subtly (which actually may be more dangerous) but I guess becoz he is not as openly rude or childish as Shamita (the dont talk to ppl I dont like nonsense) it doesnt get noticed that much.

Originally posted by: sangs071087

People are accusing Shamita that she actually dominates Raqesh n treats him like a door mat ... But why nobody questions moose n NISHANT ... Nishant also tries n controls moose .. why is tht acceptable ? Is this the Patriarchal dominance which is rather somehow accepted in India .. where man leads n women follows .. but somehow ... Whn a guy follows a women .. then he is Joru ka ghulam n wht not .. n bb house also this is the reality .. Raqesh accepted 2day he was a slow learner or spl child( no offense) it takes a lot of courage n obviously nothing to b ashamed of ... He accepted it .. then Shamita being his partner can help or not .. whether he wants to listen or not his business ... Then when we say Shamita is dominating controlling .. we also need an introspection ...

You're right. I also thought Shamita is manipulative but Nishant is a good player.

Thank you for pointing it out. Maybe my internalised misogyny.

another observation - when Neha wants to save Shamita and Pratik agrees, he's being controlled by Neha

when Pratik convinced Neha to save Moose and Moosa last week, he's being loyal to his friends.

Originally posted by: sangs071087

People are accusing Shamita that she actually dominates Raqesh n treats him like a door mat ... But why nobody questions moose n NISHANT ... Nishant also tries n controls moose .. why is tht acceptable ? Is this the Patriarchal dominance which is rather somehow accepted in India .. where man leads n women follows .. but somehow ... Whn a guy follows a women .. then he is Joru ka ghulam n wht not .. n bb house also this is the reality .. Raqesh accepted 2day he was a slow learner or spl child( no offense) it takes a lot of courage n obviously nothing to b ashamed of ... He accepted it .. then Shamita being his partner can help or not .. whether he wants to listen or not his business ... Then when we say Shamita is dominating controlling .. we also need an introspection ...

Maybe because rakesh is upfront about his discomfort on being controlled whether moose is okay with it

Originally posted by: SanchiIndu

Maybe because rakesh is upfront about his discomfort on being controlled whether moose is okay with it

Raqesh was fine too until recently people started pointing it out

Did he read his family letter out aloud? Maybe that changed him too

And just because Moose is ok with it does not make it right ..she probably doesnt even realises it

Agree. Nishant is extremely sly. He tries to be funny and actually is playing his game all the time.