Shukla And Asim Fight - Page 2

Originally posted by: Polar_Bear

The main issue is that Asim feels disrespected because Sid usually talks at him rather than talking with him. Mujhe nahi lagta ki he does it out of malice but phir bhi aisa ho jaata hai. Aur jab tak ye issue solve nahi hoga jhagde hote hi rahenge. Isiliye ab Asim ka sab gubar bahar aa raha, itne dino ke miscommunication ne resentment bhar diya hai dono ke beech.

Copy pasting my post from DDT for a detailed explanation-

Sid kinda takes his friendship with Asim (and evem Arti) for granted. Kabhi bhi chilla dena, gusse me bol dena ki "let's play solo" vagerah. Ab dheere dheere Asim ki patience bhi kam ho rahi hai.

Upar se usko dikh bhi raha hai ki Sid ka behaviour Sana ki taraf aisa nahi hai. Usse bohot patiently baat karta hai. Aur unka pichla jhagda bhi dhang se resolve nahi hua tha, they had just swept it under the rug, reason bhale dosti bachane ki koshish ho chahe game.

As someone who has been friends with people with similar behavioral pattern I know it gets frustrating after a point. It can affect people's self esteem too, why does my friend not treat me well when they are capable of doing that to other people? There must be something wrong with me.

I'm not trying to blame only one person over a precap but Sid ka behaviour shuru se aisa hi raha hai. Mai ye bhi samajhti hoon ki zaroori nahi ki uske mann me kuch bura hai ya vo jaan boojh ke Asim ko neecha dikhane ki koshish karta hai. Lekin uske actions se Asim ko kya feel ho raha hai ye bhi to important hai. Aur Sid ye dekhne se chook jaata hai.

Sid is a narcissistic and a bully. He can only over power people, he can’t be anyone’s friend or see anyone as equal. It’s asims fault for tolerating him for so long. Should have set him straight when it happened the first time.

Better stay alone then have friends like these.

Coz sid is a hypocrite who talks but walks something else

Told Sana it hurts when you speak to Paras

Demeaned Arti when she sat with Devo

Tells Asim to stay away from Sana

But what does he do, he will talk, dance with anyone

That's what Asim is pissed about. Also he takes Arti and Asim for granted and thinks they are not capable.

You are lucky to be standing with him was what he said Asim the other day. That's what he thinks of him.

Basically he is a hypocrite .

Good that Asim will not take it anymore.

Originally posted by: sunshine333

I agree with the people who think that he doesn’t like Sana and Devo and doesn’t want Sid to hang with them.

Also Sid gets to decide who joins the team and who leaves which Asim is not ok with anymore.

Asim wants to create his own space and sees himself as an equal to Sid. Sid clearly has the upper hand in “their” group and he doesn’t like it.

Salman ki taareef ne aur uksa diya he use. Which is why he is voicing out his opinions/insecurities more.

Asim is right in his own way.

I wish Asim start his own group. Enough of being treated as inferior.

Originally posted by: sunshine333

I agree with the people who think that he doesn’t like Sana and Devo and doesn’t want Sid to hang with them.

Also Sid gets to decide who joins the team and who leaves which Asim is not ok with anymore.

Asim wants to create his own space and sees himself as an equal to Sid. Sid clearly has the upper hand in “their” group and he doesn’t like it.

Salman ki taareef ne aur uksa diya he use. Which is why he is voicing out his opinions/insecurities more.

Asim is right in his own way.

Thankyou. I know you’re a Sid fan. But good on you for recognising they truth.

Asim wants an equal friendship with Sid, also game wise too. Honestly Asim even by his own confessions didn’t expect to make it this far. But now that he has he needs to put forward a more independent stand to move ahead in the game.

Also Asim followed all of Sids plans before so sid thinks Asim should continue doing the same without questioning him, but Asim is disturbed by this changed behaviour of Sid where he’s friends with everyone in the house because Asim partly feels neglected and taken for granted too.

I think for asims sake- he should stay away from Sid. Sid is used to treating Asim a certain way and Asim is clearly not ready to be treated like that anymore, so there’s no resolution.

Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho

Thankyou. I know you’re a Sid fan. But good on you for recognising they truth.

Asim wants an equal friendship with Sid, also game wise too. Honestly Asim even by his own confessions didn’t expect to make it this far. But now that he has he needs to put forward a more independent stand to move ahead in the game.

Also Asim followed all of Sids plans before so sid thinks Asim should continue doing the same without questioning him, but Asim is disturbed by this changed behaviour of Sid where he’s friends with everyone in the house because Asim partly feels neglected and taken for granted too.

I think for asims sake- he should stay away from Sid. Sid is used to treating Asim a certain way and Asim is clearly not ready to be treated like that anymore, so there’s no resolution.

Shukla is right too in his way. He thinks he needs footage and wants to show people his “non aggressive” side which he gets to do with Sana and Devo. Whats wrong in that.

Today too he proved his loyalty to Asim by taking his name disregarding previous fight. He has clarity who he is playing for (asim) and who he is just playing (devo)

Ironically Shukla has turned into Sana and Asim has turned into Shukla. As in Sana used to sit and do “masti” with everyone for footage but said to Shukla I will stand with you when it comes to crucial big money moments.

Asim should have faith in Shukla that he is doing drama for footage otherwise how is he a friend if he can’t read his friends “motives”

If Asim cant deal he should just bail rather than keeping all these feelings bottled up and play his own individual game. Shukla even gave him an out saying “if we ever become enemies on show”

Asim needs to sort his head/feelings and have a heart to heart with Shukla warna choti choti si baat pe woh fatega.

Shukla has not dabao Asim recently he is just doing his own thing. Asim should make peace with it and if too jealous then talk it out, if still unconvinced then bail.

otherwise it doesn’t look good for Asim who is also my favorite btw. Because in this way he looks like unnecessarily fighting and that won’t look good for the audience and he will lose likability.

Originally posted by: HoneY_BeE

I wish Asim start his own group. Enough of being treated as inferior.

Somehow i still want to see them together till the end.

Originally posted by: iheartu

If my so-called friend ever spoke to me like the way Sid did and does with Asim, I would have long back put them right back in their place!! There's something called common courtesy no matter how close you are with the other person.

It's Asim's fault too that he held on with Shukla for this long. Plus, both are acting possessive about each other.

Trust and respect are mutual. There is no hierarchy in friendship.

Originally posted by: sunshine333

Shukla is right too in his way. He thinks he needs footage and wants to show people his “non aggressive” side which he gets to do with Sana and Devo. Whats wrong in that.

Today too he proved his loyalty to Asim by taking his name disregarding previous fight. He has clarity who he is playing for (asim) and who he is just playing (devo)

Ironically Shukla has turned into Sana and Asim has turned into Shukla. As in Sana used to sit and do “masti” with everyone for footage but said to Shukla I will stand with you when it comes to crucial big money moments.

Asim should have faith in Shukla that he is doing drama for footage otherwise how is he a friend if he can’t read his friends “motives”

If Asim cant deal he should just bail rather than keeping all these feelings bottled up and play his own individual game. Shukla even gave him an out saying “if we ever become enemies on show”

Asim needs to sort his head/feelings and have a heart to heart with Shukla warna choti choti si baat pe woh fatega.

Shukla has not dabao Asim recently he is just doing his own thing. Asim should make peace with it and if too jealous then talk it out, if still unconvinced then bail.

otherwise it doesn’t look good for Asim who is also my favorite btw. Because in this way he looks like unnecessarily fighting and that won’t look good for the audience and he will lose likability.

That’s the thing na, Asim stopped talking to anyone Shukla wasn’t friends with and suddenly he sees Shukla in bonhomie with everyone else and he’s perplexed. Also Asim feels that Shukla wants to get Vishal in their group and even Devo, the more members get Added- the more it confuses Asim.

Asim is like a little kid at times, he doesn’t understand Sid’s game( I get that changing his behaviour and showing a lighter side is all part of his game and good for him) but it’s making Asim feel confused.

Also believe it or not, Sid doesn’t talk nicely to Asim. He’s very often rude to him and is barely interested in listening to what Asim has to say. He likes explaining things but doesn’t like listening because he thinks he’s smarter than Asim. Even in tomorrow’s precap he says- 2 hafte se mujhse Har cheez pooch ke karta tha AB kya ho gaya.

So Shukla also doesn’t like his authority being questioned. Asim has reached a point where he can’t be dictated anymore. Also Shukla does treat Sana much better than he treats Asim. Shukla had a problem with Asim when he was making fun of Shukla in front of him with Bhau and some others once( he mentions this in their tiff during transport task) but today when he made fun of Asim( also the same homophobic thing that Paras used to do) it was okay.

Also not just Sana, Shukla is much nicer to Vishal, Bhau, Shefali as well. He’s only very rude to arti and Asim and Asim has reached a point where he can’t take it.

They won’t have a conversation about it because it’s not the first fight. This is the 3rd fight in 3 weeks. They make up without discussing the problems and pushing it under the rug but the issues have been the same. Asim feels Shukla doesn’t value him and his opinion, and doesn’t treat him equally, has a hypocritical standards where things are different for him and others.
Shukla on the other hand doesn’t like listening, especially because he thinks Asim should just understand that Sid is looking out for him, but he doesn’t convey it properly. I don’t see them being able to clear out this misunderstanding between them.

I don’t see them getting back together and being friends unless Sana shifts towards Paras side.

plus BB story wise also seems to be going for Sid vs Asim

Originally posted by: Chotimotipsycho

That’s the thing na, Asim stopped talking to anyone Shukla wasn’t friends with and suddenly he sees Shukla in bonhomie with everyone else and he’s perplexed. Also Asim feels that Shukla wants to get Vishal in their group and even Devo, the more members get Added- the more it confuses Asim.

Asim is like a little kid at times, he doesn’t understand Sid’s game( I get that changing his behaviour and showing a lighter side is all part of his game and good for him) but it’s making Asim feel confused.

Also believe it or not, Sid doesn’t talk nicely to Asim. He’s very often rude to him and is barely interested in listening to what Asim has to say. He likes explaining things but doesn’t like listening because he thinks he’s smarter than Asim. Even in tomorrow’s precap he says- 2 hafte se mujhse Har cheez pooch ke karta tha AB kya ho gaya.

So Shukla also doesn’t like his authority being questioned. Asim has reached a point where he can’t be dictated anymore. Also Shukla does treat Sana much better than he treats Asim. Shukla had a problem with Asim when he was making fun of Shukla in front of him with Bhau and some others once( he mentions this in their tiff during transport task) but today when he made fun of Asim( also the same homophobic thing that Paras used to do) it was okay.

Also not just Sana, Shukla is much nicer to Vishal, Bhau, Shefali as well. He’s only very rude to arti and Asim and Asim has reached a point where he can’t take it.

They won’t have a conversation about it because it’s not the first fight. This is the 3rd fight in 3 weeks. They make up without discussing the problems and pushing it under the rug but the issues have been the same. Asim feels Shukla doesn’t value him and his opinion, and doesn’t treat him equally, has a hypocritical standards where things are different for him and others.
Shukla on the other hand doesn’t like listening, especially because he thinks Asim should just understand that Sid is looking out for him, but he doesn’t convey it properly. I don’t see them being able to clear out this misunderstanding between them.

I don’t see them getting back together and being friends unless Sana shifts towards Paras side.

plus BB story wise also seems to be going for Sid vs Asim

Yes good points 👍

Why all options show Asim started the fight and targeted Shukla?

I think Shukla was rude to him and Asim got pissed off.

And Asim likes playing group group so he is angry Shukla is mingling with other group members.