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Posted: 5 years ago
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They need one support to get through that house and not for nominations but to survive the dreary life in that house. Like Bhau told Shefali2 and Himanshi to stand together like Asim and Shukla did. Not everyone is like Bhau who doesnt need at least one person to lean on. Sana has lost her mojo without that one person who used to be Shukla. Aarti an Asim look to Shukla for the same. Aarti can try with Vishal but he doesnt encourage her. Devo has Rashmi who has Devo and Arhaan. Paras and Mahira are one.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: raam786

not only looks, but his 'personality' & 'qualities' attracts HMs towards him.

Who is this SK - he is in a position of power and they obviously have conflicts of interests for their future.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Priya9.

Aaarti is probably is a good loyal friend, but the most important aspect of a good friendship, is to correct your friend when he or she is wrong. At the moment, it doesn’t come across like Aarthi is that ideal good friend.

Asim maybe trying a sympathy angle, time should tell us

She has expressed her opinions but they always out shout her and don't take her opinions seriously because she is not the kind who would do drama or make a huge cry about stuff.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Priya9.

Who is this SK - he is in a position of power and they obviously have conflicts of interests for their future.

He behaves as per script has been given to him by channel.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: raam786

He behaves as per script has been given to him by channel.

Probably true, but we have a expectation that he stands with truth and justice,

Edited by Priya9. - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Priya9.

Why do Asim and Aarti keep going back to SIddharth?

Both their names start with A 😆, jokes apart, honestly, I don’t the answers myself and stumbled upon this for anyone interested - looks like it’s the intoxicating effect being the chosen one .. for more info read on



Apologies don’t know how to add a disclaimer in my profile, any words of wisdom, hugely appreciated

Disclaimer: I’m not remotely related/connected to any television personality, nor do I have any conflicts of interest when I write here.

My current subject of interest are narcissistic personalities and voicing out against the biasedness in BB show.

Shukla seems to be a textbook case of narcissism. Controlling behaviour,unnecessarily defensive/argumentative,can't take criticism no matter how trivial it is, the mocking dismissive gestures phrases and body language when someone disagrees, and the walk-out. 'bhaad mein jaao sab" "apna rasta ". Not to forget the grandtanding and weird postures as if he owns the world.

Arti has codependency issues for sure. She BLINDLY supports him because she cant think for herself. You can tell she is furious every now and then when he dismisses her points but she seems to be too scared to piss him off. Scared of his 'wrath '. She seems to be desperate for approval.

Asim..Im not sure. He is young so maybe he gets carried away by Shuklas big-bro aura. Huge ,dominating etc. He seems to be eager for approval too but more than that I think its a gender thing with him. Because the house got split in two gangs right at the beginning...and because the other gang was tagged as the 'bahu' gang...with 'auraton wali harqatein ' etc..Asim joined Shuklas gang to announce his mardaangi haha. He seems to be full of stereotypes about gender and masculinity so when an MCP like shukla took him under his wing Asim was only happy to join.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: TrollikaDevi

Shukla seems to be a textbook case of narcissism. Controlling behaviour,unnecessarily defensive/argumentative,can't take criticism no matter how trivial it is, the mocking dismissive gestures phrases and body language when someone disagrees, and the walk-out. 'bhaad mein jaao sab" "apna rasta ". Not to forget the grandtanding and weird postures as if he owns the world.

Arti has codependency issues for sure. She BLINDLY supports him because she cant think for herself. You can tell she is furious every now and then when he dismisses her points but she seems to be too scared to piss him off. Scared of his 'wrath '. She seems to be desperate for approval.

Asim..Im not sure. He is young so maybe he gets carried away by Shuklas big-bro aura. Huge ,dominating etc. He seems to be eager for approval too but more than that I think its a gender thing with him. Because the house got split in two gangs right at the beginning...and because the other gang was tagged as the 'bahu' gang...with 'auraton wali harqatein ' etc..Asim joined Shuklas gang to announce his mardaangi haha. He seems to be full of stereotypes about gender and masculinity so when an MCP like shukla took him under his wing Asim was only happy to join.

Such a beautiful, logical write up, patiently explaining everything in detail. Thank you so much. 🤗

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: Priya9.

Why do Asim and Aarti keep going back to SIddharth?

Both their names start with A 😆, jokes apart, honestly, I don’t the answers myself and stumbled upon this for anyone interested - looks like it’s the intoxicating effect being the chosen one .. for more info read on



Apologies don’t know how to add a disclaimer in my profile, any words of wisdom, hugely appreciated

Disclaimer: I’m not remotely related/connected to any television personality, nor do I have any conflicts of interest when I write here.

My current subject of interest are narcissistic personalities and voicing out against the biasedness in BB show.

Ya I agree intoxicating effect is a good explanation 😜 They are mesmerized by the Messiah of ShuklaPur.smiley36

But that myth looks to be bursting after BiggBoss nominated him for two weeks for violence, may be Asim realized Shukla's not infallible & could be defeated even by Mahira & punished by bb. smiley36

Aarti needs a bigger fall of Shukla to lose faith bcoz she had stronger faith in Shukla. If for some reason Salman really bullies Shukla. Aarti might leave him or stand up against him 😊

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Edited by SoPunk - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago
#29

they keep going back bcz they have burnt their boats for the other group.. and realized they should stop shukla's chamcha giri.. and they have no where else to go lol.. bcz its half the season now

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I think it's because narcissists can often make u feel cherished and act as if they really care abt you... And are your wellwisher... Even though it could be just an act.

Read this - https://drjudithorloff.com/how-to-see-through-the-charm-of-a-narcissist/

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